Let children take the initiative to fall in love with learning, and it will be difficult not to improve their grades!

Recently, a friend of mine happily said that her daughter, who used to cry and didn\’t want to go to school, is now very happy every time she goes to school because she has a super close friend in school and she longs to see her every day. Indeed, the prerequisite for children to like learning is to feel the joy of going to school. This joy may be liking classmates, teachers, school, or being curious about learning new knowledge. Therefore, as a parent, there is no need to spend too much time on improving your children\’s grades. The most important thing is to find ways to make your children fall in love with school and learning. There is a proverb: \”When a horse reaches the river, it is only a matter of time that he drinks water.\” As long as children maintain their interest in school and enthusiasm for learning, sooner or later their grades will improve. Let children have their own circle of friends and desire to interact with classmates. Friends are very attractive to children because they yearn to interact and play games with their friends. They can gain recognition from their peers or learn from them. Something you don’t have yourself. Whether in school or in an interest class, children will be happier and more confident if they have a good friend. Especially when children need to adapt to a new environment, having good friends can make children feel more secure, and they can discuss things with each other without feeling timid. Good interpersonal relationships will make children\’s study and life more interesting. Parents can step up and help their children when necessary. When children first arrive in an unfamiliar environment, parents may wish to take advantage of the opportunity to pick up and drop off their children or use the WeChat group to chat with other parents, find classmates who can play with their children, and create opportunities for the children to play more together. If the child is attending an interest class or learning a new skill, try to let the child find a friend he or she likes to spend time with. In addition to studying time at school, give your children more opportunities to get along with their classmates after school or during holidays, such as doing homework together, going on outings, gatherings with parents and children, etc. Having a few good friends among classmates is like having a few \”magnets\” for children to go to school, making them eager to see their classmates every day. This is the first step for children to like going to school. Only when children like the teacher and look forward to meeting the teacher and getting to know the teacher can they believe in his teaching. If a child likes the teacher, then he is willing to learn what the teacher teaches and can seriously complete the tasks taught by the teacher. Therefore, parents should guide their children to like teachers. Every teacher has characteristics. Parents should turn their characteristics into advantages and make positive comments in front of their children, so that children can respect the teacher in their hearts and become more motivated to learn. A friend of mine is very good at this. When my child first entered elementary school, he said to her: \”Mom, I like our Chinese teacher because she has a good temper. But I don\’t like our math teacher because she is very strict.\” My friend said: \”Oh my God, you are so lucky. Well, a gentle teacher can make you feel the warmth of the school, and a strict teacher can make you feel the order of the school. This is really a perfect match.\” The children think it makes sense, and gradually no longer reject the strict teacher. . When her daughter was learning piano, her friends often talked to her about \”your piano teacher\’s posture is so beautiful when she plays the piano\”, \”she speaks so softly\” or \”piano teacher\”It’s amazing, you can spot problems in playing the piano right away.” etc. That’s why her daughter likes the piano teacher very much and looks forward to seeing the teacher every time. She has never felt that playing the piano is a boring thing, no matter what the teacher arranges. She will work hard to complete any task. Not only that, she often discovers the advantages of teachers together with her children. For example, the music teacher has a nice voice, and the physical education teacher although very serious, has a cute smile, etc. So every time her daughter goes to school They are all very happy and looking forward to meeting their dear teachers. Parents can also praise their children more for teachers. For example, tell their children, \”Today, your teacher XX said that you have made great progress recently\” and \”This time at the parent-teacher meeting, your teacher XX said that you have made great progress recently\” \”Praise you for being very polite.\” If you say similar words in front of children, over time, the relationship between the child and the teacher will be closer, making the child like the teacher more. If the child likes the teacher, he will be happy at school, and there will be a good teacher-student relationship. , is also one of the reasons why children like to go to school. Let the child know that the school will help him solve his problems, and he will be curious and interested in learning. Children are naturally eager to learn, and a two-year-old baby will constantly ask: \”What is this?\” \”Three or four-year-old babies will keep asking: \”Why? \”When a five- or six-year-old child encounters a problem, he or she will ask, \”What does this mean?\” \”When parents tell their children about problems, they can deliberately explain them to their children. Parents also know this through continuous study and schooling. My daughter often asks me some questions, such as \”Why does it rain in summer and rain in winter? Snow? When I told her, I would say by the way, \”I seem to know the answer from Chinese textbooks and science classes.\” \”How are electric lights made?\” \”The question you asked is really profound. I didn\’t know about it until I took the physics class in junior high school.\” \”So my daughter has been full of yearning for school since she was a child, knowing that the school will help her solve more problems. She often looks forward to saying, \”I really want to learn this lesson quickly,\” and \”I really hope that I can take natural classes now. \”Physics class sounds so interesting, I really want to take it,\” etc. When my daughter was young, I read with her and told her, \”When you go to elementary school and know a lot of words, you can be like your mother.\” What an interesting story! \”She likes to watch movies, and some of them are only in English originals, so I said to her, \”It doesn\’t matter if you don\’t understand it now. When you start learning English, as long as you study hard, you will be able to understand all these good movies in a short time.\” . \”As parents, we have a tight heart. By connecting many opportunities in life with our children\’s learning, we can let our children understand that learning is not a chore, but an extremely happy and fun-filled journey of exploration. Let our children\’s Children like to be praised and encouraged when their sense of achievement is satisfied. Therefore, when a child achieves something, parents should give him encouragement in a timely manner so that the child can feel the recognition and affirmation of the parent. When the daughter knows some words, she can walk on the road and After naming many stores, I encouraged her and said, \”That\’s great. It\’s different now that you\’re in the first grade. You didn\’t know these before.\” When my daughter was studying mathematics, I took her to the supermarket near my home to buy some. Things, handing over money, changing money, calculating money, I let her try it, every timeEvery time she said it right, the cashier would give her words of appreciation, and she felt very proud. My daughter was learning to dance. One time she almost fell down while walking but she stood up again. I said with appreciation, children who have learned dancing are different. Their balance is better than that of ordinary people. If they had not practiced dancing, they would have fallen down long ago. Oh. With constant praise and encouragement from parents, children will feel a sense of accomplishment in learning. With the continuous satisfaction of the sense of achievement, children also become more and more confident, and self-confidence is the basis for children to succeed in doing things. I remember reading a very touching saying: The highest level of assistance is to make children feel happy in doing things. As parents, we all hope that our children will have a happy childhood and an adult that is not humble. Then we should try our best to guide our children to feel the joy of learning, because children who can feel happiness in learning will have poor grades. It would be too bad.