A few days ago, when I woke up early in the morning, I went into my study, hoping to do something of my own while the world was quiet. However, before my butt got too hot, my daughter woke up and started to \”haunt her mother\” mode. I had just hurriedly changed her clothes and helped her brush her teeth when the phone rang. It was an emergency call from my partner. \”Oh, that\’s it, okay, okay.\” \”Yi Zi, come down!\” I answered the call…
Month: October 2023
You can tell whether your marriage is good or not by looking at your children.
Happy marriages have the same happiness, and unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes. But for children, the process of growing up only happens once. How does the family atmosphere subtly affect a child\’s personality? When parents are in marital crisis, how can they minimize the harm to their children? At the niwo online meetup, senior psychologist Dong Rufeng gave the answer. …
When our children are sexually abused, we don’t know how to say “no”. Who should bear the blame?
Cases of sexual abuse of young children occur from time to time. Every time it is exposed, we feel inexplicably sad and angry, wishing we could kill the bad guy and be happy. But the problem is, demons are everywhere, scum is everywhere, and crime is all around you and me, making it impossible to guard against. Instead of worrying and condemning, it is better to quickly think about how to let children establish a sense of boundaries and protect children from being violated. This is the key. I remember…
Dong Qing uses \”The Reader\” to tell us: How powerful is the power of words?
The popularity of \”The Reader\” is actually a bit surprising. After all, many people now don’t even want to read books, so how can they listen to others read aloud? Unexpectedly, the show received a lot of praise not long after it was aired. Many people around me who never read books said that they like this program. They will cry and laugh along with the program. They feel that this is one of the many entertainment programs…
\”Mom, is our family very poor?\” Your answer may harm the child\’s life.
Every weekend I go to the nearby hypermarket to do some shopping, hoarding as much necessities as possible like a hamster. Xiaonuo was watching cartoons before leaving last week and was not very willing to go with me. In order to take the child away from the TV, I promised her a small toy. As soon as she arrived at the store, Xiao Nuo couldn\’t wait to pick out her own gifts. As for what to buy, she actually didn\’t know…
How long has it been since you read to your children?
Today, let’s talk seriously about reading. About reading to children. Because I know that many adults have already put down their books and forgotten the fragrance of books. But after becoming parents, many people are lucky enough to pick up books again. We often say that children lead their parents upward. Good parents grow up with their children. Mostly so, because children need to read. So, parents again…
Children are no longer learning piano at the best age. Should parents force it or give up?
Everyone else is learning a talent, but if their child doesn’t want to learn it, doesn’t like it, and doesn’t see any talent, should parents force it? This article applies to various arts and sports talents, such as: piano, violin, art, chess… I received an emergency call from a friend last night, saying that the child was unwilling to learn piano. It has been a pain for both adults and children for a period of time. He persisted, and now he was shaken…
My father is interesting and he is a blessing to the family
In the list of celebrities in the Republic of China, Mr. Qian Zhongshu is probably the most knowledgeable, funny, and crazy person. Mr. Qian has had few living skills since he was a child. He cannot tie bows, holds chopsticks like a child, cannot tell the difference between his left and right feet when wearing shoes, and loses his sense of direction when walking on the street. He is often clumsy, awkward, and full of emotions. Proud bookishness. But just such a man, when it comes to women…
A 9-year-old boy imitated Superman and jumped into a blender. Are you still watching cartoons for your children?
Qiqi (pseudonym), a 9-year-old boy who lives in Changde, Hunan, went to visit relatives with his mother on the afternoon of February 19. Qiqi and her friends were playing in front of a relative\’s house. The neighbor\’s house was being built, and a Yuanxing concrete mixer was placed outside. \”I suddenly thought of a cartoon I had seen before. There was a similar machine in it. Superboy jumped into this…
What happened to those children who lacked love since childhood?
Some time ago, the news that Bi Xixi, a 24-year-old Chinese international student, died suddenly after being beaten by her foreign boyfriend Matthews spread throughout the circle of friends. Last month, this case that attracted the attention of Chinese people around the world finally got a happy result after a 10-day court trial: the murderer Matthews was convicted of murder and sentenced to life imprisonment! However, when Dan’s mother saw this on Zhihu…