Talking about whether the child should be spanked?

Today my brother-in-law specially sent me a video of my uncle using a ruler to educate his children. Many people may have seen it because it has 100,000+ likes and 3.30,000 comments. I took a look and most of them supported my uncle’s education. As a child, it makes me feel so happy! Let’s not say whether the video is real or fake, but it is indeed real with so many likes and comments. I was very worried after seeing this. In an era when the country is vigorously promoting the improvement of family education capabilities, there are still many parents who think that beating is right. In fact, this is because parents are powerless in education, and they finally get into a fight. If children could be educated in other ways, who would be willing to take action? Fighting, will that solve the problem? Article 17 of the \”Law on the Protection of Minors\” clearly stipulates that parents and other guardians shall not abuse, abandon, illegally place minors for adoption, or commit domestic violence against minors. Legally speaking, it is illegal for my uncle to hit someone. Cooperative Parenting: The Importance of Parent-Child Communication and Parent-Child Education PDF Download It is inappropriate for children to bully others at school, and it is illegal for adults to fight. So why is it natural for adults to hit their children? Is it okay to beat a child just because he is young and needs to rely on adults to survive? You beat him now and he is convinced. Can you guarantee that he will grow into a physically and mentally healthy child in the future? Who can say for sure what will happen in a few decades? Educating children is the responsibility of parents. Parents are the guardians of their children. The responsibility of educating their children lies with them. In fact, the uncle is not responsible for what the child will look like. If the child is really unconvinced, is really beaten and disabled, and has no way to explain it to his parents, he may even be held legally responsible. Why bother? If parents do not educate their children well, they must bear the consequences of their education. That is their own business. Although the child\’s mother is the uncle\’s sister, they are adults and belong to different families. Hitting someone else\’s child is beyond the bounds. Seeing the video in which the child was being beaten, the mother did not stop her. It is likely that she has been used to having her boundaries violated since she was a child, or she herself recognized that the child deserved to be beaten. Without belief in education, it is easy to be swayed by other people\’s ideas, unable to educate children well, and unable to protect their own children. No matter what kind of education methods should be used to educate children, it is the parents\’ business. Even if others want to teach, they must maintain their own boundaries. And don’t complain to others about how your child is doing? The child is yours. When you feel that you don’t have the ability to educate, there are many channels to learn. Internet resources are very developed and there are so many parenting experts. Why worry about not being able to learn. Experience the feeling of being beaten. The beating incident in Tangshan a few days ago caused a sensation. Everyone felt that the act of beating was extremely ugly and bullying the weak was not really a hero. How a child is treated as a child is how he will treat others in the future. I saw many people in the comment area saying, \”I was beaten awake by my parents.\” So they agree that beating is feasible. Since you have the experience of being beaten, then recall how you felt when you were beaten, and then feel about whether your life is happy? Things that can be solved by hitting can also be solved by communication. It’s just that hitting is easier, and simple violence can do it. If your employees don\’tBe obedient, can\’t it be over with a beating? Then why study management specifically? You can also recall that as an employee or subordinate, what kind of leader do you like? Is he a bossy one, or is he polite and reasonable? I don’t think anyone wants to be beaten, right? The same goes for children. Do unto others, do not impose on others. People are unwilling to accept the facts. The educational concept of \”filial sons emerge from under the stick\” has been popular for many years, but it cannot be proven to be right. You must have the ability to accept new things. In fact, in life, we adults often have situations where we are unwilling to face the facts. We obviously have done something wrong, but we will avoid talking about it and do not want to admit it, or we will find various reasons to explain it. Especially when a leader makes a mistake himself, he finds various reasons to make everyone believe that he has done a good job. I hit my child, knowing that it would cause harm to the child, but I would say it was the child who forced me to do it. There are many people in history who have been harmed by established rules. For example, Galileo Galilei was sentenced to life imprisonment for proposing the heliocentric theory. The church only apologized to him in 1992. The man who discovered the bacteria was put in a lunatic asylum and tortured to death, but he was later proven right. People are unwilling to accept reality because accepting reality requires thinking and learning, and it is easy to follow established rules. There are many things that people believe that are not necessarily true. Beating is absolutely anti-human. Even Confucius 2,500 years ago never advocated an education based on beating. Society is developing, and scientific parenting concepts have become the general trend. If you are still willing to follow the \”beating\” education, you will ultimately hurt your own children.