Teaching your children this is worth more than tens of millions of dollars in wealth

A friend told me that she sends her daughter to piano lessons on weekends. The little guy is 7 years old this year. He is usually quirky and loves to talk and laugh, but that day he was uncharacteristically different and asked her with a solemn expression: \”Mom, can you not learn the piano today? Learning the piano is so tiring!\” After that, he said A long sigh. Naturally, my friend did not agree, \”If you want to do something well, you can\’t be afraid of getting tired. You may be a little tired now, but in the future when you play the piano skillfully, you will definitely feel very happy!\” The little guy said quietly: \”Does it have to be so hard if you want to learn well?\” Yes, kid, it must be so hard! If you can\’t endure hardship and are too greedy for comfort, you won\’t be able to do well. No success is the result of hard work. I saw a piece of news two days ago. A rural girl endured the pain to practice dance in order to change her destiny. A group of 6 or 7-year-old children lowered their waists and pressed their legs in a simple dance practice venue with their immature faces. With a heart-wrenching strength. I don’t know if the children’s future will really be rewritten, but fate will never let down every drop of sweat. In ancient times, there were hanging beams that stabbed the buttocks and walls that stole the light. Looking at it, everyone’s success is not accidental. It is watered with sweat and tears. When they stand on the high platform of success, they will never forget themselves. How much hardship did you have to endure before you dared to stop and take a breath? We are parents, but we are also adults first. Compared with children who are not familiar with the world, we understand better that life is not easy and success is even harder. Being able to endure hardship is very important. It’s understandable to be eager for your children to become successful and your daughters to be successful, but no matter how anxious you are, you must never forget to teach your children the lesson of enduring hardship. Children who can endure hardship are more competitive. Enduring hardship is a test of a child\’s endurance and willpower. Only those who can withstand \”bitterness\” dare to talk about sweetness. A friend\’s child happily told him that he had been elected class president. A friend asked him: \”Why is everyone willing to choose you as the monitor?\” The child thought for a while and replied: \”Maybe it\’s because I am willing to work!\” At first glance, it sounds ridiculous, but if you think about it carefully, in a group of Among the pampered little emperors and little princesses, they look so good at work! For today\’s children, many things have to be done by their parents, and they are getting lazier and lazier. They complain over and over again when they do even the slightest thing, and feel tired. We parents know very well that cleaning the room and packing school bags by ourselves is not a hardship at all, but we still can\’t let go of our doting heart and want to make our children comfortable and comfortable. A comfortable environment will sap people\’s fighting spirit and make them fall behind others. Children who can endure hardship are all self-reliant. In the real society, such children are more competitive and are more likely to stand out when faced with choices and challenges. Children who can endure hardship will have a broader road ahead. On the surface, enduring hardship is a test of the child\’s endurance, but in fact it is more about training the child\’s grasp of future opportunities. Why do we send our children to specialty classes? Trying something new will definitely not be easy at the beginning. However, after the child overcomes the physical and psychological fatigue, for him, the expertise he has learned may become a fulcrum for him at a certain period of time. This has nothing to do with utilitarianism, I just hope that he will be better off alone. Allowing children to endure a little hardship is to encourage them to take the initiative to step out of the cycle of comfort and accept challenges. The child is hereIn the process of enduring hardship, it is easier to calm down. When they overcome one difficulty after another through their own sweat and even tears, they will become more and more confident and no longer afraid. Armed and powerful. In this way, as they grow up, because they are not afraid of hardship and can endure hardship, they have quietly gained many more life skills than those children who can only cry tired and in pain. Every hardship the child endures now can give him one more choice in the future. Don\’t be afraid of your child crying anymore. You can still protect this little child now. When one day, he is all alone and bleeding, are you really sure you can still protect him behind you? What parents can give their children is ability rather than comfort. It is better to teach a person to fish than to teach a person to fish. What we parents should give our children is a pair of fishing rods that can feed themselves and teach them how to survive, instead of trapping their children in the small world built by their parents, just like boiling frogs in warm water, gently strangling the child\’s ability to survive independently. . What we want to give our children is ability, not comfort. When training children\’s ability to endure hardships, they may still cry and cry with tears when they first face difficulties. Every step is difficult, but isn\’t that what growth is like? We have experienced it before, so we have the courage and confidence to be the parents of a child. When your child has the ability to endure hardship, he will be grateful for your choice and will not be afraid to dodge when faced with the storms of life. Put your children to the test! There is actually no harm in suffering a little more. Watching your children become stronger, independent, and confident little by little during the test, you will find that it turns out that the way you blindly give is not good-looking at all. As the old man often says, \”It\’s a small hardship but a big hardship.\” You give your children gold and silver, but you don\’t teach your children how to live on their own. When it\’s all squandered, you really can\’t bear to watch your beloved children become life. The beggar in front of you? Love should be given early, and hard education should be given early. As parents, we must not let the education of hardship be absent from our children\’s lives. Teaching our children to endure hardship is worth tens of millions of wealth!