Kindergarten teachers remind parents: If you plan to send your children to kindergarten, make four preparations half a year in advance

Classmate Liu Li and her boss proposed that she wanted to resign. Everyone felt very strange. She had not always been working well, so why did she suddenly resign? Liu Li said very helplessly that because her baby was not used to going to kindergarten, the teacher wanted to persuade her to withdraw. When she asked why, the teacher said that the child had an unsociable personality, was very willful in kindergarten, and did not know how to share. She said with great emotion that she should go home and take care of the baby for a while, and wait until the baby has adapted in all aspects before sending it to kindergarten. The baby of Liu Li\’s family is two and a half years old. The child has been raised by his grandmother since he was a child. The old man is naturally very doting on the baby. The baby is used to staying with his family, but he is suddenly sent to a kindergarten and placed in a strange environment. The baby feels very panicked because he is surrounded by unknown strangers. It is difficult to adapt for a while, especially for children under three years old. Originally, Liu Li planned to send her child to kindergarten after he was three years old. This year, her mother-in-law was in poor health and it was difficult to take care of the child. She had no choice but to send her child to kindergarten in advance. As a result, the child suddenly couldn\’t adapt to the life in the kindergarten and cried all day long. The teacher didn\’t like him either. Liu Li had no choice but to resign and take care of the baby at home. In fact, children should try not to go to kindergarten earlier than three years old. Both of my children were sent to kindergarten after they were three years old. Because babies before the age of three cannot eat by themselves, it is difficult to wear clothes, sometimes they wet their pants, and they cry and make a fuss when they encounter the slightest unpleasant things. In this case, it is impossible to go to kindergarten because the teacher cannot take care of so many children alone. Moreover, if a baby goes to kindergarten when he is too young, he will be hurt both physically and mentally. Babies are still young and cannot fully express their needs. Some children speak late. Even when facing parents and family members they are familiar with, it is difficult to express their thoughts clearly, let alone kindergarten teachers. Children of this age do not know how to socialize and are pampered by the entire family at home. He also doesn’t understand what sharing means. He has conflicts with children and will get physical if he disagrees. When children go to kindergarten, it is the budding stage of their learning career and an important stage that they must pass through in their life journey. After the baby goes to kindergarten and then to elementary school, he will learn a lot of things in the kindergarten years. If parents send their children to kindergarten directly without any guidance or preparation, just like Liu Li\’s baby, they will not adapt to various conditions, and both adults and children will become anxious. Therefore, a kindergarten teacher with many years of kindergarten teaching experience said that parents should prepare these four aspects half a year in advance before sending their children to kindergarten. Preparation 1: The ability to take care of oneself by eating is a very important thing for children. Parents should cultivate it through diet, especially the elderly at home. They should stop chasing after feeding their babies. Let them develop a sense of ritual for eating, and let the children eat on time and in small places. There are also some good living habits that should be cultivated as early as possible, such as washing hands before meals and letting children eat with a spoon. Tips: Remember to train your baby\’s ability to put on clothes and shoes by himself, so that he can distinguish left and right, and ask for help if he wants to go to the toilet. Preparation 2: Social Skills Before my two children went to kindergarten, I oftenTake them out to play. Find children of similar age to play with, such as at the playground. Tell him to play with toys with children, know how to share, and not to fight. During activities in parks and squares, let your child see children of similar age taking the initiative to communicate. As time goes by, your child will have the desire to make friends. Now my two children have strong social skills, and they know how to communicate with others when they meet new friends. They are both very popular children. Preparation 3: Reduce your child’s fear of kindergarten and separation anxiety. The baby has no idea about kindergarten at all. I told the two children in advance that there are many children playing together in the kindergarten, there are delicious meals, and the kind teachers will take you to play games, play with toys, read books, etc. I also took my child to see the outside of a nearby kindergarten. The child saw the children playing happily together, which reduced his fear of the kindergarten. Not only that, the two of them were very envious of the children in the kindergarten, having so many friends to play with! Tips: Parents can try to stay out of the sight of their children for a short period of time. Our babies will eventually grow up and leave their parents to integrate into collective life. We first let the children play alone and gradually extend the time to exercise the children\’s separation anxiety and reduce their dependence on their parents. Preparation Four: Various Items for Kindergarten 1. Comfortable Clothes Parents prepare the clothes for their children to wear in kindergarten in advance. For example, choose pure cotton clothes, which are very comfortable to wear and easy for children to put on and take off. 2. Small kettle: Prepare a small kettle for your baby, which can be filled with boiled water or milk that your child likes to drink. This can not only quench their thirst, but also provide them with nutrition. 3. Small handkerchief Prepare a small handkerchief for the children and teach them the skill of wiping their own noses. This is good for children\’s hygiene and can also increase their life skills. 4. Name stickers When entering a kindergarten, you enter collective life. Children\’s belongings must be marked clearly so that no one knows who uses whom. Paper name stickers, or name stickers with seals, can be affixed to clothes, schoolbags, handkerchiefs and water cups for easy search. It is the first time for children to be separated from their parents when they go to kindergarten, so parents should not be too anxious. Long Yingtai\’s \”Watching Off\” says that you stand at this end of the path and watch him gradually disappear at the corner of the path, and he silently tells you with his back: No need to chase him. When the children grow up, they will eventually want to fly in the sky alone. When babies go to kindergarten, it is also the first step for them to break away from their parents and become independent. Children will encounter various problems in their future life. It is impossible for parents to follow their children all their lives. They can only make various preparations in advance so that their children can go to kindergarten smoothly.