What should I do if my child doesn’t like reading?

Many children are unwilling to read or learn. The Tsinghua professor couldn\’t help but say some psychological words, which instantly made people sober. Read the book once and see you at home, read the book three times and see you in college, read the book five times and see you in two books, read the book ten times and see you in one, read the book fifty times and see you in 985, read the book a hundred times and see you in Peking University and Tsinghua University. Regardless of whether this passage came from a Tsinghua professor or was written by someone. The purpose is good, that is, to inspire children to study hard. The \”number of times\” of reading here does not only refer to how many times you read a book, but also refers to studying hard and studying vigorously. The harder and more energetic you are, the better the results will be. Regarding the number of readings, the more, the better. The more books you read and the longer you read, the greater the difference between you and those who don’t read. Reading more and not reading have different starting points. There is a picture of a table full of business tycoons who graduated from prestigious universities such as Tsinghua University, Peking University, Jiaotong University, Fudan University, and Zhejiang University. Reading more works differently than not reading. CCTV recommends over 500 high-scoring excellent documentaries. Children have watched Pattern Explosion and become addicted to self-discipline and read a lot. For those who have gone to 985 or 211, their working environment and working methods are completely different from those who did not go to college. One works in a spacious and bright high-rise building, where it is not cold in winter or hot in summer, while the other is on a construction site carrying bricks and sandbags in the rain and wind. The difference between reading more and not reading is also reflected in many places, such as different food, different housing, different clothing, different means of transportation, different horizons, and even different appearances. This is the meaning of the so-called \”poetry and calligraphy in the belly\”. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that \”read a book a hundred times, and its meaning will become apparent\”. And this is indeed the case. Every time you read it, your understanding becomes deeper. People who study hard and read a lot are even literate in joking and taking their jokes to the extreme. Such as the legendary story of Su Shi\’s three brothers and sisters. Once Su Dongpo invited a friend to his home to reminisce about old times. Su Dongpo greeted the guests at the door. When Su Xiaomei came out, she casually said, \”Brother invites Shuangyue to my house.\” Shuangyue is a \”friend\”. And Su Dongpo said the second half of the sentence, \”Little sister catches half the wind in front of the window.\” Su Xiaomei didn\’t understand it at first, but later she realized that her brother was teasing her. The traditional Chinese character for wind is \”风\”, and Banfeng is the character for \”lice\”, which means the little girl is catching lice in front of the window. There are also many jokes about the three brothers and sisters, such as \”Last year a tear of lovesickness came to my lips this year.\” At this time, we can also realize that only people with rich knowledge can make jokes so elegantly! Therefore, what the Tsinghua professor said is a very timely and important reminder. For young children, they don’t fully understand the importance of hard work. This is related to their age, and also because they have lived in a honeypot since childhood, with clothes to stretch out their hands and food to open their mouths. They have never experienced the hardships of life, never experienced the hardships of labor, and cannot be beaten or scolded. There are a lot of problems. In the face of these, as parents, we must first change our concepts. Scientific education should not only let children play well, but also learn well, and let children understand the benefits of reading. After all, learning is not an easy thing. There is so much knowledge that needs to be mastered. , it will definitely take a lot of time and a lot of energy to work hard to get it done. It\’s impossible to play blindly, heavenNo pie will fall. Any success is achieved through sweat. Let children know how to arrange their studies reasonably every day and learn efficiently. Use it to read aloud in the morning, reading texts, ancient poems, and essay examples. The lunch break is used to organize notes and summarize what has been learned in class. Self-study in the evening is used to brush up on questions, apply what you have learned, find shortcomings, make up for them in time, and not miss any knowledge points. Use it to preview before class. Preview is preparation for learning and lays the foundation for efficient learning. Use it to review before going to bed, consolidate the knowledge you have learned, remember it firmly, and truly master it. If you do this, you will be the top student. Of course, although learning is hard, it must also be full of joy. It can educate and guide children to seek happiness from hardship and give them more joy in learning. For example, let children experience success, encourage and praise them; do not hurt children when talking to them, etc. This is happy learning.