The rate of children getting lost is highest at the end of the year. For the safety of your children, please test your children in this way.

​At 11 o\’clock this morning, when I was sitting on the subway home after a psychological consultation, I met a beautiful, young-looking woman with neatly combed hair, dragging a blind old lady to beg. Such beggars have long been common on the subway. I glanced at them indifferently, wondering whether the old lady was really blind or just pretending to be blind. At this moment, the young woman knelt down, and I saw that the back of her head was bandaged with a large piece of gauze. Because her hair was tied up, if she hadn\’t knelt down in front of me, I would have I will never pay attention to this piece of gauze. In order to make sure that I was not dazzled, I stared at it carefully for a long time to confirm that it was a piece of medical gauze. This means there must be a wound on her head. What kind of injury is serious enough to be bandaged with gauze? What can I do to have such a serious wound on the back of my head? ? Suddenly, I felt a strong sadness in my heart. This injury should be caused by man! Was this girl abducted? She must have endured a lot of inhuman torture, and was often beaten and scolded by traffickers, right? Otherwise, how could such a young girl put aside all her dignity and kneel down to beg on the subway? Watching her dragging the \”blind\” old lady slowly away, I felt extremely sad. It is difficult to rewrite this woman\’s fate. This is all caused by hateful human traffickers! About 250,000 children go missing in China every year. On average, nearly 700 children are abducted every day, and only 0.1% are found. This means that once a child is lost, the chance of being found is very low. And every year when the New Year is approaching, it is the period when bad guys are most rampant. The idea of ​​making a fortune and going home to celebrate the New Year makes those crazy guys unscrupulous. Now it is self-evident what a child means to a family. I once chatted with a friend at the Shanghai Police Headquarters and learned that since there are more and more infertile families nowadays, many people will do whatever it takes to get a child. It is precisely because of this situation that there is a huge market demand for child trafficking. If it is just abduction, there may still be hope of recovery. What is even more frightening is that the environment is now seriously polluted and more and more children are suffering from terminal diseases. Some children need organ transplants, but they cannot get organs through formal channels, so they are Turning to the black market, many abducted older children are sacrificed for illegal organ transplants. At the end of each year, it can be said that the rate of missing children will enter a peak period! There are many large-scale outdoor activities and huge crowds. Children can easily get lost if you are not careful, not to mention the bad guys who are out at the end of the year. These words in the chat really made my hair stand on end! There was once a video circulating on YouTube. What does it take to kidnap a child? The result of the experiment is that one puppy is enough! The following is a video of this experiment conducted in the United States. In the more than 3-minute video, Joey accosted three children on the street with a dog in his arms, and said, \”I have many equally cute dogs at home, you have to follow me.\” Let’s take a look.” He successfully tricked three children into following him. The mothers watching all this not far away were shocked, because according to them, \”Almost every day we educate our children not to talk to strangers.\” As their children grow up, many parents sometimes relax their vigilance. Here is a reminder to all parents, at the end of the year and the end of the year, when taking your children out, you must be vigilant and don\’t let your children out of your sight for a second. In daily life, we should strengthen safety education for children so that children can truly learn to protect themselves. The sharing that Yue Hua wrote today was based on discussions with friends from the Shanghai Police Headquarters. She recommended that everyone take the test at home every now and then. Doing so is very meaningful for the child\’s personal safety. Parents may wish to ask their children often. At the same time, it reveals the methods commonly used by human traffickers, parents should keep it in mind! To prevent being abducted by bad guys, you can often test your children: 1. Test your children: What should you do when a stranger asks you to lead the way? Mom and Dad tell you: If someone asks you for directions on the road, you should enthusiastically give them directions, but if they ask you to show them the way, you should be alert. Even if it is a place you are very familiar with, even if it is not far from where you are, you should not do not go. You can politely tell him: \”Mom and Dad won\’t let me go with strangers. You can go to the intersection and ask the police to help you lead the way.\” If a stranger pesters you, you must shout loudly to attract the attention of passers-by. 2. Test your children: What should you do if you meet a stranger and ask him to eat? Mom and Dad tell you: If someone offers you something to eat, you must politely decline. Many bad guys look kind, but they often take advantage of children\’s inability to tell the truth from lies and their greedy mouth to lure you into their trap. They often put drugs in food. After eating these foods, you may fall asleep, and bad guys will take the opportunity to kidnap you. If you have firmly stated that you will not eat and the other person still pesters you, then shout loudly to attract the attention of the people next to you. 3. Test your children: On Sunday, you play alone in the garden. A stranger tells you that your father was hit by a car and is in the hospital for emergency treatment. He wants you to go with him to see your father. At this time, what should you do? Mom and Dad tell you: ①Don’t believe his words easily, maybe he is a bad person who lied to you. ②Write down the person’s facial features. If he has a car, remember his license plate number. ③Continue to walk your way. If he still insists on following you, call for help while looking for the