Consultation case: The visitor this time is a young man. He said: \”I am experienced in relationships. I have been in love five times and am currently experiencing difficulties. At the beginning of each relationship, I loved the other person very much. , however, as time goes by, I can always find a problem with my partner – being too strong, which brings me tremendous pressure, and ultimately leads to me…
Month: June 2024
Six things parents should never say no to their children
In the parent-child relationship, mutual communication and understanding between parents and children are crucial. Parents play a key role in a healthy parent-child relationship. However, many times, due to busy work and pressure in life, we may lack in-depth understanding and empathy for children\’s emotions and inner experiences, and thus neglect, misunderstand, ignore or reject some of the children\’s needs and expressions, and…
Successfully enter a key high school: In the second semester of the second grade of junior high school, you must know some unspoken rules…
The second semester of the second grade of junior high school is very important. It is the time when you are most likely to fall behind in the entire junior high school period. It can be said that it basically determines your high school entrance examination results. You must know these unspoken rules early. Don\’t think about working hard again in the third year of junior high school. There are new chemistry subjects in the third year of junior high school, and you also need to conduct a general review. The second year of junior high school accounts for nearly 60% of the content of the high school entrance examination. If you haven\’t grasped the basics, you will collapse even more in the third year of junior high school! 01…
Never, never, never say this poisonous chicken soup to your children, not even as a joke!
A Chinese student\’s trip to an American university was an eye-opener. He arrived at the campus on the day specified by the school, completed the complicated registration procedures, and moved into the school\’s double dormitory. However, a week passed and his roommate still did not show up. Finally, one day a week later, the roommate showed up, and he was not alone, but brought with him a huge family——…
How to raise a mentally healthy child? I suggest you try this little thing more often
Nowadays, mental health status has become an important issue affecting the healthy growth of teenagers. Many children who live a prosperous life are not happy inside. While they are loved and cared for, they are also under tremendous pressure: academic pressure, family conflict pressure, social pressure… We can see this in children at a young age. to the shadow of anxiety. Author of Antifragile Parenting…
If you don’t know how to educate your child, take him to the vegetable market
Mr. Gu Long wrote in \”The Sentimental Swordsman and the Ruthless Sword\”: If a person is desperate and wants to commit suicide, let him go to the vegetable market. The wet market is the most healing place for many people. I feel like walking around the vegetable market can make me feel better. Because it represents the fireworks in the world. Colorful vegetables and fruits are neatly arranged; fish and shrimps in the seafood shop…
Li Meijin: After going to school, children know these things and are destined to be extraordinary
On the journey of raising children, every parent hopes that their children can stand out and become an extraordinary person. The educational philosophy of Professor Li Meijin, a well-known education expert, is like a beacon, illuminating the parenting path of many families. Today, let us explore together how parents should guide their children after they go to school and let them embark on an extraordinary journey of growth! 👣 🌈 Nuclear…
Should children\’s concentration be cultivated deliberately or should it come naturally?
We know that concentration is the front port for children to learn knowledge. Just like a flashlight in the dark, you can see where you turn the switch and shine it. Only when children focus on something can they remember it later. and learning. It is precisely because we understand the importance of concentration that we want to find the most suitable method to strengthen children\’s concentration, which requires…
Parents who support their children are worth all the great education
1. Can you support your children? The old education method of \”good people come out of the stick\” is no longer suitable for educating today\’s children. I particularly agree with one sentence: Outstanding children are the result of their parents’ support. To lift up is to support, to lift up is to encourage, to lift up is to affirm and appreciate the child, which is an educational philosophy that is diametrically opposed to \”stick education\”. I came across a video some time ago, a 1…
Success of parents: If you pay less attention to your children in these matters, your children will become better and better.
In the process of children\’s growth, the role of parents is crucial. However, as children grow up, parents need to learn to let go at the right time and let their children learn to be independent and take responsibility. 1. Self-decision-making ability Parents should encourage their children to make their own choices in small things, such as choosing what clothes to wear and what to eat for breakfast. This helps children develop the ability to make independent decisions. …