A mother uses this method just to give her son a sweet dream

It wasn\’t until my son\’s breathing gradually became heavier and evener that I stopped holding the cattail leaf fan in my hand. The weather is getting warmer, and it\’s time to use an electric fan to cool down. There is also the roar of the air conditioner plug-in box downstairs, but I insist on using the older generation\’s method to cool my son. Some people may object and say that I am too frugal, but I just want to say: It is not for anything else, just to give my son the company and love of my mother when he was a child. Many of us lament that our children grow up too fast. As parents, we only have a few years with them, and at the same time we treat the existence of our children as nothing. What I describe is not an exaggeration at all. I wonder if the following scene has ever happened in On you? Parents pay attention to the cultivation of their children\’s reading ability from an early age. They equip their children with various audio-visual electronic devices when they are still in their infancy. There are all kinds of stories from astronomy to geography, from ancient times to the present; in order to fully liberate themselves and live a modern life. The style of a woman, as soon as the child was born, she resumed her former wonderful life, socializing, losing weight… she was so busy that she threw the child to the nanny or the elderly, and after returning home happily, she treated the child as a living toy. There is such an example around me. A mother was busy having fun outside when her child was just one month old, and was always not with her child for various reasons. The child was accompanied by an invited aunt 24 hours a day. When I was young, I noticed that my child\’s language ability was weaker than other children, but there was no other abnormality. Later, after my child entered elementary school, he encountered obstacles in learning and his learning ability was obviously not as good as others. The family is in agony because of their child\’s current learning situation. It is important to know that the child\’s parents have stable IQs and are both leaders in their respective fields of work. We don’t know the reason except for some other factors. I always think it may be related to the lack of maternal companionship and skin-to-skin contact in infants and young children. Do you still play with your phone after your child begged you several times? When your child is making a lot of noise, do you throw him a mobile phone, tablet, or computer, let him play, and are you glad that he finally has a clear sky? Yes, children nowadays are rich in life. They can let adults buy all kinds of delicious food they want to eat. They have all kinds of toys, even expensive electronic products, etc. As a mother, have you ever thought about the true inner needs of your children? Why are more and more children suffering from various psychological problems as society progresses? They are just children who have not yet experienced the world. Where does the problem come from? It is said that the first connection between a child and the world is established by the mother. Breastfeeding, skin-to-skin contact, every word, every song, every smile, etc., are all opening and widening this channel. An intimate mother-child relationship is the prerequisite for an intimate father-child relationship. The quality of the parent-child relationship between a child and his or her parents determines the quality of the child\’s future relationship with the entire world. Therefore, I would like to stick to my way, use the cattail leaf fan in my hand to drive away the heat for the child and accompany him to sleep, just to feel the mother\’s love when he sweetly falls asleep, instead of the roar of a machine without temperature; I would like to Get up half an hour early and prepare your child\’s favorite egg pancakes and porridge, just to have mother\’s love flowing in his stomach early in the morning instead of just buying them randomly.I would like to use my clumsy Mandarin to read the story to my child vividly, just to familiarize him with my mother\’s voice, instead of listening to standard electronic playback when he grows up… When the child grows up When facing his own child, if he can still remember with a smile the cattail leaf fan in his mother\’s hand when he was young, that would be my pleasure. If I can use my little bit to exchange for the warm growth of my children, that will be my joy… Text | Duoma