Children naturally love games. They spent their excess energy in the game (this is what we value very much?) and gained pure happiness. In fact, the value of the game goes beyond that. In the eyes of German philosopher Gross, games are instinctive skill exercises, and children play for future life. They practice the various skills necessary for adulthood in the low-stakes environment of gaming…
Month: October 2023
Am I the worst mom ever?
Some time ago, Thailand released a Nestlé coffee commercial called \”Try a Little Harder\”. This commercial, which lasted 4 minutes and 36 seconds, was said to be incredible, and it was indeed a miracle. As a mother, I read it over and over again, with tears in my eyes and a sour and warm heart. I really want to hug my child right now and say to him: Baby, mommy loves you! The mother in the short play is gentle and beautiful, silently…
Your \”fear of trouble\” is ruining your children!
One weekend morning, I took Rooney to a friend\’s house to play. My friend\’s son, Haohao, is about the same age as Rooney. One day, the two of them played the role of driver and drove, another time, they played the doctor to treat us, and the other time, they played house with kitchen toys. They had a lot of fun. My friends and I were chatting and cooperating with them as passengers, patients or dining customers, and time passed quickly. Suddenly, Haohao came over and…
Dear, no one can \”customize\” a perfect life for your children
\”If you could choose with one click, would you customize a perfect life for your children?\” This is the debate question in the latest issue of \”Qi Pa Shuo\”. I think out of love for their children, many parents will say \”press\”. Parents who have endured hardship never want their children to suffer as hard as themselves. Sometimes I chat with my wife after dinner. We all said that from now on, after the child finishes studying, we will let him have an independent life…
This should be done as early as possible in a child’s life
Sometimes, we find the logic of this world a little interesting. For example, after reading this, I still remember a joke from a mother group: \”Many people seem to be living the wrong life. Spending 5000W to buy a house thinks it is normal to spend 50W to buy a car. Spending 50W to buy a bag thinks it is normal to spend 10W to go to the mahjong table. It feels normal to spend 6,000 to buy a mobile phone…
You have to love yourself enough to be a good mother
\”The Little Prince\” said: Every adult was once a child. In the same way, every mother was once a girl, a woman, a pretty and beautiful woman. If you want to be a good mother, please respect yourself, love yourself, and become a beautiful woman. Give yourself a good external image. Just by looking at your face, you will know whether you are doing well or not. Recently, there was a…
Can you accept that children are not as good as their parents?
This morning, I was chatting with everyone in the mother group about the issue of parenting mentality. Unexpectedly, everyone\’s emotional floodgates suddenly opened, and they all complained: I don\’t dare to watch Moments. Every time I watch it, I get irritated, which affects my mood and parenting. Relationships, simply don’t watch it; seeing other people’s children being excellent and smart will also affect your mood, making you feel envious and jealous… I think both of us are academic masters…
Ode to joy: This is the foundation of parenting, but it is ignored by many parents
Mother Fan in \”Ode to Joy\” especially wants her son to live a good life. So since childhood, she has always responded to her son\’s requests. No matter what you do, your son should be at the center. Therefore, Fan Shengmei has to stick to her brother first in everything. After working, she has to send half of her monthly salary to her brother to buy him a house. Even so, Fan\’s mother still did not forget to educate Fan Shengmei: \”Brother…
\”Ode to Joy\” Parents are not only the starting line for their children, but also their ceiling
Last year, \”Ode to Joy\” became a hit. Five girls from different families, different places, and different personalities came together to bring different visual and psychological impacts to different audiences. Recently, \”Ode to Joy 2\” has been aired again and I have followed a few episodes. While everyone is obsessed with Xiao Bao\’s overall strength, I am increasingly worried about the fate of several girls. In them, I am getting more and more…
My child, I’m not afraid of you growing up, I’m just afraid that I won’t be able to catch up.
One day for lunch, I fried a few of my son’s favorite dishes. I was in a good mood and opened a can of beer. My son looked at me with a smile and sighed, \”Dad, it would be great if I grew up.\” \”Why?\” \”Then we can have a toast!\” I told him before that when you grow up, we will We can drink together. It turns out that the little guy…