A 10-year-old boy was scolded by his mother for doing laundry?!

\”I\’ll give you a mobile phone, but don\’t play with it!\” There were many people in the playground. One of the projects my son chose to play was jungle adventure, but there was a long, long queue. At this time, I had to go to the bathroom. If I asked him to go with me, it would take about four minutes to go back and forth, so I handed him the other mobile phone I carried with me in case I couldn\’t find him by then. When I handed the phone to him, he was very happy and readily agreed to my request. When I returned, I saw him from a distance in the queue looking at his mobile phone very intently. He occasionally raised his head and looked into the distance, probably to see if I had come. My mind got hot and I wanted to rush up and teach him a lesson. But I still endured it, reciting it silently in my heart, counting from ten to one, and flashing quickly in my head: There are so many children and parents in this team, he is alone in the team bravely, he is not messy Run, he is only ten years old. So, I walked closer to him while observing him, and saw that he stopped looking at his phone. He grabbed the phone in his hand, looked in front of him, and then looked around, and he happened to see me at a glance. He shouted happily: \”Mom, come and help me line up. This will take a long time. I\’ll go play the game where the line is not long first.\” He handed the phone back to me and skipped away. Out of curiosity, I took a look at what he was playing on his phone just now. Unexpectedly, there were two text messages, both of which were sent to me. One was: I love you! One is: Come on! I looked at my phone again and saw that I had also received two messages. If I didn\’t hold my temper, the child would be scolded by me. As a result, I revealed my distrust of him, and he had to explain to me aggrievedly that neither of us would be happy. Later, after we left the amusement park, I asked him about the text message. He said that he was a little anxious after waiting for a long time but didn\’t see me coming, so he sent me a text message to see me soon. This reminds me of something that happened not long ago. That night, I asked him to go to the bathroom to take a shower. He didn\’t come out for half an hour, so I pushed the door open and saw soap bubbles everywhere in the bathroom. He seemed to be having a lot of fun in there while naked. Very happy. I was furious and asked him to wash himself off and come out immediately. He came out quickly, I threw him a towel, he dried himself off and put on clean clothes. Unexpectedly, I just went to pour a glass of water and saw him running into the bathroom and turning on the faucet. I only heard the sound of water \”swishing\”, and the front of the clean clothes he put on immediately became wet. A big piece. \”Come out.\” I was furious. \”I\’ve been playing for so long, isn\’t it enough for you?\” I yelled, completely losing the peace that a mother should have. \”No, Mom -\” He probably had never seen me get so angry before. He looked at me timidly and said in a small voice: \”Mom, I just washed my own clothes and they haven\’t been washed yet. There are soap bubbles.\” I took a closer look and saw that there were the T-shirt and shorts he had changed into in the basin. He was washing his own clothes the way I usually do. I was used to using washing powder to wash clothes. When I rinsed them with warm water, a lot of foam would come out. But he couldn’t find the washing powder, so he usedI had some soap, but it didn\’t make bubbles like the ones I washed, so I put the whole piece of soap into the basin until a lot of bubbles came out. I immediately became gentle and told him how to wash clothes with soap: wash the clothes with soap and then wash them with clean water. Then the two of us washed his clothes together and he dried them on the balcony. \”Mom, what can I do today?\” he asked me, admiring the clothes hanging on the balcony. \”Of course I\’m very capable. Mom blamed you wrongly today!\” I took the opportunity to apologize to him. \”It\’s okay, Mom. I will do what I can from now on. I will help Mom with housework.\” His words moved me for a while. From that moment on, I developed a habit. Whenever I saw something he did that made me unhappy, I would first count in my mind, from ten to one, and quickly think in my mind, why did he do this? I want to see the real reason behind the appearance. When you don\’t know the truth about some things, please don\’t go by the surface, just look at the surface, and don\’t rush to conclusions, especially when it comes to children, because children have exquisite hearts. Text | Qingfeng 14306