I discovered a strange phenomenon: if you raise a son to waste, you may be devastated; if you raise a daughter to waste, you may suffer from severe injuries at best.

A long-term observation revealed an important difference between raising a son and raising a daughter. If you raise a daughter, if you become a demon, most families can bear it, and the parents will not be unbearably affected. If you raise a son, if you become a demon, it can drag the family into an abyss of eternal destruction. 01 Raising a son to death may make you doomed. In traditional concepts, sons are given the important task of carrying on the family line and inheriting the family business. They are expected to bring glory to their ancestors, so parents often choose to support their sons at all costs, no matter how badass they are. Unfortunately, without proper education, a son may become selfish and lack a sense of responsibility, rely on his parents in life, be weak and irresponsible in personality, and be irritable and love to cause trouble. If such a son is idle all day long and is addicted to bad habits, he will not only make his parents feel ashamed, but also make his relatives shun him, his life will become chaotic, and a stable life will become a luxury. The family may be in constant worry and despair. Little by little, he was dragged into the abyss of eternal destruction. The situation may be more complicated if there are multiple sons in the family. Some sons may develop very well, while others may make their parents reluctant to mention them. A son who develops well may lead his family to develop upward, while a son who develops poorly may drag down the entire family. 02 Raising a daughter to waste will only break your muscles and bones. In contrast, the traditional concept is that the daughter will eventually get married. Therefore, even if the daughter is raised to waste, the impact on the family will be relatively limited. After a daughter gets married, her influence on her family of origin will be reduced, because traditional culture believes that help from her natal family is a blessing rather than an obligation. Even if the daughter has problems in her husband\’s family, the worst outcome may be that she returns to her parents\’ home after divorce. Daughters who have experienced failed marriages often have an epiphany and live independently without becoming a burden to their parents. Even if the daughter did not get married or was unwilling to get married due to various reasons. But because women are far less destructive than men. You can still support yourself with your own hands and live a good life, but you will be criticized for being single. Another situation is that if there are more than one daughter in the family, the family stability is much higher, because when the parents get old, the daughters often provide the most help to the family. Final words: A son is an uncontrollable variable, and raising a son is like practicing magical skills. If you practice well, you will make great progress with each passing day; if you practice poorly, you will lose all your internal strength. Daughters are family stabilizers. Raising a daughter is like buying a pension insurance. You pay more and pay less, and you always get something.