Being a good mother is not that difficult!

During this period, I have shared with you many good ideas about education. Many of my friends are studying and practicing them attentively. At the same time, many mothers have also lamented: It is so difficult to be a mother! I don’t dare to be too lenient, and I am afraid that I will be too strict! I dare not take too much care, and I am afraid that I will lose my kindness! I dare not let go too much, and I am afraid that I will not fulfill my responsibility! Why! Neither left nor right, neither up nor down. After pondering over various concepts, I realized that I will never be a mother! Most mothers today only have one or two children, but they have just as much to worry about as the mothers of the previous generation. They should not only care about their children\’s health, but also their education; they should not only collect various educational methods, but also learn to grasp various measures of propriety. In addition, work pressure, family chores, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and relationship management are all mixed together, making the role of a mother heavy. She has to work constantly for the education of her children and the happiness of her family. . I keep my house spotlessly clean, prepare a Manchu-Han banquet, tutor my child so that he can get high marks in exams, and make my mother-in-law unable to say a single bad thing about me. I am simply a perfect wife and a perfect mother. But why, after all the money, energy, and thought was spent, what we got was a tired and anxious mother, and a child and family that were not perfect in her eyes? The reason is that many mothers actually do this: while doing housework desperately, they talk about it until everyone escapes to the room; while they are too tired to cook, they force themselves to make the dishes look uglier than their faces; Accompanying my children to review, while complaining that I have to stay up late at night and work overtime; such \”responsible and perfect\” efforts do not gain the gratitude and respect I want, but instead make me lose time, lose emotions, and lose money. The love of his family for him. Ms. Hong Lan, a doctor of psychology in Taiwan, said that from the perspective of human evolution, the mother is the soul of the family. If the mother is happy, the whole family will be happy; if the mother is anxious, the whole family will be anxious. In fact, when a woman enters a marriage, it is more important than doing the housework perfectly, cooking the food perfectly, educating the children perfectly, and building herself perfectly, so that she can face everyone and every problem in the family happily with joy. , is more important. Life can never be smooth sailing without some problems and challenges. Instead of trying to create an all-powerful and perfect image for your children and family, it is better to calmly show them a posture to face problems. Companies have corporate culture, and families also have family culture. Mother is the leader in the construction of family culture. Whether the family culture is frank, relaxed, and happy, or tense, depressed, and painful, determines the cohesion of a family. As a mother, your good attitude and good mood can save the mood of the whole family. This is your unique contribution that no one can replace. On the other hand, if you are always frowning and complaining, your family will definitely not be happy, and your children will be greatly affected. No matter what kind of relationship you are in, try to be a happy person. A happy and good mood is the secret weapon of being a good mother. Dear parents, have you got it?