A mother discussed a question with me: \”What should I do if my adolescent children become more rebellious with more supervision?\” Li Hua\’s son Xiaojie entered adolescence and began to show obvious rebellious behavior. Once, she asked her son to complete his homework on time, but Xiaojie was addicted to video games. Not only did he not complete it on time, he also ignored her reminder. Li Hua tried to criticize…
Month: June 2024
How terrible is the influence of the original family? Influence the fate of children and determine their life
Satya, the master of family therapy, once said: \”A person is inextricably linked to his family of origin, and this connection may affect his life.\” The imprint of the family of origin will really be passed down from generation to generation. Everyone has their own family of origin, and to a greater or lesser extent, they continue to \”pass on\” the influence of their family of origin to their children. What kind of cause…
What really widens the gap between children is not IQ or diligence, but this underlying ability
As parents, we all hope that our children will be excellent and stand out among many children. However, the reality we have to face is that most children often behave very ordinary. Observing those children who have excellent academic performance, they basically have this underlying ability – logical thinking ability. How to cultivate children\’s logic from an early age…
Yu Minhong: I have told my daughter more than once that you may not succeed, but you must grow.
Give up or continue? My daughter has played piano since primary school and won first place in the \”Vancouver Children\’s Piano Competition\” when she was seven years old. When I was eight years old, I passed the piano level 10 exam. In Canada, Grade 10 is the highest level for piano. At that time, my wife thought that a pianist was going to be born in the family, so she started to increase the dosage for her daughter. Originally I was studying piano for one and a half hours every week, but it was increased to every week…
Children often say 3 sentences, but they are actually asking you for \”help\”. Parents, please don\’t take it seriously.
Parents care about their children\’s healthy growth, not only physical but also mental health. The outside world is fiercely competitive, and parents are also trying to urge their children to make progress. The pursuit of progress and hard work should be the main theme of life. Always observe the child\’s emotional state, observe the signals sent by the child at any time, pay attention to what the child says, do your best to help the child, and become a strong backing for the child. child…
To the very tired junior high school students, the more difficult study and life become, the more important it is to read about Du Fu’s life
There is an old saying: \”When heaven is about to entrust a great responsibility to a person, he must first work hard and work hard.\” The competition faced by junior high school students in our new era is unprecedented. Under the background of the separation of general and professional positions, many of us Students all feel very tired at the end of the day, but when study and life become more difficult, the more we need to draw wisdom and strength from the long river of history. Today, I would like to use Du Fu’s…
Li Meijin: Why are children very smart when they are young but mediocre when they grow up?
In the long history of parenting, every parent has been proud of their children\’s little flashes of wisdom, but one day in the future, they will inevitably feel a little doubt about that dazzling past: \”Why did my child look so dazzling when he was a child?\” Smart, but seem to become mediocre when you grow up? \”This is not just your confusion, it touches the deep fog of parenting. Today, let us…
High school students are all spotted. Here are 5 steps to help your children do homework. If you stick to it for one month, you will see changes.
All academic leaders are not born, but develop step by step through self-discipline. When you see the so-called excellent results of other people\’s children, what you cannot see is the hard work and efforts put in by the parents behind the scenes. Whether you are raising a child with a Buddhist background or a tiger mother with a wolf father, in fact, the most important thing is whether the parents can set strict requirements, and this strict requirement cannot only focus on grades, but on daily life…
No matter how old your child is, if you want your child to become emotionally stable, do these 8 things
In life, we may see that some children have relatively stable emotions, while others may have emotional outbursts at the slightest thing. Each child has a different natural temperament, so their emotional responses to external stimuli are different, which is normal. In addition, no matter adults or children, absolute emotional stability does not exist, because everyone has times when they are emotional or out of control…
It wasn’t until my child entered elementary school that he realized that it is important to prepare his child in advance for 3 o’clock in the “last half year” of kindergarten.
There is a friend who used to be an out-and-out \”baby-sharing expert\”. He always liked to share the daily life of his children in his circle of friends. However, in recent months, this friend has not updated anything. What would make a mother who loves to share stop her desire to share? After asking a friend, I found out that her child had encountered many problems in learning during this period. She…