Mother beats 3-and-a-half-year-old son violently, the reason is embarrassing

Baby, looking at the tears still hanging on your sleeping face, you don’t know how distressed your mother is. Your eyebrows are furrowed tightly, your breath is still sniffling, you must still be angry, or you are thinking: What happened to my mother today? Doesn’t she love me anymore? My child, my mother knows that it is wrong to spank you. She has never used this trump card easily, but today, my mother did it, with red marks on her white buttocks. Mom hopes that you will come to her like you did when you did something wrong in the past, rub your mother\’s legs, and whisper: \”Mom, I was wrong.\” But more than an hour later, you undressed and took off your shoes like an adult. The quilt fell asleep, leaving a back for my mother. You don’t know how much your mother regrets her rough behavior! My child, you are only three and a half years old. How can I help you understand the difficulties of adults? At noon, you didn\’t wake up, and it was already time for your mother to go to work, so she had no choice but to forcefully wake you up and send you to kindergarten. Your heart-wrenching cry could not go away from your mother all the way, but she was late. The meeting was very late in the afternoon. When my mother rushed to your classroom, she saw you lying alone on the window sill, thinking, \”Mom, why didn\’t you come to pick me up earlier? I want to play on the slide.\” The weather was cold and cloudy, like It\’s going to snow. The kindergarten has long been deserted, and there is not even a single child left. Mom is bored watching you climbing up and down and playing around. Mom follows your butt and discusses with you, \”Mom will pick you up early tomorrow so you can have enough fun. Go home today, otherwise, we won\’t be able to get boiled water or eat.\” She keeps following you around, but you ignore her. Just playing, \”Baby, it\’s too late today. Mom has something to do tonight, and she has to cook when she gets home. Go home!\” You still didn\’t hear. Mom was in a terrible mood and her patience was at its limit. Mom turned around and left. Your crying followed you from a distance, and she pretended not to hear it. Your cries that resounded throughout the campus attracted the attention of passers-by. You still cried unscrupulously. Your cries ignited your mother\’s anger little by little. The first time your mother hit you so angrily, she wanted you to understand, Children also need to love adults. You must love your mother and understand your mother\’s hard work. Children, in real life, there are many things that you don’t do your best to, and not everything can be satisfied. Ever since you understand that crying is a magic weapon to achieve satisfaction, the sound of crying will accompany you through shopping malls, playgrounds, supermarkets and snack bars, and it works every time. As of today, your self-centeredness has reached the point where your mother is worried, not just today. That day, my father bought a pomegranate, which you had never seen before, and he ate it with the skin on. Mom wanted to help you break it open, but you hugged it tightly and started crying, fearing that mom would eat it. My child, you are everything in my mother’s life. If you want her heart, she will give you more than just a pomegranate. Those pomegranates were kept on the table and no one was allowed to touch them, let alone eat any of the seeds. My child, how sad it is for your mother to see such a selfish you! My mother always said that good things should be shared and cannot be kept by one person. You understood it, but you never acted on it. My mother remembered this thing to tell you, child, getting along with others is a very important lesson in life, and it is not easy to learn. The first thing to do is not to be too selfish and learn to share. Boy, I remembered one more thing. one day,Uncle brought you a kitten, how cute it is! You like it so much, chasing the kitten from one house to another. Although your father and I both know that children cannot play with pets. But your uncle said it doesn\’t matter if you take a shower frequently and don\’t run outside. I thought you would be scared, but after a while the cat was in your arms and already in love with you. You happily watched your father bathe the kitten and twist its toenails, and curiously asked many questions. I insist on cuddling the kitten to sleep at night. The kitten grows up day by day and stays with you like a follower. One day at noon, a shrill scream came to the kitchen. I hurried to the bedroom and saw you holding the pillow to press the kitten. You were also climbing on it. Under the shrill scream, the cat\’s claws stretched out towards your face. The cat fled under the bed amidst your shrill cries, and looking at your scratched forehead, mom was still frightened. Just because the kitten rolled your ping pong ball off the bed, you\’re going to crush him to death! Oh, child, it is a life, just like you. Don\’t end the life of a small ball. It is your good friend and you should treat it well. Also, you should take good care of your toys. Looking at your Barbie doll that was \”broken into pieces\”, the messy building blocks, and the toy books that were broken into pieces, my mother felt so heartbroken. My child, these toys have brought you so much joy. It is these toys that teach you about the colors, sizes, shapes, and sounds of the world. They are witnesses of your growth. From now on, please take good care of your toys and put them away after playing with them, okay? Be kind to the world, and the world will be kind to you, kid. My child, in order for you to have more books to read and more documents to read, your parents have worked hard, and every penny is hard-earned. So, you have to learn to be frugal. Don\’t let the water faucet flow like a stream all the time, don\’t turn on all the lights at home just because you\’re afraid, don\’t turn on the TV, computer, and VCD all the time just because it\’s fun. Don\’t throw it into the trash can just because it doesn\’t taste good, and don\’t ask for a big car just because a child has a small car. My child, I feel sad every time I see the things you buy from the supermarket without mercy. Most of them are not thrown to the grandparents. The grandparents always eat the small bits of pastries and half cans of drinks you left, often causing stomach upsets. Such a waste is appalling. Children, thrift is not a sign of poverty, but a virtue! Mom hopes that this seed of diligence and thrift will be rooted in your heart from now on. Dear baby, it’s so hard for you to say these words to you. Education experts told mothers that education should start little by little, encourage and praise children more, try not to use negative words, let alone spank children. But my mother still said so many \”nos\”. In fact, my mother was also very confused and conflicted. Is the beating you received today the result of too much encouragement and too much affirmation?