Recently, many friends have sent private messages asking for advice on how to prevent children from being obsessed with mobile phones. This article will talk about this topic. I hope it can be helpful for the cultivation needed, so that children can put down their mobile phones and fall in love with learning. The reason why parents are worried and anxious about their children\’s obsession with mobile phones is because the dangers of being obsessed with mobile phones are too great. Let’s look at a test first: The experimenter put 50…
Month: October 2023
How to enlighten children’s negative and pessimistic emotions
As children grow up, they will inevitably encounter setbacks, failures or other negative emotions. If these emotions are not dealt with and enlightened in time, they may lead to negative and pessimistic emotions. Negative and pessimistic emotions will have a negative impact on children\’s physical and mental health. Therefore, parents need to help their children resolve negative emotions in a timely manner, adjust their mentality, and maintain a positive attitude. Down…
What is the difference between children?
The 2023 college entrance examination has come to an end, but it is not completely over yet. The next day of waiting for the results to be released makes candidates and parents even more anxious and uneasy. Everyone is happy to get the ideal results; if they fail, it will definitely be a heavy blow to those families who have high expectations. It is undeniable that in most people\’s minds, scores determine everything. They think only…
What should parents do when they can’t help but get angry with their children?
A colleague told me a story: a little boy went out with his mother. On the way, the boy chattered and asked all kinds of questions. At first, the mother could answer a few questions, but eventually she got tired of the questions and shouted to her son. : I’m so annoyed. Just play when you go out. Can you stop asking me all the time? On the way home, the little boy saw a toy he liked and made a request to his mother, but…
How to develop children’s self-confidence
There is no parent in the world who doesn’t want their children to be well. However, just because children are \”good\”, parents always unknowingly hurt and hit their children when they are growing up, causing children to have frequent problems, which not only makes children unwilling to study, but also affects their future work and life. Therefore, in the education process, parents must learn the \”three don\’ts\” and only do one thing…
Du Fu failed the college entrance examination and wrote the best poem in history to enlighten countless people.
In ancient times, the imperial examination had two outcomes: passing or failing. Those who won the prize were overjoyed and elated, and their poems were full of joy, such as Meng Jiao\’s: \”The spring breeze is so happy that the horse\’s hooves are so bad that I can see all the flowers in Chang\’an in one day.\” Those who failed were dejected and grumbled secretly, and their writings were full of frustration, like Liu Yong\’s \”The talented poet is naturally the prime minister in white clothes.\” But there is one person who is particularly different. Among them…
How to cultivate children’s self-learning ability
When my son Xiaoming was in the first grade of elementary school, he was a very procrastinating child. After coming home from school every day, he is always listless and unwilling to do any study tasks. His academic performance has also been unsatisfactory, which worries me very much. In order to change this situation, I decided to try some new methods to help him transform from procrastination to efficient independent learning…
What should students do after the college entrance examination?
The college entrance examination is over, no matter what the result is, this level has passed, and what follows is all kinds of relaxation and even \”retaliatory\” crazy release. Psychologists remind you that you should control your relaxation after the college entrance examination and not be too indulgent. At this time of year, some candidates who have just finished the college entrance examination will be in one or another situation, ranging from wasting their time doing nothing to seriously…
Inspiration from Haidian parents’ chicken-baby education
Since the last time we were completely crushed, my father and I have been exhausted physically and mentally. Later, when there were several opportunities for gatherings, I declined them because my son was attending extracurricular classes. This gathering was mainly because the child’s father was short of money. His classmate, the Haidian father who graduated from Tsinghua University, posted a photo in the group of him choosing books for his child in a bookstore. The child\’s father replied: All the books you chose, all for my son…
How parents can help their children go through adolescence smoothly
Some people describe \”adolescent\” children like this: a very mature body and an eighty-year-old brain. In a family, after the children enter adolescence, even if the parent-child relationship once existed harmoniously, conflicts will inevitably continue. The tricks that were once used both soft and hard have almost lost their power among adolescent children. So, how to get along with children, successfully survive adolescence, and welcome…