I\’m sorry, child. I can\’t support you when I put down my work, and I can\’t accompany you when I pick up my work! I saw countless people crying…

It has been the company\’s peak sales season in recent months. Yesterday afternoon I went to pick up a customer early. When I walked to the park, I saw the company\’s driver, Lao Li, hiding behind a large truck and crying secretly. When he saw someone coming, he turned around and wiped his tears, then walked to the front of the truck and picked up a little girl about 4 years old. I curiously walked to the truck and saw a child safety seat placed on the passenger side, as well as some snacks and toys. After chatting with him, I found out that his wife spent tens of thousands of yuan on illness last month and is still in the hospital. Her 4-year-old daughter has no one to take care of her, so she can only buy a safety seat and let her child sit in it every day. The driver drove the goods with him. Now the whole family relies on him to make money alone. He bought this large truck with his own loan, and he has to repay the loan of more than 6,000 yuan every month. He lamented: \”You can\’t take care of your children by driving, and how can you raise your children without driving? It\’s a dilemma.\” The little girl ran with him for 6 hours today. He was planning to send his daughter back to his hometown tomorrow, but his daughter just said to him: \” Dad, I\’m not tired. I like to watch dad drive!\” Just after hearing his daughter\’s words, he finally couldn\’t help it and hid in the back of the car with tears bursting out of his eyes. He felt very sorry for his daughter and failed to give her a good life! Middle-aged people should understand the sadness and helplessness at that moment. \”How do you spend time with your children at work? How do you work with your children?\” This reminds me of what Zhizunbao said in Stephen Chow\’s \”Westward Journey\”: How can I save you without wearing a golden hoop? How can I love you when I wear a golden hoop? Some people say that \”middle-aged people are not as good as dogs\”! I want to say that now dogs not only eat well, are also well-dressed, and are also cared for! As a parent, how can you compare to a dog? On Chengdu Metro Line 2, a mother fell asleep leaning against the baffle after finishing her day\’s work. In the waiting room, a mother dragged her suitcase to work in another field. Outside the waiting room, the two-year-old child cried heartbreakingly for her mother. She held back tears, her face full of reluctance, guilt and helplessness. \”My child, if your mother stays with you, she won\’t have the money to support you. If your mother wants to support you, she won\’t be able to stay with you. Please forgive your mother for leaving temporarily. You should be well at home.\” They say that companionship is the longest confession of love! If it weren\’t for life, who would want to miss the growth of their children? If they could be at ease, who would choose to live in exile? Because in the world of parents, there is no such word as \”have both ends\”. Some people say that after having children, parents have weaknesses, so they put on armor and move forward bravely despite the wind and rain on the road; some people say that after having children, parents will be a little greedy and want to make money for their children. Back to the whole world; some people say that after having children, parents are willing to spend everything they have to provide their children with high-quality education and a good life. However, the cruel reality is that providing a basic life for children consumes all of their energy and time. When people reach middle age and become parents, they are like a big tree that is swaying in the strong wind, but must hold on. Because as soon as you open your eyes, you find that you are surrounded by people who rely on you, but there is no one you can rely on. Many times, the lives of those middle-aged people who look very prosperous are really worse than a dog. I just don’t want my family to see it, and I don’t want them to worry, so no matter how much pain I have, I swallow it silently.Under the circumstances, behind the happy scenery, there is actually a heaviness and bitterness that others cannot see. Last time I had afternoon tea with some friends in a cafe. A middle-aged man at the next table was laughing and working very hard to introduce products to customers. He ate, drank, and smiled throughout the whole process, bending down and nodding! The person at the next table whispered: \”Look, that man looks like a dog.\” Later we walked out of the cafe and found him squatting on the ground by the door, smoking a cigarette vigorously, looking very depressed. However, what touched me the most was when he called and his tone suddenly became extremely soft: \”Tomorrow my daughter will go to kindergarten. Should she study for 8,000 per semester, or study for 5,000 per semester?\” \”8,000, what to study? 5,000? I\’ll call you the money later.\” \”Well, okay! Then come back early after work.\”… After the call ended, he took a deep breath, lowered his head and took a long drag on the cigarette. That haggard look seemed a bit blurred in the smoke. In fact, every middle-aged person is the same. They need to constantly switch faces to face family, friends, and customers. When you reach middle age and become a parent, no one understands you and you have nowhere to complain. Even if you have been sleepless for several nights, you will not show any fatigue in front of your family and children; even if your eyes are red from drinking, you will treat it as a little drunk. Maybe only in the bathroom, stairwell, or in a place where no one is around can you show your true side, give yourself some space to breathe, and then continue to fight. Even though it is so bitter and difficult, every parent is still trying their best to give their children a good starting point and a good future. One of my college classmates works in communications technology support. He applied to the company for a job abroad a month ago and went to a foreign country. He could only return to his country three times a year. He was not used to eating and living abroad, but the salary was compared to Twice as high as domestically. In fact, before going abroad, the couple had a monthly income of 30,000+ and had a house in a second-tier city. It can be said that they had no worries about food and clothing and lived a comfortable life. We all don’t understand why he wants to work abroad separately from his wife and children? Until one time he told me: He didn\’t believe in the idea of ​​a \”starting line\” before. Just last time, he saw this gap with his own eyes. A neighbor\’s daughter was as old as his own. But the neighbor’s daughter is already learning violin, and his daughter is still in an ordinary kindergarten. The neighbor also said that his friend’s children have long been sent to England to receive a full British education… Looking at his daughter, he feels very anxious when he thinks about his own life! I would rather work harder and be more tired myself, so that my children can be more relaxed in the future. Don\’t be like him, who has gray hair in his 30s. As parents, we always want to give more so that our children can have a better future. This sanitation worker, in order to realize his daughter\’s gymnastics dream, ate 2 tons of clear water noodles in 7 years, just to save an extra two yuan a day. In order not to wrong the children, one can only wrong oneself. When he saw the medal his daughter got, he smiled like a child! As a parent, who wants to miss the growth of their children? Who wants to let their children become left-behind children? However, how can life be so easy? In order to create a higher \”starting line\” for children, onlyCan silently endure the bitterness and helplessness. Sorry kid. I can’t support you if I put down my job, and I can’t accompany you if I pick up my job.