Why do you feel so heartbroken when a 3-year-old girl and a 23-year-old man eat and sleep together?

Rui\’s mother has always been a loyal fan of \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”. From the first season to the fourth season, it can be said that she never stopped watching every episode. However, as she watched, Rui\’s mother, like many viewers, felt more and more that something was wrong with this show. In the fourth season of \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, in addition to three biological father-son pairs, there are also three powerful dads, one of whom is the 23-year-old fencer Dong Li. Joining him in the show is a 3-year-old girl named Ala Lei. At the beginning, the close interaction between Dong Li and Ala Lei on the show made many people cute. Everyone felt that this temporary father and daughter were very loving and warm. However, due to the deliberate guidance of the program team and the distorted interpretations of some media and fans, the two people\’s style became increasingly inappropriate. There is an unaired episode between the two. Arale said to Dong Li: \”When I grow up, my mother will marry me to you.\” After this episode was broadcast on Weibo, it quickly became a hot search topic. Many netizens also left messages on Dong Li\’s Weibo, and the comments were all kinds of monsters and monsters. They talked about spreading dog food, abusing dogs, giving out sweets, let\’s fall in love. Some netizens even made a weird MV, with the good father and daughter paired with background music like \”Confession Balloon\”. The interaction between the little girl and the adult man was inexplicably blown up by countless ambiguous pink bubbles. Children are innocent and childlike, but the post-editing, subtitle and behind-the-scenes production, network-wide publicity and promotion, and network press releases of the program \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” all focus on promoting this \”temporary father and daughter\” couple. , what is the purpose? Especially this clip, just listening to it is very embarrassing: wearing only an adult man\’s clothes, half of the shoulders are exposed, bare legs talking to an adult man, this is what a 3-year-old girl should do The image you show in front of the camera? Even if the original intention of the program team was not this, when netizens are constantly advocating \”Leili CP\”, shouldn\’t they come forward to guide public opinion? At least we shouldn’t contribute to such a distorted interpretation, right? And Dong Li himself has said many times in front of the media, \”The type of girl I like is Ala Lei\” and \”I already have a girlfriend, it\’s Ala Lei.\” As an adult, it doesn\’t feel right to say such things in public. What\’s wrong? I believe he is not malicious, his thoughts are not that dirty, and he has no experience, but it is ill-considered to make such an example on a public platform. Under the guidance of the program crew, guests and some netizens, this so-called \”father-daughter couple\” is becoming a \”couple couple\” in sheep\’s clothing. Articles like this are everywhere on mainstream websites: \”Where Are We Going, Dad\” was originally A program created to show the warm side of celebrity families. It was originally intended to convey good values, allowing the audience to see the relationship between celebrities and their children, find appropriate education methods, and realize the difficulties in getting along with their children. Which ones are not done well enough. But now the father-daughter relationship is being promoted and maliciously hyped, which has deviated from the original intention, and the consequences it has produced are unimaginable. First of all, this may cause many \”expectant fathers\” and \”new fathers\” to receive wrong guidance on raising children from the beginning. Seeing Dong Li andArale\’s way of getting along with her is very warm and loving. She may mistakenly think that this way of getting along with her children is correct, which may affect the children\’s sexual enlightenment when they grow up. Secondly, this kind of bad induction will make children lower their vigilance and make parents ignore potential dangers. We all know that Arale is safe, but some people say that Arale did not sleep with Dong Li, but with the female staff member, and then put her on Dong Li\’s bed in the morning. But the audience doesn’t know, what we see is just edited scenes, which will make girls of Alale’s age think, “The uncle I like can change my clothes and sleep with me, and I can also marry him.” , relax your vigilance towards strangers, and the self-protection that you have spent a lot of time educating must continue to be strengthened. Programs are a small matter, but education is a big deal. Children are young and should not have to pay for the entertainment world they have become. Finally, as the so-called prostitute sees prostitution, this combination will lead some people with ulterior motives and evil intentions to play the seemingly friendly \”Dad Dong\”. Once misguidance is caused, it can never be undone. Whether in the news or around us, children are often harmed, abducted, and sexually assaulted. According to statistics, a sexual assault incident occurs almost every day. As one of the most watched programs, it should teach children and parents to improve their awareness of self-protection, and remind parents to provide correct sex and safety education to their children from an early age. I really appreciate what Xia Keli did in the third season. When Xuanxuan \”peeped\” at Xia Xia\’s bath, he told Xuanxuan that \”men and women are different.\” He would also tell his daughter that \”private places should be protected and not shown to others.\” \”If a boy wants to kiss you, tell him He can\’t have random kisses.\” Regarding sex education, many parents find it difficult to talk about it because they are shy and ignore it. Rui\’s mother feels that there is really nothing to be ashamed of. Sex education should start from the time the child is born. Especially before the age of 6, children must be taught to protect themselves. First of all, parents must have a correct attitude. If you find it difficult to talk about it, be careful when talking to your children. Originally, your children do not think it is mysterious and will be affected by your attitude and state. Because when a child never understands, he will learn sexual knowledge like general knowledge and will not have a special attitude towards it. Therefore, parents’ attitudes in education are also very important. Parents can provide sex education to their children in daily life. For example, when TV involves physiological knowledge, opposite-sex interactions, sexual knowledge, etc., you can take this opportunity to talk to your children. Or you can choose a leisure time to talk to your child, and try to make things natural rather than deliberate, so that your child feels that this is a normal thing and a part of life. Before the age of 4, parents can simply tell their children which parts of the body are not allowed to be seen, let alone touched. After the age of 4, parents can educate their babies on self-protection through some simple drawings. Correct sex education will help children better cope with the problems of getting along with the opposite sex during their growth and even after they grow up. Children will always be exposed to sexual aspects as they grow up.knowledge, but you don’t know whether what your children know is correct and complete. As a parent, it is necessary to ensure that your children receive correct sex education.