You became a mother, but you lost yourself (look at all the mothers crying)

Ten months into her pregnancy, once she gives birth, amidst the baby\’s cries, a woman welcomes the most important moment in her life. She only wants to be a happy hot mom, but she realizes the reality in the trivial life. Women, only after giving birth do you realize that your life has changed. In order to have a baby, my best friend Ye Zi, who has lost her good figure for a long time, posted a photo of herself pushing her baby for a walk in the group yesterday. \”Is this still you, Ye Zi?\” I looked at the photo with some emotion. Before having children, Ye Zi, a 30-year-old, didn\’t even have any fat on her waist. But look at her in the photo, wearing simple home clothes, with a bare face, her face is much bigger than before, and she doesn\’t look as glamorous as before. What bright leaves! I originally thought that I would be able to regain my figure after unloading, but the reality is that in order to breastfeed, I have to keep eating, and I don\’t dare to lose weight, for fear that if I don\’t eat a good meal, my baby will \”go without food.\” He looked down at the \”bucket waist\” that he couldn\’t bear to look at, sighed, and drank all the chicken soup in the bowl. Losing weight has become a dream, but what are you afraid of? You are happy and fat! In order to take care of the child, I lost my youth and gave birth to my daughter. I thought I would finally be free, but I didn’t expect that I collapsed behind me. The little one was hungry very quickly and had to feed her several times a night. I just closed my eyes and heard her crying. I hurriedly I woke up and took a look, and I couldn\’t sleep well at night. I obviously didn\’t get enough sleep, and I had two dark circles under my eyes every day. I used to not go out without washing my hair, but now that I have a child, I can just tie my hair up and go out to buy groceries…probably It is children who give women the courage to face life. She did not live like a fairy, but she became a happy yellow-faced woman amid the fireworks. Women are afraid of aging and age easily, but when facing a child, what they care about most is not whether there are a few wrinkles in the corners of the eyes, but whether the child is well or not. I am getting older, and you are growing up. There is love hidden in my aging. For the sake of the child, I don’t dare to spend money on myself. Before giving birth to a child, a woman treated herself like a princess and bought cosmetics and clothes easily. After giving birth to a child, she would haggle over a few dollars of food. It’s not like before. of vigor. You must have seen the kind of woman who uses the cheapest cosmetics, thinks about buying a dress for a long time, and doesn’t hesitate to buy things for her children, no matter how expensive they are. Raising a child is not easy. After you have a child, you begin to realize the importance of money. You always want to buy the best for your baby, hoping that he will be healthier and happier, but you forget that you are still wearing the dress from last year. You just don’t dare to spend money on yourself because you’re afraid that you can’t afford what your children want. Maybe from a woman\’s perspective, children are the best investment. In order to accompany your children, you lost all your self. Before, you were planning to travel and enroll in a yoga class. But then you had a child and you became a \”child slave\”. Your best friend made an appointment for a party, but you were worried about the child and refused. Even if you take the time to learn cooking, it is just for the health of your children. what to do? You seem to have nothing but your children. It seems that only your children are left in your life. This is probably how many women lose themselves. They put all the focus of their lives on their children. You guard your children and wish you had 48 hours a day. You are immersed in a world with only children. You no longer talk to others.The colorful world outside is astonishing to see. Children make your world colorful. When you have a child, you lose yourself, but you are happy with it. Mostly because motherhood makes her strong, even if she loses her figure and turns into a yellow-faced woman, she never regrets it. For the sake of her children, every mother accepts everything calmly and happily! Someone asked, how much courage does a woman have to have to dare to give birth to a child? If she wasn\’t deeply in love, how could she dare to be so brave for you! Please cherish the woman who is willing to give birth to your child. A wife is a man\’s most valuable asset.