I once read a story like this: A middle-aged man has always had a harmonious relationship with his son, and the child even worships him as a superman. However, everything changed since my son entered the second grade of junior high school. He began to become rebellious, going against his father in everything, and the air was often filled with the smell of gunpowder. When the wife saw her husband and children in a tense situation, she was worried that something would happen, so she asked her husband to go back…
Year: 2024
The boy will be a \”little brat\” until he dies! If there is a boy at home, the mother should be blind, big-hearted and sweet-tongued
Two days ago, I was chatting with a colleague about the topic of \”boys\” in the tea room and recounted all the unconventional behaviors of boys. The two old mothers came to a consensus: those famous internet education bloggers are raising female babies ( If you don’t believe it, try raising a boy?) It’s really different to raise a son or a daughter. I have several second-born mothers around me, first-born daughters and second-born sons. daughter…
What destroys a home is not complaints or internal friction, but these \”cognitive traps\”
A few days ago, a mother confided to me: Ever since I became a mother, I have become less and less able to control my temper. She said: When tutoring her children with homework, she would lose her temper because he made a mistake in writing a word; she would scold her husband when she saw him lying down playing on his mobile phone at home; every time she complained to her husband that he did not help share the burden, his words of \”take care of him\” Family is what you should do.\” You can directly…
Never have a \”head-to-head\” confrontation with adolescent children. Only when parents learn to \”show weakness\” will their children become better.
Adolescent children are so hateful! My son is 14 years old and in the second grade of junior high school. Children who were docile and obedient when they were young suddenly become flammable and explosive, catching fire at the slightest touch and exploding at the slightest touch. Now every day when I get along with my son, I walk on thin ice, for fear that I will not know what I did wrong and make him angry. When he came back from outside, I asked him with concern, \”Is it hot?\” He said…
Good news for the high school entrance examination: it is expected to be fully implemented this year, and parents admit frankly: they are finally relieved
In the vast world of education, every policy adjustment and innovation is like spring breeze and rain, nourishing the hearts of thousands of students and affecting the expectations and anxieties of countless parents. The high school entrance examination is an important turning point in a student\’s career, and its importance is self-evident. It is not only a test of students\’ years of learning achievements, but also a key part in determining their future education path. …
The stupidest parent is the one who expects his children to listen to him
\”If a parent is stupid enough to hope that his child will listen to him, then the child will not get better!\” Does this sentence sound harsh? This is the reality. Parents\’ high pressure and strong desire to control often cause children to lose themselves and become good children who do nothing. Do you want your child to grow into an independent, independent person, or a puppet who can only nod and bend? 01…
There are 4 symptoms of children who are likely to be \”unfilial to their parents\” when they grow up. Parents should know how to prevent them in advance
When chatting with friends, I found that there are quite a few elderly people who don’t have their children around. Some move away from home to get married, while others live in big cities for their careers. Aunt Lin\’s two daughters both work and live in other places. When the old couple were not feeling well, they always took care of each other. It was not until the wife got seriously ill and needed someone to take care of her that they realized that the child was not around. It was so difficult! Fortunately, both…
Dong Yuhui: Parents who love to play with mobile phones should tell them these 4 things no matter how busy they are.
Dear parents, let’s talk about children playing with mobile phones today. Dong Yuhui once said: \”For children who love to play with mobile phones, no matter how busy their parents are, they must tell them these four sentences.\” The first sentence: \”Baby, every page of the book you read now will be a banknote to be counted in the future. \”Knowledge is wealth.\” The second sentence: \”Baby, you are not just reading a book, but…
The head teacher reminded: It is instinct for children not to be self-disciplined during summer vacation, and it is their parents’ ability to make them self-disciplined (no matter how busy you are, you should check it out)
Just a few days after the summer vacation, parents in the class group complained: \”Teacher, my children play crazy every day, and they haven\’t done any summer homework. They put it off until the end every year.\” \”My children are even more outrageous. They stay up late at night to play. I use my cell phone to sleep until noon during the day, and I can’t even wake me up.” “My child also gets distracted after reading a book for a few minutes, and becomes lazy when I let him study or exercise.”
I have been accompanying my daughter to Zhejiang University and my son to key classes for 12 years. Let me tell you why primary school education now relies more and more on parents?
My colleague’s daughter is about to enter the first grade of primary school in September this year. She ran to my office full of confusion and asked eagerly: \”What is the most important thing for children after they enter primary school?\” I answered without hesitation and firmly: \” Your contribution is the most important. From now on, in the next four to five years, you\’d better leave your evening time to your children.\” After hearing this, my colleague looked surprised and confused…