There are too many taboos about pregnancy, which will cause everyone psychological tension. You think, when it comes to having children, people around you will tell you what you can\’t do and what you should do. You can also see similar taboo advice and specious eugenic theories in newspapers, magazines and websites. If you believe them all, it will be like standing in a minefield full of landmines and not knowing how to move. In this situation, can you not feel nervous?
Misunderstanding 1: You cannot have sex on a full moon night.
It is said that the gravitational pull of the moon will affect the quality of fertilized eggs, which will directly affect the intelligence of future children. This puts sisters whose ovulation period happens to be on the 15th day of the lunar calendar in a dilemma: it is not appropriate to have sex with each other. Well, different rooms are not a good idea either.
To observe the gravitational pull of the moon on the earth, it is best to watch the tide of the Qiantang River. Every August 15th of the lunar calendar, the tide of the Qiantang River is spectacular, and the people watching the tide are like mountains and seas. The phenomenon lasted for half a month. Therefore, according to the theory that sexual intercourse is not allowed on the night of the full moon, it is speculated that the time when sexual intercourse is not allowed is not only on the 15th. On days when the moon is very round or not too round, the gravitational pull is very strong, so you should wait until the moon is half bright and half dark. Only suitable for sharing the same room, because this is the balance point that determines the child\’s intelligence and stupidity. In this way, half a month\’s time is wasted.
In fact, people are giving birth to children every day. There is no statistical data to prove that children born in the first half of the month are smart, while children born in the other half of the month are mentally retarded. Doctors also don’t support this theory that sexual intercourse should not be allowed on a full moon night. Therefore, anyone who believes in it is really in a misunderstanding!
Misunderstanding 2: Soy products kill sperm and should not be eaten.
It is rumored that soy products have a great spermicidal effect, so many sisters are worried and regard them as poisons! Although this statement is widely circulated, it cannot stand the test of practice.
In China, soy products have been consumed for thousands of years. In ancient times, Chinese women were not asked to eat less or no tofu during the ovulation period. They did not even know that there was an ovulation period. However, it was very common for our ancestors to have two, three or even three or four children in their lifetime. Ordinary things.
Don’t listen to the wind or the rain. Before accepting a statement, you mustYou need to find out first whether it is factual.
Misunderstanding No. 3: Eugenics must be based on circadian rhythm.
Many people promote eugenics to us based on the theory of circadian rhythm. Physiology does have cyclical changes, with highs and lows. Some people have discovered that human physical strength, emotion, and intelligence change in cycles of 23 days, 28 days, and 33 days respectively. They cycle simultaneously from zero point on the day of birth. When the three rhythms are at their climax, fertilization begins. Eggs are the best.
Some sisters like to pursue perfection. They think that if they don’t want children, they should want the best, so they start counting the days and making plans. However, is it so easy to achieve eugenics according to this theory? Not to mention how difficult it is to have the three climax days of physical, emotional and intellectual overlap! Even if you find this day correctly, your husband may not find it right. It is not easy for both of you to reach the same climax!
Perhaps one day, the climax of two people really comes at the same time, so what? You don’t necessarily happen to be ovulating! If you happen to be in your menstrual period, you can only give up this cycle and start counting and waiting for another cycle. Waiting and waiting, a lot of time is lost, and people become restless.
In my opinion, instead of pursuing a child prodigy, it is better to let nature take its course and have a child at the right time. We must be clear that a child’s future achievements do not entirely depend on talent. As the saying goes, “30% talent, 70% hard work”, nurture is the key to success.
So there is no need to deliberately pursue the so-called \”perfection\” and make yourself nervous!
This article is provided by Baidu Reading and is excerpted from \”Pregnancy Can Be Simple\” Author: Feifei Mom