Giving your baby freedom does not mean letting it go! Have you done these two tasks?

When a child who can eat independently scatters food everywhere and uses bowls and chopsticks as toys, some parents, especially the elderly, not only do not stop him, but also applaud: \”Look how smart the baby is. With this attitude, he will be a performer when he grows up.\” Home!\” After a child does something wrong, no matter how serious the consequences are, parents always have endless reasons to \”forgive\” the child: \”As a child, he can do whatever he wants…\” What Tao Ma wants to say is, give children freedom It’s not about letting things go. Many hobbies and interests and good living habits must be developed with the help of parents, and the earlier the better. Enlightenment of hobbies Hobbies are not innate, they are the result of environmental influence and acquired cultivation. Adolescence is an important period for cultivating good interests and hobbies, but enlightenment education must start from childhood, even as soon as the baby can crawl and speak. ▲Babies around 1 year old are good at catching, touching, biting, and seeing. They like brightly colored things that can run and swing. Therefore, they need a variety of toys, picture books and enlightenment educational tools to stimulate their senses and sensory nerves. ▲After 2 and a half years old, it is the best time to cultivate your baby\’s memory. He can speak independently and sing a few lines when he is happy. At this time, parents can exercise their baby\’s memory by reciting children\’s songs and looking for objects. Recognizing patterns and counting are also good ways to exercise memory and can be done alternately. ▲Babies after the age of 3 or 4 have greatly enhanced hands-on and cognitive abilities, and will have obvious liking and disliking tendencies. For example, some babies like quiet and soothing music. When they hear this kind of music, they will be very quiet and will even act like they are relaxing and thinking. Some babies like exciting music and will jump up and down while listening to it. Enlightenment education on hobbies mainly includes three items: grasping the senses, training perception, cultivating memory, and exercising thinking and imagination. Parents can observe the trends of their babies\’ interests and hobbies from these three items, so as to determine the direction of future development of specialties. The development of good behaviors and habits is just like the scene of children eating at the beginning of the article. Many seemingly insignificant problems, if not stopped and corrected in time, will lead to more bad habits when children grow up. Therefore, in order to cultivate a good child with good conduct, etiquette and rules, parents must do homework for their children from an early age. ▲The dietary pattern starts with the baby\’s first bite of complementary food. At first, he eats a small spoonful before feeding, and later on, he can eat a small bowl. As the amount of complementary food increases, meal time will replace the breastfeeding time, and then try to maintain it as much as possible. Eat at the same time as adults. ▲Routines of work and rest time Nowadays, adults are used to staying up late, and even children are going to bed later and later. One bedtime disrupts many life patterns. Young babies need to get enough sleep and maintain the quality of their sleep at night so that they can eat well and play happily during the day. ▲Courtesy education is essential. When the baby starts to learn to speak, it is a good time for courtesy education. Parents should repeatedly teach their babies to say \”hello\”, \”thank you\”, \”please\”, \”sorry\”, \”it\’s okay\” and other polite words. Whether or not polite language is taught will directly affect the baby\’s ability to behave in the future and avoid detours. ▲HouseworkMovement is very important, not to mention that the child cannot work. Once he learns to speak, he will be able to \”order\” people: \”Mom, bring me the candy!\” But the candy is clearly right in front of you! In order to avoid becoming a \”little slacker\”, parents should train their babies\’ housework abilities from an early age. Interests and hobbies determine the child\’s development direction, and living habits determine the child\’s lifelong conduct. What is lacking in today\’s education is not knowledge and ability, but a correct attitude towards life and the development of talents. With these, a child\’s life will be as indestructible as his nature.