Hugs make us feel really good. When we are sad and disappointed, a warm hug can reduce physical stress and pain. When we are happy or rejoicing, we hope to share our joy and pleasure with others through hugs. But besides warmth and intimacy, hugs have many other benefits. For younger children,…
Year: 2024
How to raise a child with a strong heart, parents should regard these 6 sentences as mantras
There is a very popular question on the Internet: What kind of person do you want your child to become? In the past, I would have answered without hesitation: excellent. This word generally refers to success in the secular sense. But after raising children for ten years, I found that compared with so-called excellence, the child\’s inner strength is the most important thing. In the book \”Maybe You Should Talk to Someone\”, American psychologist Lori Gottlieb…
The greatest happiness for a child is to be allowed to do these 4 things in childhood
Austrian psychologist Adler said: Happy people use their childhood to heal their lives, and unhappy people use their lives to heal their childhood. Childhood only happens once, and a child\’s life cannot be reversed. In the journey of childhood with no turning back, a child\’s greatest happiness may be to be allowed to do these things… 01 To be allowed to think wildly. Every child is born with imagination,…
When your child coughs at the turn of spring and summer, don’t give these eight foods to your child, pass them on to your parents!
It is common for children to cough at the turn of spring and summer. Many parents often use various so-called \”effective\” methods to treat their children\’s diseases. Parents, please note that many foods not only cannot help children recover, but will instead make their children\’s conditions more serious. Eight things to avoid when your child is coughing! One taboo: Eat cold drinks or frozen drinks when coughing. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that coughs are mostly caused by…
When dealing with adolescent children, parents should have \”fairy thinking\”
During dinner a few days ago, I casually asked Cheng Zi about something he was very concerned about and how it was going recently. Unexpectedly, Chengzi encountered some little trouble in this matter, so I helped him analyze it and give him some ideas. Obviously, for Orange, my perspective is very helpful to him. After a pause, Chengzi talked about another thing that had been bothering him recently. This matter is a little more complicated…
Use 2 bowls of soup to nourish the spleen, and your child will have good health
Grain Rain has passed, and the hot and humid weather is becoming more and more obvious, which is a big challenge for children, especially those with poor spleen and stomach function, who often accumulate food and internal heat. Before summer, we must seize the time to strengthen the spleen and stomach in order to cope with it. The wet and heavy environment will last for a long time. Today we will talk about how to correctly help children maintain a good spleen and stomach. Dampness and heat are getting worse, beware of exogenous dampness and endogenous dampness…
From food accumulation, internal heat to spleen deficiency, the root causes are all here. The three-stage treatment idea is much more reliable than simply eliminating accumulation.
From food accumulation, internal heat to spleen deficiency, the root causes of children are all here. The three-stage treatment idea is much more reliable than simply eliminating accumulation! Food accumulation needs to be dealt with in stages. I have been seeing pediatricians for 40 years. I have found that most of the problems in children are closely related to food accumulation, especially those with adenoid hypertrophy, allergic rhinitis, and spleen deficiency. The initial fluctuations in their condition are completely Depends on the child\’s food accumulation…
If a child often says these three sentences, it shows that he has low self-esteem deep down. Parents should pay more attention to this.
Some of the words a child often talks about may actually reflect the child\’s inner world. Recently, a mother has been complaining a lot. No matter what I asked my son to do, he would blurt out as if it was a conditioned reflex: \”I can\’t do it! So what?\” Although she said it easily, this mother knew how much her son cared. \”I will guide him…
I discovered a cruel phenomenon: children hate the 4 things their parents say the most. I hope you never said a word.
The 4 things children hate most from their parents. I hope you never said any of them. Parents’ words and deeds have a profound impact on children’s personality shaping. Sometimes an unintentional remark may leave an indelible shadow on a child\’s young mind. Children\’s hearts are sensitive and fragile. When we get along with children, we must pay attention to our words and deeds, especially avoid…
Chocolate is delicious, but don’t give it to children under this age…
As the Chinese New Year is approaching, some chocolate candies are always prepared at home; when visiting relatives and friends, children will also receive many chocolates from relatives and friends. The chocolate has a rich aroma and a delicate and silky texture. Children can\’t wait to taste the delicious food as soon as they get it, and they can\’t stop eating it. This makes many parents worry: Can children really eat chocolate? How much can you eat at one time? It is said that in chocolate…