It’s really not easy for a first grade mother

Come back on Tuesday and finish your homework. The child said, Mom, the English teacher said I talk too much. Do I really talk too much? I was stunned and said, what did the teacher tell you? The teacher said this to classmate Lu XX. I said, the teacher probably said that you are in English class, like to raise your hands to answer questions, and like to speak English. Oh, I was dubious. Mom, my feet are so tired today. Why? I stood up for 3 Chinese classes today. Ah, what mistake did you make? The teacher asked us to write words silently at home. From unit 1 to unit 8, everyone raised their hands, except for me. Then they made me stand for three periods. If it were the me before, I definitely wouldn\’t be able to sit still. I first observed some of the baby\’s reactions, and I felt that his ability to suffer frustration was better than before. Normal people know that the teacher\’s handling methods are simple and crude. But what\’s the use? What can we parents change in a short while? I calmed down the baby first. I didn’t want to judge the teacher in front of him, but he was just a child and not stupid. I said that the teacher thought it was a test to memorize words, and he was afraid that some of your classmates wouldn\’t be able to do it. As for whether you should do it at home, mom has ways to help you get familiar with the words together. Therefore, if you encounter something like this again in class, you should raise your hand first. This incident had a big impact on me and made me further criticize this teacher. They are both teachers, so why are their approaches so different? How can I protect my children\’s interest in learning and reduce the negative impact from school? I faced this topic for the first time in my life ~ At noon, I discussed this topic with his father. His father said that he should talk to the child directly and let him know that Chinese teachers and Chinese language are two different things. Learning is for himself to reduce the impact. . I say this is unrealistic. It is difficult for adults to separate subjectivity and objectivity. It is a bit difficult to expect children to separate subjectivity and objectivity in a short period of time. Before I can change the external environment, I must first do my best. This is my survival mentality. / 02 / After asking my math teacher last time, I asked my English teacher again yesterday. We start learning English here in the first grade. There are two classes a week, and there is no written test. Naturally, there is not as much emphasis on Chinese and mathematics. But I personally think English is still more important, especially in today’s economic environment! The English teacher\’s evaluation was concise and to the point. Original words: The child is very good. He often raises his hand to answer questions and is easy to learn. This is also true based on the reply from the math teacher last time. Children are highly motivated in learning. We are studying English, which is a combination of systematic textbooks and online classes. The chosen textbooks are quite interesting, so the child is currently very motivated and the time is not long. The prerequisite for developing good habits is to keep things short and quick, and don\’t blindly increase the task. At a certain stage, as your abilities improve, you can slowly add some small tasks. / 03 / I got a math test paper back from school yesterday. There are many words, the questions are difficult, and there are many twists and turns that require you to use your brain flexibly. That’s why I have repeatedly emphasized that the key point in connecting young children is literacy, which is literacy through reading. Mathematics questions, especially question 3 of the answer question, are comparable to Chinese reading comprehension, serial questions, one step is wrong, and the next step is wrong. This problem is really too common. When telling your child this question, you just circle the key words. There is no story book in the main part of the question, so option 1 is eliminated. Is the borrowed book aThe science and technology book didn\’t mention it, and it excluded 3, leaving only 2. The thinking questions are at least as difficult as a second grader! I directly input the artificial intelligence to see the problem-solving ideas, fearing that I would make a mistake. Thank God, thank God, thank you, Artificial Intelligence, for saving my life. / 04 / Chatting with my sister about the current teaching situation. Her child is in fifth grade, and the current difficulty is composition. Sometimes she says she has to explain the text to her child. It was only after I became a first grade mother that I realized that teaching children requires such meticulous teaching. We recall that we used to write essays when we were students. Instead of teaching essays, we would directly teach essay writing and write essays during class time. She said that now she writes her compositions at home, and the children correct them by themselves, and then the parents have to do it. After listening to it, I felt like I was playing Whac-a-Mole. I held down this one and that one came up again, making me cry first! She said why are you crying? The best thing about you is that you can take care of your children alone and no one will control you. Like me, even if I have ideas, there is still resistance from my family. Indeed, the biggest advantage of raising a baby alone is freedom. You can do whatever you want with the baby. Although no one is helping, it is not a hindrance. Sometimes, when you gain something, you must also lose something.