If you want your child to go to kindergarten smoothly, you must do 3 things in advance

Before you know it, the summer vacation is coming to an end, and it’s the annual day to send babies to kindergarten. Because the next semester is in the second half of the year, it means that many babies who have never been to kindergarten will have to enter kindergarten for the first time. school gate, many mothers are very worried about this. Because mothers have grown up with their babies from the time they were born to now. Now they have to send their babies to kindergarten. On the one hand, they are worried that the baby will not be able to live without his mother, and he will encounter all kinds of things in the kindergarten. situation, on the other hand, they are afraid that the baby is not with them, and if there is an accident, the mother will not be able to arrive in time. 01 Recently, I have received many messages from mothers asking what preparations mothers should make in advance before their babies go to kindergarten. In fact, parents don’t need to worry too much. As long as mothers put in enough effort and make sufficient preparations before their babies go to kindergarten, I believe that babies can quickly adapt to kindergarten life. The neighbor\’s child is already three and a half years old this year. The neighbor will send the baby to kindergarten soon. Before going to kindergarten, the neighbor has put in a lot of effort. From how to choose a kindergarten to how to make the baby accept the fact that he is going to kindergarten, the neighbors have worked hard in all aspects. Before deciding which kindergarten to send the baby to, my neighbor made an on-site inspection of all the kindergartens around her home and even those far away from her home. Whether it was the campus environment, the campus\’s teaching staff, the distance to home, etc., we all conducted an inspection. And when the baby was about three years old, the neighbor had been preparing for the baby to enter kindergarten, saying that the baby was old enough and would send the baby to the kindergarten to play with other children in the second half of the year. In the kindergarten, not only can there be many friends, but there are also amiable teachers. There are snacks to eat and games to play every day, so the baby is full of expectations for the kindergarten. So what preparations should be made before the baby goes to kindergarten? 02What preparations need to be made in advance before the baby goes to kindergarten? Because many babies go to kindergarten for the first time in September, I would like to first tell you what preparations you should make in advance before sending your baby to kindergarten, so as to help your baby adapt to kindergarten faster. , and at the same time, it can also allow the baby to go to kindergarten smoothly. ①Teach babies how to get along with their classmates. Many babies go to kindergarten for the first time. It is inevitable that they will feel uncomfortable and lonely. When I first arrived at the kindergarten, I was not familiar with the children around me, and the teachers were not as close to me as my parents, so it was inevitable that I would feel homesick. If you want to avoid such a thing from happening, mothers can encourage their children to make more friends with children in kindergarten, so that the baby will gradually like to go to kindergarten. This method can make the baby feel less lonely. Because the baby may not have had contact with too many peers before entering kindergarten, mothers can teach the baby some ways to become friends with the friends around him. ②Teach your baby about epidemic prevention and control. Mothers must know that among the thousands of rules, the most important thing is health.In principle, due to the special situation this year, the epidemic occurred, and the epidemic is not completely over now. Although the epidemic situation in various provinces and cities in China is basically not that serious, and various departments have resumed normal operations, there are still occasional reports in the news of patients imported from abroad. Therefore, before sending your baby to kindergarten, you must educate your baby and let him understand some basic epidemic prevention and control knowledge. For example: you must remember to wear a mask when you go out, and you cannot take it off. Secondly, you must remember to wash your hands before eating, preferably with disinfectant water. ③ Prepare learning supplies. Especially today\’s babies, most of them like to eat their fingers, etc., and some babies even like to play with mud, etc., so be sure to let your babies develop a good habit of washing hands before meals. Although babies go to kindergarten, most of the time they are taught about civilized etiquette, singing, and dancing. However, some simple art education may still be required, so mothers must prepare some basic learning tools for their babies in advance. Therefore, mothers can also prepare some watercolor pens and drawing paper for their babies. 03What are the taboos for sending babies to kindergarten that mothers should not touch? Just making these preparations is not enough, because babies will inevitably encounter some unexpected situations during kindergarten. For example: having a conflict with a child and getting into a fight, or not listening to the teacher, etc. At the same time, when sending the baby to kindergarten, the mother also has many things to pay attention to in terms of behavior. 