Life advice: Don’t waste your precious primary school time (detailed plan included for your children’s collection)

This is the reflection of a mother who has been through it. I used to believe in happy education, so my children were not enlightened in preschool, and in the first grade they only kept pace with the school progress~ But gradually I felt that something was wrong, because the children were always one step behind their classmates, and their performance started to deteriorate. In fact, it is not difficult to catch up in terms of knowledge. What is difficult is how to rebuild children\’s self-confidence! Therefore, I sincerely recommend that everyone seize the time in primary school and study in depth. Specifically: 1. English must be learned beyond the syllabus 3. Mathematics: learn carefully and do not learn in advance 4. Primary 4: no need to learn in advance, but it can be enlightened 5. The learning habits of primary school are planned like this (grades 1-6): ● Cultivate four major abilities in grades 1-2 ① The ability to practice calligraphy ② Time management ability ③ Exercise ability: 30-60 minutes of exercise every day not only enhances children’s physical fitness, but also helps them grow taller. Increased sports points lay a solid foundation. 4. Reading ability ● Consolidate three major habits in grades 3-4 1. The habit of sorting out wrong questions: Regardless of any subject in Chinese, Mathematics, and English, you must prepare a wrong question book. There are huge scores hidden in the wrong question book. Find out the wrong questions and draw inferences about other cases. 2. Habits of frequent application ① In Chinese, speak more and write more ② In Mathematics, answer more questions and answer questions you don’t know. Don’t waste time on questions you already know. Answer carefully selected questions, don\’t answer all questions at once. ③Listen and speak more in English. 3. The habit of going to bed early and getting up early: sleep regularly, go to bed early and get up early. Go to bed early so that you can have the energy to listen to the class the next day and be more efficient. Staying up late will ruin your body, and it will be useless no matter how good your grades are. When you get up early, you can use it to read and recite in the morning. Early morning is an excellent time for memorization. The third and fourth grades are the critical period for widening the gap between children. At this stage, it is particularly important to help children overcome the \”third grade hurdle\” and achieve a transformation in learning. Special teacher Wang Songzhou pointed out that children only need to have three strong qualities. 1. Efficiency; 2. Habit; 3. Focus. \”If a child possesses one of these qualities, he must be insulated from the \’third grade phenomenon\’; once he possesses these three qualities, then the child must be an academic master.\” The essence of education is to cultivate habits. Parents may wish to start from these three aspects and focus on cultivating them. Good habits for children. First: Improve children’s learning efficiency. Efficiency itself is a habit. Children who are good at planning time and scientifically arranging learning tasks will always learn efficiently. A Hengzhong high school student who was admitted to Tsinghua University shared his experience: There are actually only two things to improve learning efficiency – ensure study time, learn to make good use of spare time, and study unremittingly; when it is time to study, put study first First, never waste time on unnecessary things. The method is very simple, but over time, it will have amazing results. Second: Cultivate children’s study habits. There is an action in the new education reform called \”One thing every month\”, which asks children to do one thing every month to cultivate good habits. For example, this month, I will learn to study consciously, without the supervision of my parents, and take the initiative to complete homework every day; next month, I will learn to complete homework independently, review first before writing homework, and check and correct it after finishing homework; and next month, I will learn to sort out wrong questions. , collect all wrong questions, according toCheck for mistakes and fill in the gaps;…The third grade is a critical period for developing children\’s study habits. Habits such as listening attentively, doing homework seriously, being good at questioning, thinking independently, arranging time reasonably, and doing things by yourself should be developed as early as possible. Third: Train your child’s ability to focus. The \”China Youth Attention Survey Report\” shows that nearly half of students cannot concentrate during class. Attention is the foundation and prerequisite for all learning, and training children’s concentration cannot be delayed any longer. Parents can make three rules with their children: ① Studying is the first priority, and you cannot do other things until the learning tasks are completed; ② You must concentrate on homework, and you cannot do this and play that at the same time; ③ Homework must be completed independently, without dawdling Come on, increase the speed of writing homework. Therefore, parents must not disturb their children when they are studying, and create an environment for their children to concentrate on their studies. Only with consistent concentration can children focus their time, energy and wisdom on learning and truly learn knowledge. ●Grade 5-6, prepare for the transition from primary school to junior high school. If you have done well in the above points in the previous years, then just focus on preparing for the transition from primary school to junior high school. How to prepare? ① Keep a steady state of mind, balance work and rest ② Organize test papers and summarize wrong questions ③ Organize notes and review key points Finally, children learn to \”really work hard\” and parents learn to \”really care\”. Writer Mo Yan once said frankly: \”I have contacted hundreds of One thing that excellent parents have in common is that they put a lot of effort into educating their children. \”On the road to education, children\’s performance not only comes from the teachings of school teachers, but also is more affected by family and parents. In the final analysis, competition between children in the same class is a competition between parents’ comprehensive qualities and efforts. I hope all parents understand: the impact of primary school grades on their children\’s future is not as great as imagined. What truly affects a child’s future learning is their interest and confidence in learning. Cultivating children\’s strong interest in learning from an early age and building up their children\’s sufficient confidence in learning are the most important things for parents in primary school. I also hope that all parents will do this: During the critical period of transition in primary school learning, they must do a good job in educating their children. Pay attention to your child\’s study habits, improve your child\’s abilities, and pay attention to the quality of family education… How much effort you put into your child will eventually be reflected in your child\’s report card. In order to make children become better people, I hope that all parents can work with teachers to: 1. Check their children\’s homework every day; 2. Help children solve difficulties in homework; 3. Pay attention to memorizing homework; 4. Pay attention to preview and let children read aloud Texts; 5. Read your children\’s textbooks frequently and learn about their children\’s listening performance through notes, etc.; 6. Help your children expand their reading and strengthen their accumulation. I hope parents will pay attention to it in advance, and together we can be guides for their children on the way forward, pointing the way to their children at critical moments.