There has always been a folk saying that \”babies born by accidental pregnancy are smarter\”. Especially in recent years, idol dramas and romance novels have exaggerated all kinds of \”nonsense\” about getting pregnant out of wedlock, such as women being more valuable and marrying into rich families… However, are having children out of wedlock and having unwanted pregnancies really smarter?
There is absolutely no scientific basis for the idea that babies born from unwanted pregnancies (or out of wedlock) are smarter. On the contrary, due to factors such as insufficient pre-pregnancy preparation and the lack of pre-pregnancy examinations and physical and mental preparation by the expectant parents, it is more likely to lead to abnormal fetal development. Early on, a baby with problems is born.
1. If you get pregnant before marriage, will your children be smarter?
As we all know, whether a child is smart or not mainly depends on the following three factors:
1. From a genetic point of view, the key to whether a child is smart or not depends on the mother.
The genes on the mother\’s X chromosome determine the development of the child\’s cerebral cortex, while the father\’s genes play an important role in shaping the offspring\’s emotions and personality type.
2. Mother’s cultural quality is closely related to eugenics and nurturing.
The more educated the mother is, the less likely the fetus is to have defects. Early marriage, early childbearing, coupled with low education level, such mothers have lower physical and mental maturity, poor attention and nurturing ability before and after the birth of their children, and are more likely to cause congenital defects in their children\’s physical or intellectual aspects.
3. Family environment affects children’s intellectual development.
In recent years, studies have found that: in terms of language, the overall environmental score and IQ are higher, and most mothers have higher education levels. This is because they not only require their own learning, but also value their children\’s education and are willing to spend more time accompanying their children\’s growth.
Therefore, the folk saying that \”children born out of wedlock are smarter\” has no scientific basis at all. On the contrary, pregnancy out of wedlock is more likely to give birth to a baby with problems.
2. Insufficient preparation before pregnancy will affect the baby
Pregnancy before marriage is largely due to the fact that the expectant parents are not mentally prepared. The arrival of a child not only easily affects the parents\’ life plans, but it may not be the best for the baby. We all know that if you plan to have a child, you must make various preparations six months in advance, such as regular living conditions, quitting smoking and drinking, and supplementing with comprehensive nutrition.
A sudden baby may happen to be at the time when the mother is most stressed during pregnancy, or it may be the unexpected result of the father\’s drunkenness. Pregnancy under these conditions poses significant risks to the baby\’s health. If the expectant parents become pregnant during drunken sexual intercourse, the pregnant woman will easily obtain abnormal fertilized eggs in the body at first, which will affect the smooth implantation of the fertilized eggs and the development of the fetus. embryo. At the same time, alcohol can enter the fetal blood through the placenta, causing fetal intrauterine dysplasia, abnormal central nervous system development, mental retardation, etc., which is called alcoholism syndrome.
Regular smoking before pregnancy can cause sperm and egg abnormalitiesoften. After pregnancy, the fetus in a pregnant woman is prone to intrauterine malformations and slow growth. After the baby is born, poor memory or memory impairment will affect the baby\’s normal development and future. study.
3. Pregnant women who are unmarried first have more negative psychology.
At present, our country is still monogamous. If a female friend becomes pregnant without getting married, she will easily face criticism or ridicule from public opinion, and will be under anxious mental pressure all day long, which is very detrimental to the fetus in the womb. Long-term depression, anxiety, tension, and restlessness will have adverse effects on the fetus through the nervous system and endocrine system, damage the healthy development of the fetus, and are not conducive to eugenics. In order to avoid the eyes and ears of others, some female relatives even use methods such as cinching their waists or wrapping their abdomens to cover up, causing the fetus to be squeezed, causing fetal ischemia and hypoxia, poor growth and development, or fetal malformations. Location.
Some pregnant unmarried young women fear being laughed at or evading supervision by the family planning department. During pregnancy, they hide at home all day long, living in secluded places, isolated from the outside world. Their normal activities are greatly restricted. Improper pelvic muscle exercise can cause dystocia, calcium deficiency in the baby, and reduced physical fitness and immunity.
On the other hand, because they are unmarried, they are unable to obtain some of the special care that normal pregnant women can enjoy after pregnancy, such as maternity leave, work care, etc. Their lives lack stability and regularity, and nutrition and rest are not guaranteed. ensure. It is very detrimental to one\’s own constitution and the healthy development of the fetus.
These are not conducive to the prenatal and postnatal care of the fetus, let alone making the child smart?
4. Pregnancy before marriage? Unwanted pregnancy how to do?
There is a saying circulating on the Internet: If you live together without marriage and get out of his bed, you will be worthless in his heart. To put it bluntly, he will think that you can sleep in his bed casually. Have you ever slept in someone else\’s bed casually?
If a female friend gets pregnant out of wedlock in real life, how should we protect ourselves and the baby in our belly?
1. Check early to ensure your child is healthy.
All the above discussions are not alarmist. An unprepared baby will inevitably be exposed to more potential dangers. Therefore, once you find out that you are pregnant before marriage, the expectant mother must go to the hospital for examination as soon as possible to determine the health factor of the baby. If there are congenital defects in the child\’s development, the expectant parents should decide as soon as possible whether to give birth to the child to grow up with him or to conceive a healthy child.
2. Choose a date to get married and give your baby a healthy family environment.
When a baby arrives unexpectedly, many expectant fathers use the excuse of \”not being ready yet\” to delay their marriage. This is not only detrimental to the physical and mental health of the expectant mother, but also detrimental to the growing baby. If the expectant parents decide to have this baby, then choose a date to get married! A normal family is the best guarantee for your baby\’s healthy growth.