My child was afraid of classmates\’ jokes and rejected the chubby kid in the class. I was completely convinced by her mother\’s way of handling it!

One afternoon, Honghong\’s mother went to the kindergarten to pick up Honghong from school. As soon as she saw Honghong, she found that her daughter\’s little mouth was very pouty. When Honghong\’s mother asked, Honghong shook her mother\’s arm unhappily. Complaining all the time. \”Mommy, I don\’t want to do handicraft classes with that fat guy. He\’s so ugly. My classmates all laugh at me.\” Hong Hong\’s mother was stunned and frowned. She didn\’t tell Honghong what to do immediately. Instead, she stayed for more than ten minutes when she sent Honghong to the kindergarten the next day. When she saw the little fat man in Honghong\’s mouth, she thought about something before leaving. On the third day, when Hong Hong’s mother sent Hong Hong to the kindergarten, she carried a lot of candies in the bag. After sending Hong Hong in, she waited at the door for the little fat boy to come to the kindergarten. It turned out that the little fat boy’s name was Teng Teng. . Hong Hong’s mother greeted Teng Teng’s mother kindly, and told Teng Teng’s mother about Hong Hong and Teng Teng doing handicrafts together. Before Teng Teng entered the kindergarten, Hong Hong’s mother put the candy she had prepared into Teng Teng’s hand and asked him to Share with the class. Sure enough, Honghong was very happy when she went back in the evening. She even saved the candy Tengteng gave her for her mother to eat, and her attitude towards Tengteng changed from dislike to neutral. Seeing that Honghong\’s attitude was no longer so tough, Honghong\’s mother spoke to her earnestly, telling her about the cuteness of Little Fatty Tengteng, the benefits of being good at sharing, and that you should not judge people by their appearance, and you should not follow others\’ opinions. You must have your own idea. After hearing this, Honghong nodded in understanding, and then she and Tengteng became very good playmates. Later, Honghong\’s father overheard Honghong\’s mother mentioning this matter, and asked Honghong\’s mother in surprise: \”Why do you have to go to so much trouble to do so many things? Also, it was you who gave the sugar to that little chubby boy.\” Yes, why did all the credit go to him? Aren\’t you deceiving your daughter?\” Hong Hong\’s mother looked at Hong Hong\’s father and shook her head. \”Why don\’t you understand such a simple truth?\” Afterwards, Honghong\’s mother explained her thoughts to Honghong\’s father. After hearing this, Honghong\’s father was stunned and gave his wife thumbs up repeatedly. The truth is actually very simple. When a child has a bad impression of someone or something, if you directly tell the child that he or she is wrong, they will often not listen because of their rebellious mentality. In serious cases, the relationship between the child and the parents may be deteriorated. There is a certain risk in the relationship between them, so it is best not to reason directly. Instead, create a beautified environment and let the children discover the bright spots of things they have a bad impression of. After they have a certain ability to distinguish and judge, it is often easier to accept it. And the way Hong Hong’s mother gave the candy to Teng Teng and let him eat it for his friends was actually a test for Teng Teng, because there was not only one choice. He could have kept the candy for himself, but But he gave it to every kid in the class, which proved that Tengteng was a good kid and worthy of Honghong\’s friends. Hong Hong\’s mother\’s way of dealing with the conflict between Hong Hong and her friends is quite rational and intelligent. Other mothers and fathers can also learn a lot of parenting tips from it. So next time the babies have a problem, they must think clearly about how to solve it in the most effective way and least hurt the relationship between parents and children.