A mother told me that she was worried about her children. She had been frugal for many years and was reluctant to buy clothes. She spent all her money on her children. In order for my children to go to school, I took out a loan to buy a house in a school district. Now that the child is in junior high school, his academic performance is not good and he often contradicts her. She felt that the child was too ungrateful. If she died today, does she think the child might not even cry? 01…
Month: June 2024
People\’s Daily: Please read the \”Self-Checklist for Unqualified Parents\’ Behavior\” patiently
Wu Xieyu was executed on January 31, 2024, and the talented scholar from Peking University became a \”demon\” who committed matricide. The final outcome made many people sigh. However, there is also an unknown truth behind this. It is said that Wu Xieyu\’s mother is a very controlling person. She has extremely high requirements for her son\’s study and life, and her parenting style is quite strict. In the long term…
What consumes the most for a family’s children are these inconspicuous little things.
“Energy” is a word that many people are discussing right now. When we are overwhelmed by work, when we are tortured by the trivialities of life and lose patience, we will have extremely high mood swings, inexplicable irritability and irritability, unwillingness to socialize, and difficulty in concentrating on completing the current tasks. Task. In fact, this is a low-energy signal. American psychologist David…
Raising children without any opinion starts from these three things
When children begin to say \”whatever\” frequently, as parents, we can\’t help but wonder: Why are they no longer as active in expressing their preferences and choices as before? \”What do you want to eat tonight?\” Mom asked the child who was watching TV in the living room while busy in the kitchen. \”Whatever.\” The child replied without looking back, as if he was not interested in the question. …
14 suggestions from a parent who has experienced his child’s high school entrance examination (each one hits the mark)
The high school entrance examination is coming soon, and a parent shared with us some of his experiences accompanying his children during the high school entrance examination. I hope his experience can help parents who are about to accompany their children to take the high school entrance examination… A year ago, my child took the high school entrance examination. I was completely reduced to a parent of a third-year junior high school student with no holidays and no weekends, accompanying my children through the high school entrance examination. day…
If parents have these characteristics, their children will most likely be academics.
Yesterday, a friend came to me and cried: \”I\’m so worried. Why can\’t this kid get better grades?\” Their son has been smart since he was a child and can learn everything quickly. For some reason, his grades plummeted after he entered sixth grade. In order to make up for his horsepower, his friend worked hard: a tutor was arranged every day after school, and the child had to write school and tutor homework after class…
What did the parents of a child who solves problems after making mistakes do right?
I have to admit that negative events exposed in the media this year seem to be more frequent than in previous years. Especially topics related to children and teenagers are filled with keywords such as bullying, depression, violence, and suicide. While everyone is shocked, many questions and debates will also arise, such as: What is the neglect of children\’s mental health by society and families…
My 14-year-old son went from being seriously rebellious to a hardworking boy: I did 3 things right, and the method is simple and effective
How many parents are tormented by sudden rebellion when their children enter adolescence? I don’t remember the day when that obedient and considerate child suddenly became rebellious: he began to talk back, lose his temper, become addicted to mobile phones and games, get tired of studying, skip school, and even run away from home… Faced with the various rebellious behaviors of children, Some parents are worried that their children will go astray and start to impose strict…
\”Mom, I can\’t hold it in anymore.\” The different approaches of two parents gave their children different lives
The Chinese New Year is almost here, and the children are on winter vacation. Some friends have already started planning where to take their children during the holidays. But when I go out, what I am most afraid of is taking my child with me, either in the car or walking through the crowds of people. Anyway, I am always in a place with no way to reach the village or the back. The child suddenly opens his mouth: \”Mom, I want to Pee! \”What will you do at this time…
\”Cigarette card\” is another pair of devil\’s claws reaching out to children!
Background: When I first heard \”cigarette card\”, I thought it was a popular social term among adult men. Later I found out that this was actually a new type of \”game\” that has recently become popular among primary school students. On May 18, a primary school student in Fujian accidentally used too much force and broke his finger while indulging in the game \”Cigarette\”… \”Cigarette\” is made from…