Our parents often tell us about the hardships they faced in raising us as adults. However, because Chinese people like to report good news but not bad news, and because we don’t want our parents to worry about us, most of us choose not to tell our parents or less about our hardships. As time goes by, our parents do not understand our situation very well, and communication becomes less. Secondly, they will think that you are living a good life. especially…
Month: June 2024
If your child talks back, if you say these 4 words more, he will become better day by day.
When the child first learns to speak, we are extremely surprised and wish he could talk more. But when he could really speak, we were so melancholy that we wanted to cover his mouth. Because his mouth can not only coax you, but also talk back and make you angry to death. You asked him to put on some clothes, but he threw them aside impatiently: \”I\’m hot, do you want to overheat me to death?\” You said it was cold, but he…
The rescue of a third-year junior high school kid made me feel so distressed that I wanted to cry.
On Zhihu, there was a question that invited me to answer: A third-year junior high school child asked for encouragement. After seeing his situation, I felt very sorry for this child, and the more I looked at it, the more I wanted to cry. I\’m in my third year of junior high school and I can\’t hold on any longer… Can you encourage me? The pressure is really great. I really don’t know the use of going to school. After working so hard, I have to work as a cow horse for capital. We are all that cheap…
The child\’s motivation for learning is very weak and he is unhappy when he goes to school. How should parents communicate?
There is a saying in the \”Tao Te Ching\”, \”Misfortune is where blessings depend.\” We have all heard this saying. It means that bad things are the backing of good things. Good things sprout in bad things. The current difficulties or pains have something lurking inside. opposing forces. I want to ask parents a question. Please think carefully before answering: Do you really believe that your child will get better? …
One month before the final exam determines the success or failure of the child for the entire semester! (Parents should read it no matter how busy they are)
Final exams, as a must-pass before the holidays, always make parents and children feel a little uneasy. The final exam is an important test to test the learning results over a period of time, and the results are directly linked to the new semester. Its importance is self-evident. How are the children preparing for such an important exam? What should parents do? Through this article…
Don\’t compete with your adolescent children. When parents start competing with their children, you lose the parent-child relationship.
People always say that adolescence can be confusing, that adolescence is rebellious, and that adolescence is a \”troubled time\” when various problems occur. Adolescence is like a beast and a ferocious bird that troubles this parent. If there are some family changes, the parents\’ marriage breaks up, and the family education is wrong, then this adolescent child may be a time bomb in the family, and there is no telling when it will explode. Fourteen years old is…
On the road of education, no matter how good the teacher is, he cannot teach uncooperative students! (No matter how busy you are, you should read it)
Writer Romain Rolland once said: \”A person can only lead the way for others, but cannot walk for them.\” The same is true for children\’s growth. Teachers can point the way for them, but the real learning process needs to be completed by themselves. If the children do not cooperate, all There is nothing one can do. You know, teachers teach knowledge and answer doubts, but teachers cannot replace us in learning or…
A shortcut to quick learning—Feynman learning method
The Feynman Learning Method is a learning method named after theoretical physicist Richard Feynman. Its core principle is to deepen understanding and memory by teaching and explaining concepts. The basic principle of Feynman\’s learning method is \”learning through teaching\”. Feynman himself believed that if you can\’t explain a concept simply, you don\’t fully understand it. This approach encourages learning…
It has become a fact that children do not go to school, how should we deal with it?
Today, I was chatting with a friend about the child who refused to go to school in the third grade of junior high school. More than half a month has passed, and the child still has not gone to school. There is only one month left before the high school entrance examination. The child also made it clear to his mother that he will not take the high school entrance examination. I can imagine the mother’s despair and anxiety, and I can also understand the child’s resistance to school and fear of exams. If, after the child sends an early warning letter that he does not want to go to school…
If your child has these 3 major signs, it means you are raising an uncultured child. Parents should be vigilant.
Children are becoming more and more ill-educated. What should you reflect on? Recently, everyone often laments that the education level of children is getting worse and worse. In public places, from time to time you may encounter naughty children running around, making loud noises at will, or even deliberately destroying other people\’s belongings. Some parents are helpless and simply don\’t care anymore. What is the reason behind this? As a…