Only parents who allow their children to take risks, explore, and try can give their children the courage to withstand the storms of life. After having children, the children have become the weak point of many parents, their tempers are slowly smoothed, and their hearts become softer and softer. Once something happens to a child, no matter how big or small, it is very easy to get nervous. On Zhihu, there is a question \”Destroy a parent to…
Month: July 2024
If children do not endure hardship in childhood, parents will endure hardship in their later years! (Good in-depth article)
There is a saying: No matter how poor we are, we cannot afford education; no matter how miserable we are, we cannot suffer for our children. Looking around, many parents are scrimping on food and clothing, but they don’t blink when buying high-end brand names for their children; they are willing to stretch out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food, and they are not willing to do even a little bit of housework; parents are not willing to go out for a few trips. But when your children need money to travel abroad, they have to sign up even if they borrow money… Like this…
CCTV suggests: What to do if your child doesn’t like studying? Just watch these 6 documentaries to awaken your child’s inner drive and ignite their enthusiasm for learning.
Just a few days into the summer vacation, many families are already in a state of panic. Many parents complain: their children play crazy during the holidays and don’t know how to study at all. Everyday homework and clock-in tasks have to be pushed… The child doesn\’t know any self-discipline, and no one is always watching? How can we let them know the importance of learning? In fact, summer vacation is not only a dream for children…
Children get messed up as soon as they go on vacation, parents just need to do these \”four things\”
A mother asked on Zhihu: What should I do if my 12-year-old child plays with his mobile phone every day during the summer vacation? The mother said: The child is currently in the summer vacation of fifth grade and will enter sixth grade in the second half of the year. The child secretly took away the spare phone at home, and then stayed in his room with the door locked and played with his phone every day. The family was afraid that it would affect her study, so they discussed playing with her for an hour every day, but she refused and started crying and fussing at home…
After the results come out, besides the scores, what else should we see?
After the results come out, are we anxious because: when we see the scores, we only see the scores? When we talk about final exam scores, what exactly are we talking about? When you see the results, you should also see the results clearly. Scores are just a quantitative assessment indicator. Different individuals, different subjects, one indicator, so performance does not equal ability, let alone predict future…
After learning to \”quantify anger\”, the child no longer loses his temper! It is strongly recommended that every parent teach this
This year is halfway through. I\’m surprisingly happy with where I\’m at. I\’m referring to my own emotional state. I almost never ran away, and I never lost my temper with my children. I mean the kind that couldn\’t control myself, hurt the baby, and regretted it afterwards. I haven’t lost my temper with my child’s father much. Just in time for summer vacation, I will reveal the secret of not being angry. Because I realized…
Only by doing these two things can you have a chance to deal with adolescent children.
I once read a story like this: A middle-aged man has always had a harmonious relationship with his son, and the child even worships him as a superman. However, everything changed since my son entered the second grade of junior high school. He began to become rebellious, going against his father in everything, and the air was often filled with the smell of gunpowder. When the wife saw her husband and children in a tense situation, she was worried that something would happen, so she asked her husband to go back…
The boy will be a \”little brat\” until he dies! If there is a boy at home, the mother should be blind, big-hearted and sweet-tongued
Two days ago, I was chatting with a colleague about the topic of \”boys\” in the tea room and recounted all the unconventional behaviors of boys. The two old mothers came to a consensus: those famous internet education bloggers are raising female babies ( If you don’t believe it, try raising a boy?) It’s really different to raise a son or a daughter. I have several second-born mothers around me, first-born daughters and second-born sons. daughter…
What destroys a home is not complaints or internal friction, but these \”cognitive traps\”
A few days ago, a mother confided to me: Ever since I became a mother, I have become less and less able to control my temper. She said: When tutoring her children with homework, she would lose her temper because he made a mistake in writing a word; she would scold her husband when she saw him lying down playing on his mobile phone at home; every time she complained to her husband that he did not help share the burden, his words of \”take care of him\” Family is what you should do.\” You can directly…
Never have a \”head-to-head\” confrontation with adolescent children. Only when parents learn to \”show weakness\” will their children become better.
Adolescent children are so hateful! My son is 14 years old and in the second grade of junior high school. Children who were docile and obedient when they were young suddenly become flammable and explosive, catching fire at the slightest touch and exploding at the slightest touch. Now every day when I get along with my son, I walk on thin ice, for fear that I will not know what I did wrong and make him angry. When he came back from outside, I asked him with concern, \”Is it hot?\” He said…