Recently, I read a short story that felt sad and true. A 6-year-old boy was sick. His father took him to the hospital and kept asking him loudly in the aisle what was wrong with him. He poked the child in the head every time he asked. He said angrily: \”You don\’t know what\’s wrong with you, you\’ve grown so big!\” \”You can\’t be faking it, you damn kid is about to take the exam and you\’re still pretending to be sick…
Month: July 2024
In families where these three things are often done, it is really difficult for children to become self-conscious…
Procrastination is something everyone has. Even if we are parents, there will be a few moments in our lives when we want to \”dispose of them\”: wash the dishes and chopsticks later; put off work until all night; put off the weight loss plan again and again… put it on the children. , we call this phenomenon \”grinding\”. Children\’s dillydallying is the biggest headache for parents. Some children start…
Don’t let your children grow up to be white-eyed wolves. It’s worth reading 3 times by all parents.
There are always some people who live a youthful and invincible life, and live a glamorous life, but they cannot see the parents behind you who silently support you; in order to let you live a better life, they are still humiliating the world. 1 You live a glamorous life, but your parents are talking down to you. Some time ago, I was chatting with a friend who was traveling with a younger brother in Hokkaido, Japan. I asked him if he was having fun…
After watching \”The Story of a Rose\”, I found a recipe for raising a good daughter
Recently, \”The Story of a Rose\” starring Liu Yifei finally came to its finale. Many netizens joked that Huang Yimei\’s daughter Xiaochu is the real winner in life. My father runs an Internet company, my mother runs a gallery, my uncle opens an architectural design company, my aunt is a senior executive of a large company, my grandparents are professors at Tsinghua University, and I have had a Beijing household registration since I was a child… But in my eyes…
A girl from Sichuan failed the college entrance examination, but her mother’s words moved thousands of netizens: There is no failure in life, everything is God’s will
The results of the college entrance examination are coming out one after another. Some children are crying with joy when they get the gold medal; but some children are missing out and feel that their twelve years of hard work have been wasted. Recently, a girl from Sichuan failed the college entrance examination and became a hot topic. When she was checking her results, she collapsed to the ground and burst into tears because her scores were so different from her expectations. She cried and choked: \”Mom, I almost went to bed…
What skills are good for girls to learn, with high employment rate and good working environment?
As competition in society becomes increasingly fierce, most students hope to find a stable job after graduation to avoid unemployment immediately after graduation. When everyone fills in the college entrance examination application and chooses a school and major, they must consider all aspects in advance. Teacher Xiaoyu receives a large number of inquiries from parents every day, and a large number of them are planning volunteers for their own girls. Parents\’ concerns about girls\’ future development…
Positive parents are the lucky ones in their children’s lives
Negative energy is contagious. When you are shopping with a friend, and the other person suddenly becomes depressed, and you lose all interest in an instant; when you take a taxi, and the driver keeps honking the horn angrily, you will suddenly feel stressed in the back seat; when your partner goes to work After being criticized and feeling low pressure after returning home, you may also be unhappy… Plants grow toward the sun. The same goes for people, big…
Don’t let our anxiety and over-education cause children to lack basic living abilities
In 1999, Jim Hancock, a sociologist and veteran church youth worker, pointed out in his book Raising Adults that if we think we are raising children, what we end up with is children; instead, he urged, our task is to educate adults. sounds…
In the 6 years of primary school, which stage is the most critical and what should be focused on at each stage?
First grade: Adapting to campus life. First grade is the stage of transition from kindergarten children to students. It is not difficult to see from the textbook that the knowledge in first grade is very simple. The focus of this period is not on learning knowledge, but on getting children accustomed to learning and life. , develop good study habits. Second grade: Continue to develop habits and prepare for the third grade. We often hear that there is a third grade phenomenon, which is…
Smart parents never show off these three things to others. This is wisdom.
When a child achieves success, has a promising future, and gets good grades, parents have an inner desire to announce the good news and want to share it with everyone. This is also normal psychology. Close relatives or friends will congratulate you, but showing off too frequently may cause some people discomfort. Parents who show off their achievements may want to be recognized by others…