Every child has his own growth rhythm and rules. Only by understanding this can we truly grasp the true meaning of education. What I share with you today is a classic short poem. If you can\’t help but get angry at your child, first read the following poem \”Don\’t let your child become a tearful snail\”! God gave me a task and asked me to take a snail for a walk. I can\’t walk too fast…
Month: July 2024
Li Meijin: On the road to parenting, children have 5 bad habits, making it difficult for them to be successful when they grow up.
On the road to parenting, family is not only their first classroom, but also the key environment that shapes their character and habits. Some habits formed in childhood, if not properly guided and adjusted, may affect the child\’s future development. The ancients said: \”Wood can be carved, but the disease will be cured; gold can be cast, but the disease will be stained. The wood is molded, the gold will be stained, even if there are good craftsmen to install it? That\’s why…
Children dawdle, procrastinate, and have no sense of time, just because their parents have not done this well
There is a long-term hot topic on Zhihu: When it is time to go to bed, and the children have not finished their homework, will you let your children stay up late to finish their homework? Children who choose homework will not get enough rest, and children who choose sleep will not be able to complete their homework, and more homework will pile up the next day! How to solve this \”dead game\”? The new angle proposed by the author of today’s article may give us some inspiration. Every…
Chinese-style education will not work without reform
Because of a little girl, China’s exam-oriented education was once again whipped and tortured. Recently, a small place called Lianshui became popular just because of a 17-year-old female technical secondary school student, Jiang Ping. The local cultural and tourism department also understands traffic well, and has adopted the slogan “A small river is rich in academics.” In the 2024 Alibaba Global Mathematics Competition, 801 students advanced to the finals,…
When your child swears or speaks cruelly, your first reaction is very important
A mother came to ask a question: When her child gets angry, he will say all kinds of dirty words, \”Mom, I hate you! I hate you! Go to hell!\” What should I do? Would Little D also say such harsh words? In fact, all the children in the world look alike, and Little D has a lot of harsh words. He said to me, \”I hate you!\” When fighting with children, he also said, \”I want…
Discover a worry-free and labor-saving education method: do the same thing with your children, and you will win
It was a friend\’s birthday and I invited several mothers who I usually hang out with to attend. We all also agreed to go back to my hometown to go hiking together on the weekend. But while we were busy planning for the weekend, one mother refused and said: \”That won\’t work. It\’s almost time. The final exam is coming up next week, so I have to study hard at home.\” \”She also had a label on her study table that said…
If your child is tired of school, is depressed, and is addicted to mobile phones at home, will you worry about conflicts with him?
Faced with children who are tired of school and depressed, many parents think like this: I don\’t dare to conflict with my children, I am cautious, for fear of irritating them. But in fact, I was very anxious and could not find the time to communicate with my children. Many issues were not discussed. Not daring to conflict is the current situation of many adolescent families. I think there are two main possible reasons: 1. Parents…
This is how the top academics who take the initiative in doing homework and do not need to be pushed do it! Collect these 8 methods quickly
There is a popular saying among parents: \”If you don\’t do homework, your mother will be kind and your son will be filial. If you do your homework, you will be in a hurry.\” This is especially true in families of primary school students. I once saw such rumors on the Internet: A mother accompanied her child to do homework until she had a headache. She went to the hospital for a check-up and was diagnosed with \”bilateral internal carotid artery spasm\”; a father accompanied his child to write…
The 18 things on this form cannot be taken care of by the mother, but must be done by the father.
There is a sentence in \”Fatherhood\”: The absence of a father is the misfortune of the family, the sorrow of the wife, the sadness of the child, and the depression of society. But in real life, many fathers believe that work and children cannot be taken care of at the same time. Dads say: Wait until you make enough money, wait until you are done with your work, and your mother will be with you… Little do you know…
Once the mother becomes enlightened, the child becomes a dark horse
A mother posted a question on the Internet: \”How can I make my children obedient?\” Among the many comments, there was a favorable answer: \”Change yourself first.\” Parents always want their children to be obedient, but they often forget to listen to their children. . In fact, love is dynamic and requires respect and communication between each other. It should not be a unilateral contribution and sacrifice by parents. Just like Teacher Fan Deng…