The baby will also complain: It is important for the mother to speak!

What topics do mothers talk about together? emotion? Work? Fashion? gourmet food? Everything is possible, everything is possible. But traveling across the sea of ​​words will inevitably lead to one point – children. \”My child\’s language is developing rapidly now. He can\’t help but laugh out loud. Hey, he\’s so cute! Can your baby roll over?\” \”Yes, yes, he can turn over easily. I like it.\” The adults tease her and make fun of us every day!\” \”What a good personality! By the way, you have to be careful not to fall off the bed. We accidentally fell off the bed once, which scared me.\” \”Do you have any experience? Tell me quickly. Talk.\” \”Yeah, that\’s it…\” Look, everyone must be familiar with this scene. However, when the babies talk about the mountains together, what will the painting style be like? Let\’s come together and imagine… Little Baby A Age: 1 and a half years old Hobby: spitting water Dear friends, I have recently learned a new skill, which is to slowly spit out the water in my mouth when drinking water , so fun! The adults in the family say this is not good, as it will make the clothes wet and catch a cold, etc. I don’t care so much, my baby just likes it! Adults are so weird sometimes. They say it\’s wrong, but they remind me when I forget! That day, I was very thirsty and was drinking water. I didn\’t even think about vomiting water. My grandma suddenly said, this child is getting more and more misbehaved. He keeps vomiting when he drinks water and gets wet all over! Ouch! This baby was instantly reminded! Hurry! tight! vomit! Hahaha I kept laughing happily. My mother was calm enough. She came over and changed my clothes without saying anything. After a while, I picked up the cup again and told my mother, spit out the water! My mother smiled and said to me that the vomiting happened just now. The baby has grown up now and is a big child. Big children don’t vomit water anymore. I suddenly felt that it made sense, so I repeated it, the child spits out water, the older child does not spit out water, and the baby becomes older, great. Amid my mother\’s praise, I took a few sips of water and put the water glass back in its place. At first glance, there\’s nothing wrong with it. But if you think about it carefully, why do you think something is wrong? In less than one day, why did I grow up instantly? #BabyWant to Tell You# Sometimes we are rebellious. The more you say no, the more we want to fight against you. Stop arguing all the time, this trick won\’t work. What\’s more, it\’s really boring to mention every little thing, and maybe it reminds us. For mistakes that persist despite repeated admonitions, cold treatment and appropriate guidance are the most effective methods. Little b baby Age: 2 and a half years old Hobbies: Imitation Hahaha This is a routine! But your mother is right, we older children don’t vomit water! I love to imitate and imitate my parents, which makes them laugh every time and praise me for being like them! But one time, I imitated my father and said \”silly ×\”, and my father got very angry and quarreled with me. Saying \”silly ×\” is a very bad word and it is impolite to say so. But I don’t understand. My father often says silly things and smiles. I don’t see him feeling bad at all. That\’s why I always think \”silly ×\” is a very good word. Why can my father say it, but IDoesn\’t it become rude to say it? I don\’t want to talk to him, just as I said. Later, my mother told me that \”silly ×\” is indeed a very impolite word. My father said that he was also making a mistake. From now on, everyone will criticize whoever says it. Mom also asked Dad, do you know what you did was wrong? Dad said, got it. From this point of view, it seems that it really shouldn\’t be said. Later, my father really didn\’t talk much anymore. Whenever he did, my mother and I would quickly criticize him. I didn’t want to be criticized, so I stopped talking. #BabyWant to Tell You# This isn’t right, that one isn’t right either, we don’t understand, hey! You study and go online every day to learn about parenting, why do you still need us to remind you by words and deeds? The world of adults is so difficult to understand. Establishing a unified standard for both adults and children at home will make it easier for us to distinguish what is right and what is wrong. Little c baby Age: 3 and a half years old Hobbies: People are crazy. Your mothers are great, just like my mother! My mother takes good care of my emotions. I always feel very comfortable listening to my mother talk. Once I was playing with my aunts and uncles, and they asked me to perform and sing. I was about to start singing, but my grandpa said that babies can\’t perform when they see people. Last time Doudou came to our house, Doudou sang again. It\’s jumping again, but as for the baby, she won\’t do anything I ask her to do. She\’s really desperate. I\’m so wronged that I\’m going crazy! The last time was because it was the first time I met Doudou and her mother, so I was a little shy. I am feeling generous when I am with relatives and friends whom I am more familiar with, okay? It’s so embarrassing to talk about me in front of so many people! At that moment I didn\’t want to sing at all, I just wanted to cry! At this time, my mother said, \”No way, the baby is singing really well now, and he even learned a new song yesterday!\” The baby is also very generous, a great little actor, and a good singer! Mom wants to sing with you, okay? I nodded and sang together with my mother. Everyone applauded me and said that I sang well. The more they praised me, the more I wanted to perform. Later, I sang several songs for everyone! #BabyWant to Tell You# Please note that we also have self-esteem! Don\’t always say something bad about us, especially in front of others, it\’s very embarrassing, okay? We know our own faults and we don’t need to be reminded of them all the time. It would be nice to have more recognition and encouragement. You know, it is easier for us to become what you say. OK, the imagination is over. Children, even if they do not have the ability to fully express themselves, it does not prevent others from satisfying their inner drama. Every child wants and needs a mother who “can talk”. To be able to speak, you must first be able to listen. If you can\’t hear it with your ears, just listen with your heart.