It turns out that having a child of your own is so wonderful

Let me be excited for three minutes first. CC officially opened yesterday. I don’t know how other people feel about sending their children to kindergarten. Anyway, Dad C and I have been excited since two days ago. First, I hurriedly went to CC’s grandma and asked her to make CC a new quilt because the quilt issued by the kindergarten was too thick. As soon as the cotton was finished and the quilt was turned over and ready to be sealed, I saw Dad C touching here and there, but he hesitated to speak! I urged him to say something quickly and fart quickly! It\’s about to be sealed. I saw him take a deep breath and finally said to his mother-in-law: Mom, I think the quilt is too thin. Well, actually that’s what I want to say. Grandma CC turned all the quilt core back over and added a layer of cotton batting. I touched left and right again. Is it thicker again? I am grinding. Grandma CC had a look of disgust on her face: Look at your virtues, you have become a real mother, and you have learned to be indecisive, you are such a mother-in-law! Hey, now you know I’m talking about you. I don’t know when I was in school, every time school started, who would be following me asking: Have you brought enough changes of clothes? Have you left your bookwork behind? Is the quilt tape thin or thick? After becoming a mother, these trivial matters are the same. When I was a child, I often heard people say that a woman’s family of origin is her first reincarnation, and getting married is her second reincarnation. Now I want to say that raising children is definitely a woman’s third reincarnation, and it is definitely the most completely reborn and complete one. Nowadays, it is popular that mothers give birth to children and grandmothers raise them. In the past, I only thought that the way in which the elderly had full authority over their children would inevitably lead to over-indulgence and insufficient rules. Little do they know that the real obstacle is the change that the new role of a parent brings to a person\’s growth. What the elders who take care of everything don’t understand is that children can only complete the transformation of life by experiencing the process of taking care of their children with their own hands. Only by learning to love their children can they turn their heads to love. parents. If you didn\’t learn this when you were young, it\’s not unfilial, it\’s just that you don\’t know how to be filial, just like me before. Grandma CC lived in the hospital twice. The first time was when I just graduated from college, and the second time was after I had CC. I used to be a very nervous person, taking care of patients? In the words of Grandma CC: Don’t worry about the properties of fruit and food, they will be piled up in front of people, regardless of whether the patient can chew them; it doesn’t matter whether others are sleeping when you pack something; water for washing your face and feet will come Just put it on the ground and don\’t care whether it\’s cold or hot. But because I raised a child with my own hands, although I didn’t do everything myself, I still took good care of him. Eating, drinking, sleeping, sleeping, it sounds so easy to say it, but only after you have really served you will you know what micromanaging means. If you have added complementary food to babies, you will of course know that the liquid food that patients need to take after surgery can be added with some minced vegetables and minced meat using food scissors or a grinding bowl, not just a bowl of light millet porridge. If you have experienced sleeping in a bunker every day, you will certainly consider what kind of environment, what kind of posture, and even what kind of light can make the patient sleep more peacefully. If you have patiently coaxed a child who ran away and cried, and have battled wits and courage with a child in Trouble 2, then you will definitely have enough experience.Be patient enough and listen to your parents. If you\’ve ever raised a child, all of the above will come easily to you. If you have never raised it, then even if you teach it, you will only learn superficially and not from the bottom of your heart. In the past, I always felt that the people of the previous generation were very loving. Regardless of whether they were rich or poor, in urban or rural areas, they always seemed to be gentle and tolerant, and could take care of your heart. Later, I slowly realized that the calm and peaceful look on my face was just because I became a mother! It is said that every mother has potential, whether she is working hard in the workplace or running her life. I think this sentence is correct. Raising children gives women a new opportunity for self-growth and self-cultivation. Who we always thought we were is actually only seeing the part of the iceberg that has surfaced. Our family of origin creates our innate character and allows us to understand ourselves. Marriage gives us the opportunity to see different families and different lifestyles. In addition to our former family members, we are willing to join hands with another person for the rest of our lives. The ultimate degree of intimacy may even exceed that of our original family members. And a more intimate relationship allows the part hidden below to slowly surface. We know each other\’s most vulnerable parts, we love passionately, and we gnash our teeth when we hate. Then you see another part of yourself that you never knew: You may have never known that you are so stingy, so careless, and so hurtful… Then to raising a child, you have to pay from the bottom of your heart and compromise in every detail. See all the icebergs look like. You may never believe that you can be so gentle, so compromising, so stubborn, or even so vicious… Only in front of weak children can you truly let go of your defenses, your forbearance and restraint. See to your true self. It is precisely because of your children that you will know how much you want to change and how much room for improvement you still have. This kind of transformation after raising children is forced but also instinctive. \”No matter how powerful a person is, his temper will be tempered by children.\” This is not sarcasm, but a sincere compliment. You think it\’s because your children have tempered you, that you\’ve lost your fighting spirit and your temper. Little do they know that it is precisely this experience of being a parent that ultimately softens the years, amazes them, and makes them self-fulfilling.