You can tell whether you are a good father by your wife\’s appearance

Pregnancy and childbirth are a major turning point in many women\’s lives. Whether it is life or career, everything is different from before. The focus of life is completely on the children, and work, personal life and even husband have to be put aside. There was a female classmate in the class who was once a flower. Not long after graduation, she married her boyfriend who had been in love for many years. The rich man and the beautiful woman looked right and got the envy of many people. Soon she became pregnant, and everyone congratulated her on quickly entering the happy life of a family of three. She never imagined that life after giving birth would be completely different from what she had imagined. She gave birth to a baby girl, and her husband\’s family was very dissatisfied and neglected the care of the mother. Her husband was left to take care of the baby and just go to work and ignore family matters. She was alone in the whole family and could only cry secretly every day, almost suffering from postpartum depression. After she was out of confinement, her classmates organized a visit. When they saw her, they couldn\’t help but sigh. She was such a beautiful woman, but now she has become so haggard and withered. The most obvious and fastest impact of childbirth on a woman is first and foremost reflected in her appearance. Taking care of the baby around the clock, reversing work schedules day and night, heavy housework, and taking care of work… These overloaded pressures cause women to become increasingly haggard, and originally young girls become \”yellow-faced women.\” In this type of family, you can\’t find the role of \”dad\” at all. Women devote all their time and energy to their children and family, and can\’t spare any time to make plans for themselves. Who doesn\’t want to do this? What about a pretty hot mom? Many men complain that their wives have changed after giving birth to children. In fact, this is because men have not yet entered the role of \”husband\” and \”father\”. Raising children is not a mother’s job alone, please fathers please don’t forget your own job. There is a saying that a man\’s personality will affect his wife\’s appearance, which makes sense. Hugh Jackman, who starred in \”The Wolverine\”, married Deborah, who was 13 years older than him, when he was 27. The goddess back then has now become a 60-year-old old woman, with an out-of-shape figure that is not stunning at all. Everyone thought that Hugh Jackman would be unable to stand his old and lustful wife, but who knew that he would become a maniac about showing off his wife? He openly showed off his affection in front of the whole world. He would always have his fingers intertwined with his wife\’s and wear a wedding ring wherever he went. Never leaving her body, the eyes he looked at her were always as doting as before. And Deborah, even though she has lost her youthful charm, still smiles as happily as a girl. Hugh Jackman said: \”Meeting her is the happiest thing in my life. Our life is getting better and better day by day.\” The new family formed with his wife and children is the \”little family\”, and the original family is the \”big family\” , distinguishing between \”everyone\” and \”little family\”, and maintaining the \”little family\” together with your wife is the most important thing for a husband and father. When husband and wife support each other, understand each other, and share burdens together, many difficulties encountered in life will naturally be solved. We know that in every troubled family, there is an incompetent husband. I have a colleague who is a role model of a good family man! When his wife was pregnant, he was even more nervous than a pregnant woman. She suffered from severe morning sickness, so he learned to make meals for pregnant women to supplement her nutrition. He always took time to accompany her during every prenatal check-up.He had carefully learned about his wife\’s vaginal delivery and caesarean section in the past, and also studied how to deal with postpartum depression. He prepared the maternity package and various necessities after the birth of the child early. During the ten months of her pregnancy, he was not idle. He learned all the postpartum care and parenting knowledge, and seriously thought about what to do. What should I do if there is a conflict in parenting concepts when the elderly are raising children? He said that he could not share the pain of his wife\’s childbirth, but if he learned these things, his wife would be able to rely on him when she encounters these problems in the future. We went to his home as a guest, and his wife received us with a smile while holding her child. She was really a very beautiful and happy woman.