My child, don’t settle for second best and break your wings to fly.

Because I have written some articles about education before, some teachers from middle schools and even universities have shared them with students in class. Many children followed the pictures and followed my WeChat official account. There is a kid named Pengpeng, a junior high school student, who occasionally leaves messages behind my backstage. Most of them talked about how to get along with classmates, parents didn\’t care about him, etc. They never talked about studying. Last week, he left me another message: Teacher Su, my parents are getting divorced. They are arguing so much every day that I really want to leave this home. I had no intention of studying at all. In the final exam last semester, I ranked fifth from the bottom in my class. I didn\’t let my parents attend the parent-teacher meeting, and they didn\’t know yet. I just go to school every day and just go about my day, taking it one day at a time. Anyway, I think it doesn’t make much difference whether I go to school or not. I have a cousin who didn’t go to school. He went to work in other places at the age of fifteen, doing sales. Now he is living a good life, driving a car everywhere. What do you think? I replied to him: My child, you can’t change the original ecological family, so you should change your attitude towards growing up. Since ancient times, heroes have emerged as young men. You have a great time of youth, so you must not choose to mix. In my experience, if you muddle along, you will inevitably find that life will give you fewer and fewer choices, and hardship will become a lingering theme for you. My old neighbor was an English teacher who was a class teacher. The teachers in her class were very good, but every time she took the test, she ranked very low in the grade. The principal congratulated her, and Xiaohui said that she had been wronged in every possible way, saying that she had tried her best and had paid no less than other teachers. She investigated and found out that the students in her class who were very lagging behind had divorced parents and were living with their grandparents or grandparents. The old people are reluctant to take care of their children due to the pain of being separated from their parents and the lack of love from their fathers and mothers, and they don’t know how to take care of them. After all, we are children and it is difficult to exercise self-discipline. Some children just indulge themselves and just go to school every day. They don’t know where to put their minds, and they just go to school for a holiday. She said that the best way to treat these children in their class is to show more care and let them feel that they have not been abandoned by the world, gain confidence and be themselves. I also hope that my encouragement can be of some help to Pengpeng. A senior girl named Junko said to me: Teacher Su, I am about to take the college entrance examination and I am so tired every day. My parents are ordinary workers who have lived frugally all their lives. They hope that I will get into a good university such as 211 or 985, and then find a good job to improve my quality of life. But I think it’s enough to go to an ordinary university, find an ordinary job, and be a happy ordinary person. There’s no need to push yourself to death, right? what do you think? I told her my story without replying directly to her. In fact, that\’s what I thought at the beginning. Apart from the unattainable dream of being a writer, my biggest dream is to be a person who applauds on the roadside. I went to school casually and went to work carelessly. I did nothing but felt ordinary was valuable. I thought it would be quite comfortable to live a life without desires and pursuits. However, when I met fate face to face, I was unable to fight back and had to give in all the way. However, the attitude of compromise and compromise not only failed to make meThe quiet month is good, but the road to career becomes narrower and narrower. It is not enough to talk about life without crying for a long night. When I was once again forced into a dead end in life, facing the vast night sky and sobbing softly, I finally understood that I would have to pay for what I had deceived in the past. What\’s the use of crying? Tears can only win sympathy; sweat can win applause. So I started to work up 120% of my energy, let myself stand on tiptoes, upward, upward, and strive upward… Finally, I have never let down the years, and the years will no longer let me down. I have always wanted what I want. Something came quietly one morning. Australian speaker Nick Vujicic said: If you are about to give up on your dream and hold on for one more day, one more week, one more month, one more year, you will find that the results of refusing to quit are surprising. This world-class inspirational master was born without limbs, but he managed his life in a picturesque way. He tells people through his own experience: There is no limit to a life of hard work. My child, you are so young and have a lot of youth in your hands. As long as you are willing to maintain an upward attitude, your life will have countless possibilities. Don\’t let it pass and break your wings to pursue your dreams. Only by experiencing the life of climbing can you become more and more calm and calm, and you will have more opportunities to choose. Otherwise, it will be a passive life. The beauty of life is not to give up easily. How pale it would be to lose a life fighting against fate. Even a small goal can make you full of strength. If you always settle for the second best, you will keep sinking, sinking, sinking to the bottom, and it will be difficult to see the beautiful scenery. A few days ago, while watching CCTV\’s \”Chinese Poetry Conference\”, a contestant said something to his child when he was leaving: My child, the sooner you work hard, the sooner you will be lucky and become Lingyunmu. Yes. Effort is something with a flying attitude. It can take you through the mountains, up, up, up, and then soar freely among the blue sky and white clouds.