1) Give negative hints to the baby. If you want your baby to go to kindergarten without crying or making fuss, mothers must remember not to give negative hints to the baby. What is a negative hint? In fact, to put it more simply, it is threatening the baby. For example, some mothers will tell their babies when they send them to kindergarten that if you don\’t go to kindergarten obediently, your mother will never talk to you again. For example, if the baby cries loudly at the entrance of the kindergarten and does not want to go to school, the mother will say that if you cry again, the mother will not come to pick you up after school, etc. In fact, for the baby, these words are not helpful at all. They will only make the baby more frightened and cry harder and harder. Whether it is sending the baby to kindergarten now or in the process of educating the baby in the future, mothers must remember not to give negative hints to the baby. 2) Send the baby to school and leave immediately. For those babies who go to kindergarten for the first time, mothers must remember not to go to work or busy with their own affairs immediately after sending the baby to kindergarten. You can stay with your baby in the kindergarten for a while in two days, so that the baby can become familiar with the surrounding environment, the classmates and teachers in the class, and then leave. After all, except for the mother, the baby does not know anyone in the kindergarten. If he is alone at the beginning, he will definitely feel insecure. 3) Reluctance to leave the baby. Some mothers are worried about the baby. Every time before sending the baby to kindergarten, there is nothing wrong with the baby, but they behave in a weird way.He looked like he was inseparable. Originally, the baby was happily looking forward to the kindergarten, but when he saw his mother being so reluctant, he and the baby began to become anxious. He also felt that he would not be able to survive without his mother, and would have doubts about himself. This creates resistance to going to kindergarten. Therefore, mothers themselves should first make up their minds to send their babies to kindergarten instead of being reluctant. In fact, after work every day, you can take your baby home. A few hours will pass quickly. Mothers should not be reluctant to leave their babies. In addition, mothers should feel confident handing over their babies to kindergarten teachers, which is not only a kind of trust in the kindergarten teachers, but also a kind of trust in the baby. 04What should parents do if they want their baby to go to kindergarten without crying? If your child is sent to kindergarten for the first time in September, it is inevitable that the baby will cry and refuse to go to kindergarten. At this time, as mothers, you can try the following methods to prevent the baby from going to kindergarten. So anxious, no longer so resistant to kindergarten. 1. Get your baby familiar with the environment in advance. We all know that for babies, if they go to a completely unfamiliar environment all of a sudden, they will inevitably feel anxious and insecure. In fact, the same is true for adults. If you go to a strange environment and the people around you don\’t know or are familiar with it, you will definitely not be able to concentrate and relax at the same time. Babies who are in a state of anxiety and tension for a long time can easily feel tired. At the same time, because the baby is too restless, he cannot fully complete the knowledge taught by the teacher and the tasks assigned by the teacher. Therefore, before the baby goes to kindergarten, mothers should take the baby to the kindergarten in advance to familiarize themselves with the environment and understand the surroundings. At the same time, the mother can also communicate with the teacher so that the teacher can pay more attention to the baby. 2. Choose a qualified and suitable kindergarten. The choice of kindergarten is also very critical. Mothers should consider many aspects when choosing a kindergarten. For example: Is the kindergarten too far away from home? If it is far away from home, it will not be very convenient for mothers to take their babies to and from school. Secondly, we must also consider the teaching staff of the kindergarten, as well as other children who have already attended this kindergarten, and what parents\’ evaluation of this kindergarten is. At the same time, when choosing a kindergarten, you must also consider your family\’s financial situation, and you cannot blindly follow the trend and choose those aristocratic kindergarten schools. 3. Improve the baby\’s independent ability. Mothers send their babies to kindergarten to study. In fact, they hope to improve the baby\’s various abilities. However, if the baby has no ability to take care of himself at all, sending him to kindergarten is also very troublesome. thing. Because this is destined that the baby will not be able to adapt to kindergarten life quickly, so when they are at home, mothers can try to let the baby complete some tasks independently and gradually develop the baby\’s self-care ability. For example, asking the baby to dress himself does not actually require the baby to be able to do a good job. It just wants the baby to be able to complete some things by himself. In short, going to kindergartenKindergarten has various benefits for babies. It can also help parents reduce their burden to a certain extent and allow them to spend more time at work. However, there are many things to pay attention to when sending your baby to kindergarten. If parents do it well, the child will quickly adapt to the life of a young child. If they do not do it well, not only the child will suffer, but the parents will also suffer. I hope the above tips can help parents who are about to send their babies to kindergarten.