policeman and report the situation to the policeman. ④If you can’t find the police temporarily, go to a crowded place. ⑤Call home or dad’s office to confirm if something happened to dad. 4. Test your children: You are happily walking on the way to school, and suddenly a vicious-looking stranger asks you to get in his car. What should you do? Mom and Dad tell you: ①Don’t panic, shout “help” loudly, and try to break free. ②Run to crowded or busy places, such as shopping malls, supermarkets, etc., and ask for help from guards or security personnel. ③Tell nearby businesses or adults and ask them to help notify family, school or call the police. ④If you are caught in the car, although you will be very scared at this time, you must stay calm and don\’t make any noise to avoid irritating the bad guys and causing you harm. ⑤ Try to remember the appearance, characteristics, clothing, age and license plate number of the bad guy, and remember the roads the car traveled on, distinctive buildings. ⑥If a bad guy asks for your home phone number and the names of your parents, try your best to cooperate and satisfy his request to minimize the chance of being harmed. 5. Test your children: If you are walking alone on the road and find a suspicious stranger following you behind your back, what should you do? Mom and Dad tell you: ① If you find yourself being followed, it is best to go to a crowded place. If there is a police station nearby or you see a traffic policeman directing traffic, quickly ask the police to assist you. ② If you can\’t find the police, you can go to a department store or store, borrow a phone from the clerk, and ask a family member to pick you up. ③ Be careful not to be chased into alleys or dead ends by bad guys. If you encounter such a situation, don’t be embarrassed and ring other people’s doorbells or shout “help”. ④ You can always carry a whistle with you. When you encounter a bad guy, blow the whistle hard to attract the attention of passers-by and scare away the bad guys. ⑤Be careful when going out, pay attention to the movements around you, and try not to walk alone on dark and remote roads, so as not to give criminals an opportunity. ⑥ Go with classmates on the way to and from school, or ask your parents to pick you up and drop you off within a certain period of time. Revealing the tricks used by human traffickers A. Pretending to ask for help is a common method used by scammers to deceive children. They take advantage of children\’s sympathy and curiosity, such as: Can you help me find my puppy? Response: Tell the child that if a stranger asks him to follow him to another place, he must not go. When encountering this situation, ask the child to ignore the other person and go to his classmates or teacher immediately. B. Scare scammers in this situation often use it to scare children who are walking alone. He would say, \”Follow me. If you don\’t, I will beat you.\” Response: Tell your children that they should walk with their classmates after school, or wait for their parents to pick them up at the school gate, and they cannot walk alone on the road. If you encounter this situation, run away quickly and shout for help. C. Sugar-coated bombs are aimed at children’s love of eating. Some scammers will tell children, I want to buy chocolate, do you want it? Response: Tell your children that they cannot eat anything given by people outside the family, otherwise they will be abducted and will never see their parents again. D. Making up stories. Scammers will also make up stories to deceive children. For example, your father is in an accident, your mother is in the hospital, and you asked me to pick you up, etc. Response: Tell your child that if anything happens at home, including parents, you will tell him directly and will not let anyone else tell him. If her parents have something to do and ask others to pick her up, they will call the teacher first and will not let others pick her up and take her home. If something like this happens, just ignore it or go to the office to find the teacher. E. Make good use of pretending to smile and even be amiable. This will make you relax your vigilance and make you think that he just wants to play with the child, and then take the child away when you are not prepared. In some busy places such as supermarkets or wet markets. Parents will ignore their children when picking vegetables, but when they look back for them, they have disappeared. The old man took his child back to his hometown and met a fellow villager at the train station. He left the child with the fellow villager to take care of him while he packed his luggage or went to the toilet. But in the blink of an eye, the fellow villager disappeared. Liu Tao once shot a film in which exactlyI encountered a human trafficker who was good at using disguises. It can be said that everyone was afraid of this video at that time, and this method of human traffickers was even more likely to be encountered during the peak period of the Spring Festival travel rush. Yuehua reminds: The importance of every child to a family is self-evident. Losing a child may mean the breakdown of a family. If you usually tell your children some self-protection and self-rescue methods, they may remember them at the time, but forget them after a while. The only way for children to master it is through role play and drills. After many drills, they can gradually master the essentials. In family games, parents can design a variety of possible situations, ask questions to their children, test their response capabilities, and practice how to maintain communication between parents and children. At the same time, older children, such as children aged 1-3, can choose anti-lost bags, and children aged 4-6 can choose to wear child positioning watches to reduce the possibility of getting lost. For mothers, the best way to protect their children is to never leave them alone under any circumstances. When you take your child out, don\’t look away from your child for a second. We also hope that the country can improve the law, provide heavy legal penalties to human traffickers, and save each child\’s information files through technology, so that they can be quickly retrieved after being lost, and avoid the tragedy of more lost children. Behind the disappearance of a child may be the breakdown of a family!