I once saw a joke on the Internet: The ideal image of a parent\’s child – healthy and sunny +5 points; self-discipline and diligence +5 points; making parents look good +10086 points. It is precisely because of this that many children are \”forced\” to look good to their parents since childhood. In some clients, I often see the bad effects of doing so: For example, in order to make their parents…
Year: 2024
The most ignored educational truth: Raising children depends on the emotional value of parents
\”It\’s great that you actually did it before I said anything!\” \”Don\’t worry, you can do it step by step!\” \”You are very capable, just do it when you think of it. Awesome!\” A mother in Liaoning was helpless with her rebellious third-grade son, and her reprimands were ineffective. So, she did the opposite, picked up a book of \”Praising Quotations\” and praised her son accordingly. …
2,000+ ways for a 6-year-old to learn Chinese characters painlessly and not to be missed
I know more than 2,000 Chinese characters before school. Because of the large amount of literacy, reading is effortless, and the children also fall in love with independent reading. Don’t envy such children, your family can easily do it with the right method. Some parents will regard literacy as a task and require their children to know how many words they must know every day. If they cannot recognize it, they will be in a state of confusion. This will undoubtedly dampen their children\’s interest in literacy. we need to…
The secret of growth: Happy labor, lighting up children’s future
On the first day of the holiday, I accompanied my niece to sort out the wrong questions. One of the questions was about the relationship between labor rights and obligations. We are somewhat interested in designing labor education activities. If there are students on duty at school, how will they be arranged at home during the May Day holiday? We are afraid that children will be exposed to too many electronic products and be surrounded by a wealth of entertainment activities. Afraid of going out for fun and delaying homework progress. It can be said to be full of worries&…
What are children procrastinating to protect?
01 What is procrastination? Procrastination is a common psychological phenomenon. It refers to people deliberately postponing or delaying actions when facing some important or difficult tasks, and choosing to do something irrelevant or pleasant. It reflects the imbalance in people\’s motivation, emotion, cognition and behavior. Chen Mo, a child and adolescent education consulting expert, believes that delay may…
The biggest sorrow for children is not that the family has no money, but that parents let these three kinds of privacy be revealed to the outside world at will.
What is the greatest sorrow when a child grows up? Many parents may say that the greatest sorrow must be that the family has no money. Because if there is no money, the child\’s food, clothing, housing and transportation will not be guaranteed, the child\’s life will be very difficult, the child\’s learning conditions will be poor, and the child will be unhappy. But in fact, although money is very important and almost \”omnipotent\”, it is not…
66 heart-warming words to encourage your children to work hard, and teach you how to become a parent with high emotional intelligence.
Carnegie wrote in \”Human Weakness\”: \”Trying to get close to those who understand you, trust you, and encourage you will have a great impact on your future success.\” This sentence tells the fact: Adults still need Understanding, trust and encouragement, not to mention children whose mental development is not yet mature. Geniuses are encouraged by parents. I once asked in a circle of friends…
How to make children feel loved? Remember to say these 4 sentences often
\”You must be independent in personality and dependent emotionally.\” This is a sentence from the book \”Every Child Needs to Be Seen\”. Author Gordon Neufeld explains: (Child) Maturity is a process full of contradictions. True independence and separation happen to begin with dependence and attachment. For example, before parents help their children face sleeping in separate beds and separation anxiety at school, they must first satisfy their children…
How to make children better
In education, we must learn to have love, empathize with children, and encourage them more. Doing so will make your children better. Empathy narrows the psychological distance. Empathy is the emotional link between people. Parents\’ understanding and care can make children feel respected and accepted, which can lead to a sense of joy. The child\’s mental development is not yet fully mature, and his understanding of himself sometimes depends on adults…
If a child has these kinds of behaviors, it shows that he really lacks love, and his parents think he is very good.
Part1 The story of Kong Rong letting pears go is well known to all women and children in China. When Kong Rong was four years old, he knew that he was the younger brother, so he should take the smaller pear and give the larger one to his older brother. This story has always been used to show the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation of respecting the elderly and caring for the young, and has been passed down from word to mouth. First of all I\’m a little skeptical about the veracity of this story, I\’m thinking a four year old really…