Advice from a Chinese teacher: New semester, new textbooks, plan this way without anxiety

It’s a new semester again. One of the biggest features of this semester is that some grades have begun to use new textbooks. I see in the parent group that some parents are anxious again. In my opinion, the important reason for anxiety is: thinking too much and doing too little. The important reason for doing too little is: not knowing what to do. In response to this problem, I will give you some tips from the perspectives of teachers and parents…

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Spirituality is a precious asset for children. Parents should do 4 things with their children to raise children with spiritual energy.

Spirituality is the best gift God gives to children. Every child is full of spirituality when they are young. They are full of curiosity about the world and have a strong thirst for knowledge. Their feelings are keen and their emotions are delicate. However, as the children grow up, this spirituality changes. Some children are still full of spirituality, smart and cute; while some children have become dull-eyed, slow to react, submissive…

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Children quietly get better, starting from parents quitting these 5 speaking tones

There is a line in the American TV series \”The Big Bang Theory\”: \”It doesn\’t matter what your intentions are. What matters is how you make me feel.\” I think this sentence is also very suitable to describe the true feelings of many children in the parent-child relationship. Feel. Few people would doubt that Chinese parents care about their children. Unfortunately, many children never feel loved in their families. I…

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How to catch the second grade of elementary school?

As a second grade parent, do you also have the following confusions? Learn how to catch it? How to do reading, whether to learn English or not, how to arrange time after class, children who don’t like doing homework but want to play, etc. Here, I would like to share my opinions. If there is any question I have not written, you can leave a comment in this article to add it. Let\’s communicate together. 1. Spend more time outdoors and pay attention to eye health. I think this…

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When dealing with adolescent children, don’t go in the wrong direction. The parent-child relationship is above all else.

A deputy director of Tongji Hospital, after treating many \”problem\” children, expressed this emotion: \”Whether children have behavioral problems or emotional problems, many of them are relationship problems.\” Once, a patient The parents wiped away tears as they recounted their children\’s crimes. I am taking online classes at home, the teacher is taking roll call, and my son is sleeping on the table. After a few scoldings, my son started to fall…

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A good father, who often does this with his children, is worth all the great education. All fathers should take a good look at it.

A good father should do this often with his children! In family education, the role of father is often ignored. Psychologist Gerdi once said: \”The presence of a father is a unique existence and has a special power in cultivating children.\” The father\’s company is the source of a child\’s childhood happiness, and no material can shake it. The father\’s position in the child\’s heart. …

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How to effectively communicate with the head teacher? Remembering four things to say and four things not to say will be of great benefit.

I believe many parents will be confused about whether to communicate with the teacher? I don’t know what to say, how to say it, and when to say it? Good communication not only allows parents to have a more comprehensive grasp of their children\’s dynamics at school, but also enables teachers to have a deeper understanding of their children\’s personalities, needs and potentials, thereby jointly paving a solid path for children\’s all-round development. In fact, parents often ask the class teacher…

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The head teacher said frankly: If junior high school students want to get into the first echelon, they must have the ability to learn independently!

My neighbor\’s child has been receiving tutoring classes outside school since the second grade of elementary school, and his grades are also very good. In junior high school, there was a lot of school homework. The parents felt that the children were too tired, so they stopped the extracurricular tutoring classes. However, after this stop, the children\’s grades plummeted. Later, I discovered that my child had developed the habit of relying on extracurricular teachers since he was a child. To put it bluntly, his knowledge was instilled by teachers. …

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After a quarrel with my 13-year-old daughter, I realized: Never confront adolescent children head-on. The biggest thing a parent can do is…

\”When will this annoying adolescence end?\” Not long ago, I saw a mother\’s request for help on Xiaohongshu. Her daughter is in adolescence and has been unable to communicate properly for a whole year. When I get home every day, my children spend most of the time locked in their rooms and refuse to communicate. The few conversations they have are basically making requests to their parents. Once they refuse…

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When dealing with adolescent children, if parents stay calm and do not magnify their children\’s problems, their children will get better and better.

Yesterday, my eldest daughter’s math teacher came to see me and sent her her homework. Three of the five basic questions were wrong. Let me pay more attention to my children and relax when school starts. After I got home from school and had dinner, I calmed down and said calmly: \”This is what the teacher sent to my mother, please read it.\” She explained herself that it was a wrong question in the preview. I said nothing more. In the long journey of children\’s growth…

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