The teacher’s casual words will really be remembered by students for a long time

A teacher\’s casual words will be remembered by students for a long time. I realized this when I first joined the company. Today I want to share with you something that happened to me when I first became a teacher. This incident gave me a deeper understanding of children in junior high school. It also made me think twice about my words when communicating with students for a long time in the future. 01 I remember it was the midterm exam that day. I walked back from the dining hall after eating and passed by the corridor in front of one of the teaching classes. ‍I saw my class representative leaning on the railing from a distance, looking depressed and in a bad mood. With doubts and confusion, I walked up quickly and asked her. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍She turned around and saw me, her eyes filled with a deeper sense of loss. ‍‍‍‍‍Then she asked me very seriously: \”Teacher, what should I do if I fail the Chinese test?\” I was stunned for a moment and thought to myself: \”That\’s why.\” Because I took over the class of the previous teacher. , my classmates and I have only been together for a few weeks, and we are not very familiar with each other yet. ‍‍‍All I know is that she has been the Chinese class representative since the first grade of junior high school, and teachers of all subjects in the class have spoken highly of her. She always completes her homework very seriously, and her meticulous attitude towards learning is rare in the class. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍In addition, as the class representative of the Chinese subject, I can\’t fault her. She is silent on weekdays, but she always arranges the tasks I give her in an orderly manner, and even considers them more carefully than I do. Such a cute and well-behaved child, this is the first time I have seen such a sad look on her face. So I put my hands on her shoulders very seriously and answered equally seriously: \”It\’s okay. If you don\’t do well in the exam, you won\’t do well in the exam. One exam means nothing. The ups and downs of grades are extremely common. It didn\’t happen this time.\” Just do well in the exam and come back next time.\” \”There is not only one exam in life, and this will not be your last exam. Although your Chinese scores have always been very good, you have to allow yourself to fail occasionally. Sometimes the tight strings need to be loosened. \”Although she is a relatively reserved girl, I can also detect from her micro-expression that the haze in her heart is slowly dissipating. ‍‍Later, she wrote three times to thank me for what I said to her that time. Although it was only a few words, it was enough for her to find the strength to comfort herself every time she was sad about her grades. ‍‍‍02The few letters I received from her always came from an opportunity. ‍‍Either it’s Teacher’s Day or the end of the semester, every time, I will read it carefully. As I read, I was deeply moved by the sincerity of the students between the lines. ‍‍‍‍‍Maybe it’s because I didn’t do anything particularly remarkable, I just comforted a child from the perspective of a bystander and a passerby. ‍So I always looked at her sincere eyes with embarrassment, evenI didn\’t even dare to put the letter in my drawer with self-confidence. ‍That is a letter full of true feelings and of great weight! Maybe for her, these powerful words really soothed her soul when she was most helpless and needed a helping hand. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍After thinking about it this way, I feel much calmer. Only when there are cracks in life can the sunshine shine in. Perhaps each of us has been a ray of light in someone else\’s life. It was these letters that brought my memory back to that noon in my freshman year of high school. A boy and a girl were fighting in the corridor in front of the class. Somehow, someone was not paying attention and the boy lost his footing and rolled down the stairs. A large amount of blood gushed out from the back of her head. As the ambulance left, the girl cowered in the corner in shock and fear. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍The whole afternoon was spent uneasily like this, but she didn’t receive any news from the boy. The girl felt deeply uneasy and couldn’t eat anything. Before evening repair, when everyone went back to the dormitory to shower and eat, I took the girl to the county hospital on my bicycle. Along the way, she held on to the corner of my clothes tightly. ‍‍With the help of the doctor, we successfully found the boy, met his family, learned that he was safe, apologized and gained understanding. ‍‍‍‍‍After I graduated, the girl hid a letter in the graduation gift she gave me. She said: \”The road to the hospital was the longest road she had ever walked until this moment in her life. It was me, riding a bicycle, who saved her helplessness step by step.\” To this day, she every day He would send me messages every once in a while to ask for safety. ‍‍‍I think that I was once a beam of light in their lives, and I will try my best to be a beam of light in the lives of more children in the future. 03Every time I think of these two things, I feel warmer in my heart. As a front-line teacher, I face so many students every day, with different attitudes and personalities. When faced with individual students with special needs, we often say: \”Let go of the complex of helping others and respect the fate of others.\” However, when I am disappointed and angry, I will always meet so many pairs of eyes that are eager for knowledge. Their eyes were full of expectation and exploration. So I often enlighten myself, no matter what the situation is, I should at least be a beam of light in the children\’s lives. Bring them more happy memories, happy experiences and enjoyable journeys. The words I say inadvertently will really be taken to heart by the children and will be remembered for a long time. If a heart is pricked by thorns, it will habitually ignore many beautiful things in the future. Rather than losing, I want them to experience and remember the beautiful moments in life. Therefore, this also makes me reluctant to say harsh words easily every time I deal with students\’ difficult and complex problems. Instead, I often say to myself: \”It doesn\’t matter, the sky won\’t fall.\”