Really awesome kids all have parents like this

The famous picture book writer David Ezra Stan said after he became famous: I have never forgotten that when I was a child, I opened a book in front of the desk lamp. The pictures and the sound of adults reading made the world so vivid, as if the whole world was unfolding in front of me. Such a wonderful experience is my best memory, and my picture book creation has been recreating this wonderful experience. David Ezra Stein is an emerging American writer and illustrator. He is called \”the most talented young artist today\” by Bugle Books. As a child, Stan\’s family often read stories to him, which gave him a special love and obsession with books and reading. As Stan grew older, his parents encouraged him to write his own stories. When he grew up, Stan really became a picture book writer. Reading and listening to stories are two things that almost everyone has done, but Stan’s parents left such a wonderful experience for their children and directly inspired him to become a picture book writer. Most of the abilities of truly powerful children are formed in the family, and they all have unusual parents. Environment is the best teaching by words and deeds. Recently, people talked about a Weibo post: In a park in Nanyang, Henan, a boy wearing crotchless pants squatted on the ground and wrote calligraphy. The boy\’s expression is focused, his brushwork is vigorous and powerful, and he writes freely, attracting passers-by to stop and admire. Three-year-old Yuanbao couldn\’t speak clearly, but he could write calligraphy with ease. It turns out that Yuanbao is a child raised by his grandfather. His grandfather often practices calligraphy at home. The accumulated influence over time makes little Yuanbao fall in love with calligraphy. Lichtenberg said: People\’s qualities are the same, it\’s just the environment that makes them different. Through the influence of ears and eyes, the good habits, good atmosphere and good examples in the family slowly penetrate into the children\’s mind. Influenced by the environment, children can naturally acquire their parents\’ outlook, qualities, mind, vision and skills without any deliberate education. The famous writer and translator Yang Jiang recalled that when he was a child, he said that he was naughty and did not study hard. Yang Jiang said that at that time, her father spoke in a sensible and coherent manner, and one comment after another in \”Shen Shen\” was so powerful and impactful. She was impressed and curious, and asked for the secret. Her father said, \”What\’s the secret? Just read more and read good books.\” From then on, Yang Jiang followed her father\’s example and read from his collection. It was indeed interesting, and she became good at reading from then on. , fascinated by reading good books. Yang Jiang believes that it was her father\’s subtle influence on her that made her realize the profound impact of reading on a person through actions, which made her what she became. Image source: \”Different Dad\” allows children to experience harsh education in person, so that children learn to blindly obey; preaching that talks about big principles is superficial and difficult to truly convince children. Only the principles that children gain through empathy can penetrate into their hearts and become a code of conduct that they can abide by in the future. The neighbor\’s child doesn\’t like to wash his face. He thinks it\’s troublesome to wash his face every day. The 5-year-old boy has his own little thoughts, and he always shakes his head and uses his own theories to try to persuade his parents not to let him wash his face every day. Mom remained calm and thought of a good idea. She didn\’t wash clothes for three days in a row. On the fourth day, when she took out the stained clothes for her son to wear, he asked for a change.Something clean. The mother calmly replied in the same tone and words that the child used to say: \”How troublesome it is to wash it every time. It will still get dirty after washing!\” The boy suddenly understood his mistake and understood that it is still very necessary to maintain hygiene. of. Educator Montessori said: I heard it, but then I forgot it; I saw it, and I remembered it; I did it, and I understood it. Transparent children are mostly the result of parents’ wisdom and careful education. Quiet guidance and artistic discipline come from the parents\’ intentions and also contain their painstaking efforts to respect their children\’s growth patterns. Only children who are respected will be transparent, open-minded, and sensible, and will repay the world with the same attitude. Good family education is all about the details. Two days ago, a parent in the mothers\’ group complained angrily: \”My children stay in school for 9 hours a day, and they have to call their parents when they have problems? Why don\’t the teachers teach their children well?\” Many parents It is inevitable for everyone to have this idea. It is the teacher’s job to teach children, what does it have to do with the parents? But teachers can teach children knowledge, and children’s habits, personalities, qualities, etc. are mostly formed in the family. When Ma Yun talked about Yungu School, he said: \”Teaching\” and \”education\” are two concepts. The main body of education is the teacher; the main body of education must be parents. Parents\’ nurturing of their children, invisibly, gives them the best \”education\”, which truly determines the level of a child\’s energy. Detailed education is a kind of soft penetration, which is based on teaching children and is an advanced expression of parental love. The famous translator Fu Lei gave us the best example of this: in \”Fu Lei\’s Family Letter\”, Fu Lei and his wife taught their son in detail. In every letter from home, in addition to talking to his son about daily life and guiding his life and study, Fu Lei also took the initiative to talk about his views on work and interpersonal relationships. Although it is a letter passed down by flying pigeons, it is credible that it ranges from instructing children to make a list of things to go abroad, to teaching children to take off their coats at other people\’s homes, to keep their hands vertical and upright when speaking, to to advising children to take a good rest and stay energetic at all times, and to teach children I want to change my teacher to give advice and help my children translate music scores… Such a tutor is teaching, guiding, guiding, leading, caring and loving. The children raised by such transparent, intelligent and loving parents must have a rich and full-textured life. Many times, children are mirrors of their parents. Parents who allow their children to grow up as they please will not be able to raise well-mannered children. Parents who are eager for quick success and quick gains and want to reform their children often end up with bleakness and disappointment. In the movie \”The Piano Boy Who Wants to Fly\”, as soon as Vidas showed his talent, his mother wanted to force him to become a pianist. In order to rebel against his mother, Vidas jumped off a building and pretended to have broken his head, causing his talent to disappear. The best family education is not to force children to run forward, but to lead by combining love and teaching, and to nourish things silently. Picture source: \”The Piano Boy Who Wants to Fly\” Excellent children are inseparable from the persistence of their parents. Some time ago, Liu Yujie, the 8-year-old daughter of Guobing head coach Liu Guoliang, won the HSBC Youth Finals. In an interview after the game, Liu Guoliang said: The children\’s ability to achieve such results is inseparable from our perseverance. The child started playing ball at the age of 3, in the past 5 years, the child\’s training has been completed to the letter. The mother of the child pays the most and stays with her every day, whether in life or training. In the past year or so, I have often accompanied her in training and competitions, and sometimes provided some guidance. Liu Guoliang also said: I hope that through my subtle behavior, I can influence the children\’s concept of winning and losing. Excellent parents all understand that education is never a point, let alone a methodology. It is a continuous state and a good habit formed through long-term persistence. British writer Johnson said: Success does not depend on the size of your strength, but on how long you can persist. Educating children is like taking steps to make a thousand miles. The endurance and perseverance of parents shape the perseverance of children. The best starting point for a child is not just the material contributions of parents and the improvement of hardware, but family education that combines love and wisdom. Excellent children inherit the constant nurturing of their parents by setting an example; their actions and actions reflect their parents\’ love and guidance; their words and deeds inherit their parents\’ respect and intentions; their courage to make breakthroughs is reflected in their parents\’ companionship and persistence.