We know that concentration is the front port for children to learn knowledge. Just like a flashlight in the dark, you can see where you turn the switch and shine it. Only when children focus on something can they remember it later. and learning. It is precisely because we understand the importance of concentration that we want to find the most suitable method to strengthen children\’s concentration, which requires…
Year: 2024
Parents who support their children are worth all the great education
1. Can you support your children? The old education method of \”good people come out of the stick\” is no longer suitable for educating today\’s children. I particularly agree with one sentence: Outstanding children are the result of their parents’ support. To lift up is to support, to lift up is to encourage, to lift up is to affirm and appreciate the child, which is an educational philosophy that is diametrically opposed to \”stick education\”. I came across a video some time ago, a 1…
Success of parents: If you pay less attention to your children in these matters, your children will become better and better.
In the process of children\’s growth, the role of parents is crucial. However, as children grow up, parents need to learn to let go at the right time and let their children learn to be independent and take responsibility. 1. Self-decision-making ability Parents should encourage their children to make their own choices in small things, such as choosing what clothes to wear and what to eat for breakfast. This helps children develop the ability to make independent decisions. …
Dealing with adolescent children: This is what children need
I have written a lot of articles about getting along during adolescence. The core purpose of accepting, understanding, accompanying, and loving children is actually one, which is to let parents establish a good relationship with their children first. Only when the relationship is good can you communicate. If the relationship is not good, no matter how good the relationship is, it will be useless. Today I share the deep needs of children. Children need their parents to see the desire behind their behavior. The famous American psychologist…
The fastest way to ruin a child is to allow him to do these two things. Parents, don’t believe it.
\”How can we be parents if we are born without education, raised without education?\” This sentence profoundly emphasizes the importance of parents in their children\’s education. It is difficult to raise a good child, but it is easy to ruin a child. We have seen too many children drop out of school early and wander around because of neglect in education. When they reach the age of starting a family and starting a business, their lives are miserable…
Children of \”prosperous parents\” have three obvious characteristics, and every parent will be very lucky.
I saw a saying on the Internet: Don\’t worry about not being able to raise children, because as soon as some children are born, they are a blessing to the parents and the family. Until now, I would have scoffed at this statement. After all, the birth of a child means investing more energy, time, and money, as well as taking on the responsibilities of being a parent. It is not as simple as saying, let alone \”superstitious…\”
Since taking the lead in helping her daughter skip homework, she has become more self-conscious!
Recently, I talked with a friend about staring at children doing homework. After listening to my sharing, she was quite surprised and said, \”As a parenting blogger, you actually took the lead in helping your daughter avoid homework?\” When D first returned to China to enter the first grade of elementary school, her Chinese writing was relatively poor. Once she made 4 mistakes in dictating in class, and the teacher asked her to go home and correct them. She had to write about 5 words for each word…
Behind all children\’s emotions, there is an underlying need
“When my child loses his temper, I get a headache!” – Many mothers complained in the WeChat group that children’s emotional problems have become a common problem in modern families. Is the child acting unreasonably, or is there an unmet need behind it? 01 Lost Home Once upon a time, there was a peaceful forest where various animals lived. There is a little bird, every morning…
The more the mother says these two words, the more disobedient the child becomes!
Many times, disciplining children is just a matter of a few words. If you speak appropriately, you can not only easily help your child get rid of bad habits, but you don’t have to break your skin; if you speak inappropriately, you will talk more and more, and the more you talk, the more useless you will be. In the end, the parents will be angry, but the children will still be angry. No entry… Many parents always blurt out two words when disciplining their children, but these two words are what the children…
When faced with disobedient children, this \”empathy technique\” is 10,000 times more effective than reasoning
To be honest, what is cut off is the parent-child link. A few days ago, I took my son to the supermarket to buy things. Suddenly I heard a burst of crying. It seemed that the situation was probably that a little boy really wanted a car toy, but his mother refused to buy it. At first, the mother was quite patient and patiently reasoned with the little boy: \”We have so many small cars at home, we can\’t buy any more.\” \”Look at how small this car is…