20-year veteran head teacher: School is about to start, please be sure to tell your children these 6 things

My friend Lao Chen has been a class teacher for nearly 20 years, and has trained 10 to 20 teachers at Tsinghua University and Peking University alone. Yesterday I had dinner with Lao Chen. When we were full, Lao Chen called Rui Rui to his side and said sincerely: \”I know you children hate preaching, but school is about to start, and Uncle Chen still wants to A few long words may not be shocking, but if you listen to it, it will definitely be effective.\” When I heard it, I immediately pricked up my ears, opened up the Ren and Du channels, and silently remembered Lao Chen\’s kind words in my heart. After I got home, I recorded it non-stop. I have to say that I benefited a lot from reading it, and I specially share it with all my parents, friends and children. Regarding knowledge and academic qualifications, many people nowadays are clamoring that \”reading is useless\”. Yes, there are people who have made a fortune without reading any books, but if you count on your fingers, how many of them can you count? Individual cases cannot explain anything, only general phenomena are convincing. As long as you do a simple statistics, you will find that knowledge and academic qualifications are positively correlated with income. A previous joke said: 985 is a soft sleeper, 211 is a hard sleeper, ordinary one and two are hard seats, three is a standing ticket, specialists have to squeeze into the toilet, and others lie on the roof of the train. As long as you get to your destination, no one cares how you got there. But when you graduate and enter the society, you will find: 985 is a plane, 211 is a high-speed rail, ordinary one and two are high-speed trains, three is a direct train, junior college is an express, junior college is a general express, and the rest are motorcycles. Then everyone cares about how far you end up traveling in the same amount of time. Academic qualifications cannot determine a person\’s life, and a diploma cannot completely prove a person\’s ability, but some opportunities are more often reserved for those who have this piece of paper. Don\’t say that you can use time to prove that your ability is no worse than those famous college students. Why should other companies leave the outstanding talents at hand and wait for you to prove yourself? Is it hard to study hard? Many of my students said: \”Teacher, we don\’t hear anything outside the window every day. We study so hard that our voices are hoarse, our hands are disabled when writing, and we have to endure pressure from all aspects. How can we not be miserable?\” Is it called suffering? What does it mean to endure hardship? Think about those poor children in the West. They don’t have enough food, clothing or warmth. They have a shortage of learning resources. In the cold winter, they study in classrooms with no heating and drafts. Their hands are swollen from the cold, but they don’t give up. Look at the podium again. Teachers who have been working hard to get up early for decades, farmers with their backs to the sky, workers on construction sites who endure the scorching sun and sweat profusely, vendors who sell vegetables and fruits in the cold wind, and you, who have a simple diet and are so tired that you are bent over \’s parents. If you look back and think about yourself now, you have heating when it\’s cold and air conditioning when it\’s hot. Can this be called suffering? When clothes come to you, you stretch out your hands, and when food comes to you, you open your mouth. Can this be called suffering? Studying in a spacious, bright, clean classroom, can this be called hardship? Reading books and studying seriously is considered hard work? If this is the bottom line for you to endure hardship, then you will only look up to, envy and envy others in your life. Regarding time, time is the fairest, everyone’s time is 24 hours. Some children use these 24 hours to study, exercise, rest, and gain knowledge.Gain knowledge and lay a solid foundation for your future life. Some children hang out on QQ, browse Weibo, browse Taobao, play online games all day long, and do things that I can do even at the age of 80. When they are 80 years old, they are still forced to make a living and run for their livelihood. I often hear students say that life is still long and the college entrance examination is still far away. It doesn’t matter if I waste a day or two, I will definitely make up for it later. Time cannot be made up, time is wasted and it can never be recovered! When you are fighting in the game and wandering in daydreams, others have already left you thousands of miles away. Don’t always feel that you are still young, still young, or too early to do anything. It doesn’t matter if you waste today, there is still tomorrow. Tomorrow after tomorrow, how many tomorrows are there? If you pin your hopes on tomorrow all your life, you will miss many opportunities and achieve nothing in the end. About mobile phones Mobile phones are communication tools used by adults to talk and chat. They are also used occasionally for entertainment and stress relief. Your world is your parents, teachers, and classmates. You meet and say hello every day. You basically don’t need a mobile phone to maintain your relationship. Moreover, parent-child time and classmate time are far more beautiful than those colorful mobile phone screens. You said that you also want to use mobile phones for entertainment. You have not grown up yet, and your best years cannot be wasted and entertained prematurely. If you choose recreation when you can learn best, and choose comfort when you can endure hardship the most, what awaits you will be a bleak middle age or even old age. Looking for some fun and relaxation? Can. Go to the playground to run and play ball, go to the beach to dig for sand and pick shells, go to the prairie where the wind blows the grass and see cattle and sheep, go to the countryside and look up at the stars… all of these can be done. They can both strengthen your body and cultivate your character. They are all better than the ones on your mobile phone. The bizarre and imaginary world makes sense. Regarding the world of competition, the scariest thing is not that your competitors are smarter than you, but that they are smarter than you and work harder than you! One of my students was admitted to Tsinghua University in the college entrance examination. It can be said that he is very rare here. But after registering for college, I discovered that he was almost at the bottom of the class. The student with the best grades in the class gets up early every day and memorizes English. When you want to give up, be sure to think of those awesome people who go to bed later than you, wake up earlier than you, run harder than you, and are more talented than you. They are already running in the morning light towards the place where you will never be able to do anything but Looking into the distance. About mentality: Life is like a roller coaster. Ups and downs are common. Not every exam can lead you to the top, not everyone can get into a good university, and not every effort will be marked with glory. However, if you have done everything you need to do and sweated everything you need to sweat, then don’t get hung up on a test paper or a score. Doing good deeds without asking for reward. If you bloom, butterflies will come; if you are strong, fate will naturally reward you. Talking about a thousand things is not as good as being able to truly listen to the words and practice them yourself. Your parents won’t teach you everything, and they won’t stay with you all your life. Your teachers have to watch dozens or even hundreds of students every day, and they won’t devote all or even more energy to them. Spend it on you. Your life ultimately depends on yourself.Rely on your own understanding, rely on your own efforts, and rely on your own persistence. We don’t want you to work hard, but you must go all out. We don’t want you to overdraw, but you must try your best. I hope the above words can be of benefit to you and benefit you.