It\’s all grandma\’s fault, the child\’s concentration has been ruined.

Our family, Chenchen, has been a child with ADHD since he was a child. He cannot sit down. I have always been worried about whether he will move around and be distracted in class. In this regard, I have thought of many ways, such as playing puzzles with him and playing Sudoku games. Of course, the most common thing I do is to take my children to read books. During the summer vacation, when the weather is hot, I often take my children to the Book City. There is a large children\’s book area there, and many children read there every day. The atmosphere is very good, and children are easily infected and sit down to read. That day, Chenchen and I went to read a book. Chenchen quickly selected a book. He sat down on the floor with the book and looked at it quietly. I also took the book I selected early in the morning and accompanied my child. watch together. After a while, a fair and clean little boy came over. He picked out a book and sat down next to Chenchen to read. His chubby hands were placed on the pages of the book, and there were round fleshy dimples on the back of his hands. They were cute. Awesome, because Chenchen is on the thin side, I am particularly fond of this kind of chubby boy, so I couldn’t help but take a second look at him. The little boy had just read less than two pages when his grandma ran over, grabbed the little boy and pulled him up from the floor. \”The ground is so cold, how can you sit on the ground? You will catch a cold.\” The little boy I stood up and read, and when I got tired after reading for a while, I sat down again. Grandma was anxious, \”If you catch a cold, you will have diarrhea!\” She pulled the child up again, put her coat on the ground, and let the child sit. The little boy was tossed back and forth by his grandma twice. He seemed to have lost interest in the book in his hand, so he went to the bookshelf again and finally chose a comic book. After reading it for a few minutes, his grandma chased after him with a kettle. He walked over and said, \”My dear grandson, are your mouth dry? Have a drink of water.\” The little boy said, \”I don\’t want to drink.\” The grandma was anxious and directly fed the straw of the kettle into the child\’s mouth, \”How can you not drink water? \”It\’s so hot. If you don\’t drink water, you will get sick. Your parents are busy with work and have no time to take care of you. When you get sick, I won\’t care about you.\” After a while of nagging, the child finally drank the water. . The little boy returned to Chenchen with the comic book and sat on his grandma\’s coat to read. Maybe it was uncomfortable after sitting for a long time, so the little boy lay down on the floor (there were also many children lying on their stomachs reading around, and the children loved to imitate them. The little boy might be imitating them), and now grandma couldn\’t sit still anymore. She immediately pulled the child up and said, \”I told you that I would catch a cold, but you still lie down on the ground. You are so disobedient. Stop looking at it. Let\’s buy a book and go home to read it!\” As she said this, the grandma put the book in the child\’s hand. He snatched the book away, grabbed his coat, and pulled the child away. It took about 40 minutes from the time the little boy came to Chenchen to read to the time he finally left. Excluding the time when the child chose books and argued, in the remaining thirty minutes, grandma interrupted the child four times in total, sitting down twice and drinking once. Water, lie down on the ground at a time. I don’t know if the child has noticed anything during this period. I think interrupting the child again and again like this is the greatest damage to the child’s concentration. In fact, when the little boy was choosing a book, I also tried to communicate with the grandmother and persuaded her, \”Auntie, it\’s okay to sit for a while, as long as the child likes it.\” The grandmother chirped to me: \”Sit on the floor. You\’ll catch a cold. How can you not drink on a hot day?Water…You can\’t spoil a child, you have to pay attention to it at all times. Today\’s children are delicate…\” Grandma said while staring at her grandson, and soon went to feed her grandson water. I believe this grandma really loves her children. , and are also very concerned about the health of their children. However, when children are concentrating on one thing, they really shouldn’t interrupt them. Children are always interrupted and cannot concentrate for a long time. They become irritable and have trouble doing things. It’s easy to give up halfway if you can’t concentrate. When you study in the future, you will always get distracted and stop doing it halfway. How bad it is. It’s a pity that your good concentration is ruined by such unintentional “love”. I think, Even if the child buys a book and goes home to read it, according to the way this grandma interrupts the child\’s rhythm, the child may not be able to calm down and read the book. The child\’s concentration is very important for his future study and work. As parents, You must not easily damage your children\’s concentration. Especially if there are elderly people at home who help take care of their children, you must explain it clearly to them. Maybe some elderly people have difficulty communicating, but we must try our best to communicate. We must be responsible for our children. .