Just after the final semester, I took my children to the swimming pool and saw this scene: A seven or eight-year-old girl stood in front of the freezer at the entrance of the supermarket and insisted on buying an ice cream. The mother\’s attitude was firm and she refused: \”No, it\’s too cold. It will make your stomach hurt if you eat it.\” The girl refused to leave and continued to beg her mother: \”Can I just take a small bite? I have never eaten before.\” Mom. ..
Year: 2024
Li Meijin: Cultivate self-disciplined children and adhere to the \”4 rejections\” principle. 90% of parents regret not seeing it earlier.
A mother and I discussed a topic: \”How to raise a self-disciplined child?\” This Shanghai mother cried to me that her son Xiaojie is in fifth grade this year. When he comes home from school every day, Xiaojie always turns on the TV first and is addicted to He did not start doing homework until Ms. Zhang came home from get off work and urged him to do cartoons. Even under the supervision of his mother, Xiaojie is often distracted, drinking water for a while,…
My child has nosebleeds, do I need to worry about leukemia?
Seeing that their children had nosebleeds again, the parents were inevitably at war with each other: \”No way, we didn\’t do anything wrong, it\’s definitely not my child\’s turn!\” \”Ah! There\’s a house upstairs that smells so heavy from the decoration, it\’s so overwhelming. What should I do if I really have leukemia? \”For various reasons, leukemia always appears very frequently in movies and TV dramas, and it always starts with nosebleeds. Our pediatrician…
Do you need help from the elderly to raise an autistic child? What should I do if I don’t agree with the elderly’s ideas?
This topic must be felt by every parent: children are on the spectrum and require parents to put in twice as much effort as ordinary people to raise them. But my parents are not working and I am under great financial pressure. Experts have also said that \”autism intervention\” requires the mobilization of the whole family. There is strength in numbers! Should we ask the elderly to help? However, the imagination is good, but the situation in reality is completely opposite——…
If a child has these 4 behaviors, it means he has been spoiled! If you don\’t change it, it will be too late.
Only parents who allow their children to take risks, explore, and try can give their children the courage to withstand the storms of life. After having children, the children have become the weak point of many parents, their tempers are slowly smoothed, and their hearts become softer and softer. Once something happens to a child, no matter how big or small, it is very easy to get nervous. On Zhihu, there is a question \”Destroy a parent to…
If children do not endure hardship in childhood, parents will endure hardship in their later years! (Good in-depth article)
There is a saying: No matter how poor we are, we cannot afford education; no matter how miserable we are, we cannot suffer for our children. Looking around, many parents are scrimping on food and clothing, but they don’t blink when buying high-end brand names for their children; they are willing to stretch out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food, and they are not willing to do even a little bit of housework; parents are not willing to go out for a few trips. But when your children need money to travel abroad, they have to sign up even if they borrow money… Like this…
CCTV suggests: What to do if your child doesn’t like studying? Just watch these 6 documentaries to awaken your child’s inner drive and ignite their enthusiasm for learning.
Just a few days into the summer vacation, many families are already in a state of panic. Many parents complain: their children play crazy during the holidays and don’t know how to study at all. Everyday homework and clock-in tasks have to be pushed… The child doesn\’t know any self-discipline, and no one is always watching? How can we let them know the importance of learning? In fact, summer vacation is not only a dream for children…
Children get messed up as soon as they go on vacation, parents just need to do these \”four things\”
A mother asked on Zhihu: What should I do if my 12-year-old child plays with his mobile phone every day during the summer vacation? The mother said: The child is currently in the summer vacation of fifth grade and will enter sixth grade in the second half of the year. The child secretly took away the spare phone at home, and then stayed in his room with the door locked and played with his phone every day. The family was afraid that it would affect her study, so they discussed playing with her for an hour every day, but she refused and started crying and fussing at home…
After the results come out, besides the scores, what else should we see?
After the results come out, are we anxious because: when we see the scores, we only see the scores? When we talk about final exam scores, what exactly are we talking about? When you see the results, you should also see the results clearly. Scores are just a quantitative assessment indicator. Different individuals, different subjects, one indicator, so performance does not equal ability, let alone predict future…
After learning to \”quantify anger\”, the child no longer loses his temper! It is strongly recommended that every parent teach this
This year is halfway through. I\’m surprisingly happy with where I\’m at. I\’m referring to my own emotional state. I almost never ran away, and I never lost my temper with my children. I mean the kind that couldn\’t control myself, hurt the baby, and regretted it afterwards. I haven’t lost my temper with my child’s father much. Just in time for summer vacation, I will reveal the secret of not being angry. Because I realized…