Accidentally becoming a stumbling block for children, this incident has awakened millions of families

There is no parent in the world who doesn\’t love their children, but sometimes our love becomes a stumbling block in their children\’s life. Let us learn how to love our children better. Don’t be your child’s baton, learn to be your child’s guide. My neighbor Lao Liu’s son has been very fond of literature since he was a child, but Lao Liu had to let his child study science. He felt that liberal arts subjects would not have much potential. Later, his son followed his wishes and passed the exam. An unsatisfactory engineering college. Later, after the child graduated and started working, he secretly applied for a liberal arts graduate degree at a prestigious university without telling Lao Liu, and was successfully admitted with high scores. Only then did Lao Liu understand that what the child really wanted was What. As parents, what we can do for our children is to provide a good learning and living environment, share some of our life wisdom with them, give them positive suggestions at critical moments in life, and let them decide their own future. We should not overstep our authority and make our own decisions, otherwise our children may resent us for the rest of their lives. Although there will be wind and rain, there will be rainbows on the way children grow up, although there will be darkness, there will be dawn, although there will be cold winter, there will also be spring. There is a kind of love called letting go, let our children breathe freely, give him freedom once, and he will definitely give you a blue tomorrow. Don’t be your child’s crutch, learn to be your child’s wings. I have a junior high school classmate with very good grades. When I was a student living on campus, he could go home for dinner every day. I was particularly envious. No matter where he went, her Parents will rent a school district house near the school. But I remember one time during a chemistry experiment class, he seemed to me to be unable to do even the most basic experiments, and in the end he failed the class. Later I learned that he was a person with very poor hands-on ability. At home, his parents only needed him to study hard and never asked him to do anything else. Slowly, he became a person with no hands-on ability. This cannot but be said to be the tragedy of family education. Maybe it’s because we love our children and devote ourselves to learning for them, but we accidentally educate our children to become disabled. Without our crutches, the children can’t walk independently, let alone be independent. Good education is to slowly turn the crutches used by children to stumble into wings for children to fly. Let go of the child, believe in the child, and allow him to fully develop his abilities. One day he will eventually spread his wings and fly. Don’t be your child’s nanny, learn to be your child’s mirror. My nephew has been doted on by my sister-in-law since he was a child. At the age of eight, he still needs his parents to feed him, otherwise he won’t eat. But my sister-in-law was afraid that he would be hungry, so she had to feed him bite by bite. I looked very angry and felt very sad. I\’m angry that my nephew is so squeamish. I\’m sad that the child\’s parents dote on him so much. How will the child take care of himself in the future? We can help our children do everything when they are young. One day, when they grow up, they will also look forward to the outside world, make new friends, and find jobs… Can we stay with her and be her lifelong protector? ? If our children suddenly realize one day that they know nothing and are useless, will they blame us? The correct education is not to be the child\’s nanny, but to learn to be the child\’s mirror. Nanny means that we completely package the child\’s life.The mirror is our role model for our children. We use our words and deeds to influence our children, subtly letting them know what to do and how to do better, so that they can reap the joy of growing up through their own little progress. Good parents know how to let go at the right time and let their children make their own choices; good parents do not always be a crutch for their children, but slowly give their children wings to fly; good parents do not just be full-time nannies for their children, but also know how to A child\’s mirror to illuminate a child\’s life. A child is not just your child, he is himself first. Learn to respect your child and let him grow up to be himself. May your child make progress little by little, grow up day by day, and one day he will spread his wings and fly!