The less capable the parents are, the more they like to do these three things at home, ruining the future of many children.

Which parent doesn’t want their children to get ahead and have a bright future? But sometimes, some behaviors of parents may unintentionally become stumbling blocks on the way forward for children. Today, let’s talk about three things that parents often do that may ruin their children’s future. 1. Over-indulgence We have to admit that as parents, no one treats their children as their darlings, fearing that they will fall or be bumped into. But sometimes, this kind of excessive protection and interference causes children to lose the opportunity to exercise and grow. For example, Xiao Ming has been pampered by his parents since he was a child, and they are not allowed to do anything for fear that he will be tired or injured. As a result, when Xiao Ming grew up, he couldn\’t even do a simple housework, let alone face the difficulties in life independently. This kind of excessive protection and interference is like locking a child in a greenhouse. Although it is safe for the time being, once the child walks out of the greenhouse and faces the ups and downs of the outside world, the child will be at a loss. Therefore, parents must learn to let go appropriately and let their children try and explore, so that they can truly grow and become independent. 2. Let’s talk about the second thing, that is neglecting communication with children. Many parents are busy at work all day long, and when they get home, they are busy with their own affairs. They rarely have time to sit down and have a good chat with their children. In fact, when children grow up, what they need most is the company and understanding of their parents. If parents always ignore communication with their children, the children will feel lonely and helpless, and may even develop psychological problems. The main way of communication between some parents and their children is to yell. If the children fail to do a small thing or make a mistake, they will beat and scold them as if they have committed a heinous crime. Children\’s innocence, curiosity about the world, and creativity are all Wasted away, left numb and submissive. Just like Xiaohong, she felt that her parents didn\’t care about her since she was a child, they only cared about her academic performance. Slowly, she began to become withdrawn, withdrawn, and even a little depressed. Therefore, parents, no matter how busy they are, must take time to communicate with their children and understand their thoughts and needs, so as to better help them grow. 3. Finally, let’s talk about the third thing, which is not paying attention to education investment. Some parents think that their children go to school just to get a diploma and find a good job, so they don\’t pay much attention to their children\’s learning interests and extracurricular reading. In fact, this idea is completely wrong. Competition in today\’s society is so fierce. If a child does not have a skill or extensive knowledge, it will be difficult for him to gain a foothold in society. Just like Xiaohua, his parents didn\’t pay attention to his studies since he was a child, thinking that just getting a diploma would be enough. As a result, Xiaohua encountered obstacles in finding a job after graduation. Why? It’s because he has no real talent or knowledge! Therefore, parents should still pay attention to their children’s education investment, and don’t wait until their children complain about you in the future. As the old saying goes: \”Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans.\” We have to consider the long-term interests of our children. Heck, after all, the relationship between parents and children is like a spiritual practice. Parents have to cultivate, and so do children. In this practice, we all have to learn to let go, learn to communicate, and learn to invest. In this way, ourOnly children can go further and fly higher in this journey of life. Therefore, parents should work harder and not let their own small mistakes affect their children\’s future.