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What kind of children will be successful and promising in the future? I believe that everyone has different standards of measurement in their mind. In Rui’s mother’s view, children with the following qualities will be more likely to be successful and promising in the future. Children with a proud heart We often tell our children to be humble and not to be arrogant. However, many of us have overlooked one point. Children can be humble on the outside, but they must be proud in their hearts. Rui\’s mother\’s upper bunk in college was a very humble and peaceful girl. Although she looked quiet and unconcerned, she was always holding back a certain energy in her bones. Perhaps due to abnormal performance or bad luck, she failed in the first college entrance examination and could only barely get into an ordinary undergraduate course. Unconvinced, she repeated her studies for a year and finally got admitted to her favorite study. In her senior year, she had the opportunity to be admitted to a graduate school in her school, but she resolutely refused, studied hard, and got admitted to a better university as a graduate student. Nowadays, she is a senior leader of a well-known Internet and a person who is respected by our peers. In front of her, we were really embarrassed to speak, for fear of being suspected of being imitating her. We old classmates all understand that what made her reach this day is not her extraordinary IQ or luck, but the energy in her heart, the determination to do great things herself. It is precisely because of this determination that she can endure any hardships and persevere through gritted teeth and perseverance, which is why she is as admirable as she is today. Children who like to find solutions when faced with problems. Some children either make excuses to shirk responsibility when faced with problems, or hang high and wait for others to solve them. However, some children, when faced with problems, like to find solutions and rely on their own strength and wisdom to solve them. Rui Rui\’s father was on a business trip on the weekend, so I took Rui Rui to my grandma\’s house to have a meal. My mother-in-law just bought a bottle of tempeh from the supermarket and wanted to open it for cooking, but she couldn\’t open it no matter what. Grandpa Ruirui and I also twisted it several times, but to no avail. When he was about to use a tool to pry it open, he heard Ruirui say, \”Try it by scalding it with hot water.\” yes! Thermal expansion and contraction! The three of us adults were stunned and didn\’t think of this. After opening it, the mother-in-law happily kissed her grandson a few times: \”Our Ruirui is so smart!\” In fact, this is really a very simple question, but Ruirui did not show off when faced with this question. Regardless of his high-spirited attitude, he is also actively helping us think of solutions. Children who like to make excuses when faced with problems focus on shirking responsibility; children who like to find solutions when faced with problems focus on learning and research. One looks to the past, the other looks to the future. Children who value and know how to manage time Time management is very important for everyone. People who are good at managing time can always complete tasks efficiently and achieve good results. An efficient person must also have a sense of time and be good at arranging time reasonably. This is undoubtedly crucial for both adults who take work as their main responsibility and children who take learning as their main occupation. Many younger children often have no concept of time. They think that there is plenty of time and they can never use it up.Therefore, they generally do not realize the importance of time. Moreover, children have poor self-control ability. They often eat and play at the same time; before one thing is finished, they are thinking about another thing; their work is always messy and lacks organization. Therefore, parents must help their children establish a clear concept of time, learn to manage time, and become the masters of time. Well-educated children are not as good as being raised in poverty or rich in education. Every child should learn to smile and say hello openly to leave a good impression on others; every child should keep their promises, such as \”I\’ll lend you that book\” and \”Let\’s eat together next time\”. They are all small agreements; every child should learn to do their own things as much as possible, without bothering others, and try to do as little as possible to help others, waste time and trouble others. If you trouble others, you should actively thank them and don\’t force others to make things difficult for you. Each child should try his best to do his own things and not trouble others. Try to do as little as possible to waste time and trouble others. If you trouble others, you should actively thank them and don\’t force others to make things difficult… Because what determines how far a person can go is not how high a person\’s IQ is, but whether he has the education to deal with others. Efficient Children Many people, not just children, but also adults, lack efficiency in learning and work. Although many adults often work overtime, the reason for working overtime is often because normal working time is wasted by browsing Taobao and checking Moments; many students stay up late every night to study, which seems to work very hard, but in fact it is because they do not pay attention to the lectures in class and complete the tasks that should be done. The homework was not completed in time. When Rui\’s mother was studying, she found that the students with particularly good academic performance were the ones who slept the most and had the most fun. Really good study is not achieved by staying up late or doing so-called stupid work, but by focusing and efficiency. Efficiency is an essential survival condition in today\’s society, and only those with high efficiency can stand out. Just like starting from the same starting point, the winner is the one who reaches the finish line fastest.