\”Pregnancy\” is a life event that 99% of women cannot escape. In just ten months, the woman has tasted all the ups and downs. However, after the baby is born, some women reap the joy of family joy, while others \”harvest\” broken families. These two completely different endings all stem from one thing: whether the \”War to Defend Marriage During Pregnancy\” is successful.
Just like women have various kinds of \”postpartum depression.\” Men who are in the \”pregnancy period of their wives\” will also suffer from \”postpartum depression\”. This symptom lasts for a long time and has a serious impact on emotions. Coupled with the high degree of neglect by women, it is enough for the mistress to take advantage of the situation and conquer the city.
Therefore, the \”marriage defense\” during pregnancy is particularly important. The imaginary enemy in this defensive battle is full of unexpected qualities. If you want to ensure the integrity of the territory 100%, you must firmly grasp the various psychology of the pregnant man.
Nearly 30% of men felt nervous and depressed before the birth of their child
29-year-old Teacher Wang has always been unhappy at work recently. He often feels restless and is even absent-minded when working. Asked him \”what\’s wrong\”, it turned out that his wife was about to give birth. This series of reactions are all manifestations of \”prenatal depression.\” Many people think that prenatal depression only occurs in pregnant women, but research has found that nearly 30% of men will feel nervous and depressed before the birth of their child, resulting in high mental stress.
Prenatal depression in men leads to physical infidelity
Male prenatal depression, to put it bluntly, is a variety of anxieties caused by excessive sexual repression. When the wife becomes pregnant, the man must enter a \”forced abstinence period.\” During this time, there is nowhere to vent the pressure from work and family, and excessive sexual repression makes men even more stressed. A man who is in a state of hunger and thirst every day, as long as a woman shows him a little kindness, he will lose control and cross the line and cheat. However, women are busy paying attention to their gradually growing belly, busy with excitement, anxiety and anticipation, and have long forgotten to check the man in the morning and evening, which gives the man a good opportunity to bloom outside the wall.
If your husband accompanies you during the delivery, it will do more harm than good
Many people get divorced, and both parties always have various conflicting excuses and reasons for cheating. But a woman from Chongqing had a psychological disorder because her husband witnessed the whole process of her giving birth, which led to sexual frigidity after marriage, and the marriage ended hastily. According to more than 40 years of clinical data in the medical field, accompanying children does more harm than good. Many men have psychological disorders after giving birth and are unwilling to have sex.
Sexual frigidity can lead to marriage breakdown
Do you think a man giving birth or watching birth videos can make him more considerate and loving towards you? Blunder! Not everyone can see blood without blinking. Many men tend to have psychological barriers after seeing the bloody childbirth process. He does see your pain during labor, but he\’s also prone to imagining and associating with conception and birth as he moves around the bed after delivery. Good men will feel guilty, timid men will be afraid and selfishMen will be disgusted. No matter what kind of relationship it is, in the end, they can\’t help but hate being close to you.
The quality of life in bed between husband and wife directly affects the relationship between husband and wife. It doesn\’t matter if something goes wrong for a while, I\’m afraid it will become a psychological shadow for him. From then on, married life becomes cold and boring, and the relationship will eventually break up!
Postpartum frigidity? Men can\’t stand it
A gay man in Zhejiang divorced because he couldn\’t stand his wife\’s neglect. After his wife gave birth to a child, he focused exclusively on the child and neglected his own care and care. Day after day, he could not accept such a sense of loss, and gradually found psychological comfort in another woman, so he cheated.
Men who are ignored can easily lead to mental infidelity
People are not pets. If you have time to amuse him, he will be happy if you are happy; if you don\’t have time, just put him aside and let him die on his own regardless of whether he is full or not.
Every relationship takes work. Women all hope that men will care about her, take care of her, be valued and cared for, and men are no exception. Many times, a man endures physical pain for 10 months only to have an affair after giving birth to a child. The reason is simply that the expectation of \”care\” for women has been shattered.
During the prenatal education, he could always comfort himself that it would be fine when the woman gave birth. However, after the woman gave birth, instead of making up for it, she ignored him as always. Thinking of the child will occupy all the women\’s thoughts, and the man\’s grievance of being left out feels that there is no way out, and it is easy to find a second love outside marriage.
Take good care of his \”wishes\” during his lifetime
1. Men have low sexual desire? Divert attention
An important factor in male prenatal depression is the inability to meet physiological needs. You might as well try to distract their attention and do other things with them, such as exercising together and participating in moderate recreational activities. Remember to foster guilt in him by letting him feel the pain of your pregnancy.
2. Control your emotions and treat each other gently
Pregnancy is naturally difficult for women, and it\’s also stressful for men. Expectant mothers should be considerate of men\’s difficulties and not lose their temper because of pregnancy.
keep distance from him
If you don\’t really need it, ask a man to accompany you or forget it. Seeing bloody things will make him feel the pain of your pregnancy, but it will also leave him with many sequelae. If a person does not pay attention and causes him to have a psychological disorder, then the gain outweighs the loss. In view of this, the man should wait anxiously outside the delivery room to experience the excitement of becoming a father, instead of letting him stay in the delivery room in fear.
Postpartum supplements for men
1. Don’t let men become “second-class citizens” in the family
After the child is born, a woman should turn her attention back to the man and let the man whom she has not seen for a long timeRe-experience the beauty of love. Occasionally, you can ask your parents to take care of your children and have a romantic date with them; you can also chat and watch DVDs together on weekends to enhance your relationship. In the details of life, women have to take care of children as well as men, so don\’t ignore his feelings.
3. In terms of parenting, learn to be considerate of men.
Men need to take their time in getting along with their children, but in modern society, men are under great pressure, so when he is tired and irritable, women should learn to be smart and avoid unnecessary disputes, let alone complain that men don’t care enough about their children at this time. No instructions were given. How should a man take care of his children, etc. He should think more about men, so as to maintain a harmonious and stable relationship between husband and wife.
The destructive power of Mistress lies in her \”pervasiveness\” and powerful destructive power. So 90% of the time every woman is equipped with a pistol and a shotgun to deal with this inexhaustible species. Remaining 10% slack
Time is the pregnancy period. Women put all their thoughts on the child in their belly. They have no time to care about whether men are fed and clothed. Naturally, they have no time to be wary of imaginary enemies. It just so happens that this 10% of the time gives the mistresses an opportunity to seize a man who is lonely and lonely in his heart. And women are still ignorant and don\’t know it. They think that giving birth to a son through hard work is a great contribution to the man.
Men need both control and care. Pregnancy cannot be a reason for a woman to ignore him. Especially in this era where mistresses are rampant, the defense against \”undercover\” can\’t be relaxed for a moment!