Let’s work together to realize our children’s dreams

Dreams are the source of motivation for a person to move forward. Everyone should have a dream. People who have dreams are fearless and beautiful. Dreams allow people to put on the wings of hope and fly in the world of imagination. It is the nature of children to like to dream. Only children with dreams will have greater hope of spreading their wings in the future, and the chance of success will naturally be greater. Let us think about it, most of those children who do not have lofty dreams will follow the rules or even be conservative throughout their lives. Many successful people have dreams shining in their minds, guiding them in the direction of progress. But since it is a dream, it must not be realized immediately. However, as we all know, if you dare not dream, you will never realize it. Therefore, \”bad\” parents should not only encourage their children to become bold people, but also encourage their children to become people with dreams. It is passionate parents who can cultivate children with dreams and passion. Let’s listen to the following mother’s story: I have always approved and supported any dream of my child. No matter how unrealistic the dream may seem to most people, I always feel that my son’s ability to have ideas shows that he has a strong heart. It is flexible, and in this case, everything is possible. I have always believed that it is my responsibility to make my son a successful person who strives to realize his dreams. As long as you have high aspirations and unremitting efforts in life, your dreams will come true. I believe that with faith in life and arming children\’s minds with scientific knowledge, reality and dreams will not be too far apart. Before my son was 5 years old, he would often ask me all kinds of weird questions. After two years, he would often tell me new things because he knew the words and could read by himself, and he liked reading very much. , I read a lot of popular science books without putting them down. It can be said that at a young age, my son already knows a lot about astronomy and geography. The amount of scientific knowledge in his little head is beyond the reach of me, a mother. Reading helped my son truly realize his dreams. Facts have proved that some of his later dreams have scientific basis. He first dreamed of traveling through space in a spacecraft and landing on the moon and Mars; he also once said arrogantly in his award-winning essay: \”If I become the Prime Minister of the State Council…\” I have always adopted a favorable attitude toward these dreams and have always regarded him as a An encourager and supporter who never discouraged him and seriously discussed with him opportunities to realize his dreams. I know that mother’s support is the driving force for children to realize their dreams. Now more than ten years have passed, many of my son’s dreams have been or are being realized. As a mother, I am glad that I have always supported his dream since he was a child; if I had discouraged his dream since he was a child, the result would never be what it is now. If I had suppressed his dream since childhood, the result would never be what it is now. After reading the above examples, we should understand that children’s dreams need support, and as the force that children can most rely on, the support of parents must be a strong guarantee for children to realize their dreams. With the support of parents, children’s dreams will be fulfilled. Ladder to success. In addition to providing maximum support and understanding to children after they have their dreams. Parents also have the responsibility to guide their children on the path to their dreams. As parents, we can stillHelp children find a dream that suits their life development. Both children and parents can shape a dream for themselves, then work together to realize it, and be moved in the process of pursuing it. \”Bad\” parents always maintain a supportive attitude towards their children\’s dreams. Even if their children\’s dreams seem far-fetched and even they think it is impossible to realize them, they will still encourage their children with a smile and try their best to show support. So, from the perspective of “bad” parents, how should they help their children realize their dreams? In real life, many children are not very clear about what their dreams are and where they should establish their ideals. In fact, this is a blind behavior. There is one thing that is inseparably connected with dreams, which can also be said to be the beacons for realizing dreams, and that is goals. Goals can be big or small, and are not as vague as dreams. Therefore, for those children who cannot find their dreams yet, parents helping them set some practical goals is also a good way to help children find their dreams and direction. , as the saying goes: \”Goals are the benchmark bearer of our dreams, guiding us to run in this direction.\” \”Bad\” parents have the simplest principles, and they will think that the simplest way to establish goals is \” \”Like goal method\” is to take what you like or want to do as a goal and work hard to get closer to it. Parents should be the executive directors of their children\’s dreams. Dreams are their own, but the road to realizing their dreams is often rugged and bumpy. Children will always give up on their dreams due to changes in some factors. At this time, parents should Become a supervisor of children\’s dreams and help them move forward consistently towards their dreams. First of all, on the road to realizing their dreams, \”bad\” parents must always maintain the passion for life. Only by always having the passion to run towards the goal can they persevere to the end. It is easy for children to give up, because success sometimes does not mean success for them. Not that realistic. Therefore, the \”bad\” tricks of \”bad\” parents are, for example, parents can consciously create some elements of passion for their children in their lives, which will help cultivate their children\’s perseverance motivation. For example, parents can talk about some celebrities at the dinner table. Inspirational stories, or insights from the survival of the fittest in the animal world, etc., to inspire children\’s enthusiasm for progress. Parents can also help their children inspire more passion for life in details. For example, children can be allowed to raise some small white rabbits, kittens and other pets, so that children can cultivate an optimistic attitude in the process of feeding small animals. As a kind of emotional release, it can also help children get rid of psychological fatigue and make their dreams more fulfilling. Some smooth roads. Everyone has their own dreams, but dreams may not always come true. In the long road of life, many things cannot go as expected. Take the college entrance examination as an example. Many parents hope that their children will be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University, thinking that this is the only way to honor their ancestors. In fact, it is certainly good to be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University. But Tsinghua University and Peking University are not something you can get into if you want. People should know how to do what they can. Therefore, the \”bad\” parents\’ \”\”Bad\” means that we will not be too demanding on ourselves, let alone our children. We must not have too high expectations for children, because such expectations may become the motivation for children to learn, and may also become the motivation for children to grow. Huge pressure, and sometimes this pressure may even destroy the hope of children. Parents should treat their children with a normal heart, help and guide them to correctly understand themselves and society, and help them choose goals that suit them. Successful goals may not be The most valuable one is the one most likely to be realized. Therefore, parents give their children a realistic expectation to help their children get closer to their dreams most effectively. In addition, everyone is seeking happiness in life, so \”bad\” parents They believe that as parents, we should try our best to let our children have happy emotions, especially on the difficult road of pursuing their dreams. Letting our children be as happy as possible every day is what smart parents should do and think about. Emotions also affect actions. It has a very far-reaching impact. When we complete it with a negative mentality, we experience more fatigue and burnout, and we are further and further away from the realization of our dreams; when we use a When we complete our tasks with a positive attitude, we experience more of a kind of happiness. People often become depressed because of one thing, which leads to a series of reactions. Therefore, parents should give their children elements of happiness, so that , if a child has a good mood, he can achieve higher efficiency and have a clearer and more flexible mind. Let us end this topic about dreams with a passage from a hard-working father at his son’s wedding. I believe Every parent can see the endless love and expectations between the lines in these words: \”Years ago, my child\’s dream was to study abroad. His mother and I unanimously fulfilled his dream. On the road to studying in a foreign country, my son Not only did he realize his dream, but he also found his bride today and the person who can love him for the rest of his life. As parents, we only hope that they can support each other in their future lives and move forward in a down-to-earth manner. When they become parents one day, we hope that they can do better than us and educate better students who are useful to society. People…\” Respect your children\’s hobbies. Even if you think this hobby is too unrealistic or your child\’s dream is difficult to realize, please remember that it is just a dream after all. Parents should not demand that dreams must come true, but It is a process that focuses more on hard work. If parents can create conditions as much as possible for their children to have contact with people who share their pursuits and dreams, it will be the greatest support for their children to realize their dreams.